Iyini isikhathi sokungcebeleka esifanele kwengane? Yiqiniso, abazali bafuna ukuba izingane zabo zikhule ngokugcwele. Namuhla kunenani elikhulu lemidlalo ehlukene yemfundo, ezikoleni kukhona zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezintsha.
Ingane yakho isesikoleni samabanga aphansi.
1. Hamba ngqo ekhaya. Abanye abazali bakhetha ukuthi ingane yabo ngemuva kokuya esikoleni, lapho edla khona, ebabiza. Yiqiniso, isidlo sasekhaya sikamama siphunga kakhulu kunokudla kwesikole. Futhi kuwumqondo omuhle ukuchitha isikhathi esithulile. Kodwa lapha kunenkinga, ukuthi ungamlandela kanjani ingane ukuze aphumule, akazange azungeze. Futhi-ke ekufikeni kwabazali, ingane, ngokubukeza zonke izikhangiso kwi-TV, noma ukuhlala kukhompyutha ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukhathele uqala ukuqala izifundo. Ukuzikhandla akuyona yonke ingane yesikole. Futhi akusizi uma ubiza yonke iminithi bese uthola ukuthi ngabe wenza izibalo. Kulesi simo, kungcono ukuvumelanisa kusengaphambili, ngezikhathi ezithile izifundo kufanele zenziwe. Yebo, futhi ngeke kube buhlungu ukusetha inhlawulo yokuhluleka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane kufanele isisize endlini. Xoxa kusengaphambili - hamba esitolo, amazambane we-peel, ugeze izitsha, njll.
2. Isikhathi eside. Lapho indlu inogogo nomkhulu ongakwazi ukulawula ingane, kuhle. Futhi uma kungenjalo? Lapho abazali usuku lonke emsebenzini, futhi akekho ozokunakekela ingane, ukuhlala esandweni somfundi kungumphumela wabazali. Ngaphambi kokufika kwabazali, ingane ayishiyi esikoleni. Ngaphansi kokwengamela uthisha-uthisha, ingane izokwenza izifundo. Uma kunesidingo, uthisha uzokusiza ukuba wenze umsebenzi wesikole. Ukusebenzisa isikhathi esichitha lapha ngokuqondile kuncike othisha. Abahlala isikhathi eside bavame ukusebenza ngesimiso sokuthi: ukudla isidlo, ukuhamba ngaphandle, ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole ekilasini. Eqenjini lelanga elide lithatha bonke abafika. Izikole eziningi ziqhuba amakilasi. Kungaba ngumculo, ukudweba, njll. Uma ubhala ingane enwetsheni, angavakashela imibuthano enjalo ngesikhathi sakhe sokuphumula. Ngakho uzoba ngaphansi kokulawula futhi esebenzayo.
3. Imisebenzi yangaphandle. Inhloso yamakilasi ezigabeni noma emibuthanweni kuthatha isikhathi samahhala sabafundi, ukuze sibathandeke. Ngokuvamile ngoSepthemba izindlu zezingane zobuciko zinezinsuku ezivulekile. Wena nomntanakho ningaya ezifundeni ezinjalo, nibheke ngokucophelela. Kwenzeka ukuthi ingane ngesikhathi esisodwa yanquma ukubhalisa emibuthanweni engaba ngu-10 ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ungavumeli lokhu kukusabise. Masiqoshwe bese uqala ukuvakashela. Ngenyanga nje, uzokwazi ukunquma. Endaweni ethile ayithandi lokho okuningi. Endaweni ethile ngeke isebenze noma isimiso sokuvakashela ikhamera ngeke sikuvumelane nawe. Ngenxa yalokho, kuyoba nama-mugs 2-3 noma izigaba. Uma uthola ukuthi ingane inezinsuku zonke ezibhaliwe ngomzuzu, ungavumeli lokho kukusabise. Umthwalo onjalo uyala kuphela, uzokusiza ukuhlela isikhathi sakho ngendlela efanele. Kuyaziwa ukuthi umfundi ophethe isonto eligcwele lesikole nemisebenzi yesikhashana unesikhathi sokufunda futhi kangcono esikoleni.
Indlela yokuhlela isikhathi sokungcebeleka somfundi wesikole esiphakeme?
Kumntanakho uzizwa uthando lwabazali bakhe, udinga okungenani amahora ambalwa ongachitha naye. Izazi zengqondo ziye zaqaphela isikhathi eside ukuthi lapho abazali abanezingane bedlala, bukela i-TV, balalele izingoma, bahlangane nezingane zabo. Uma ingane yakho isebenzisa isikhathi sayo sonke samahhala kukhompyutha, lokhu kuphinda kubonise ukuthi abazali abanaso isikhathi noma bafisa ukuyisebenzisa enganeni. Zama ukuthakazelisa ingane ngokuzilibazisa. Izazi zengqondo zithi amakilasi athola injabulo, ukuvikelwa okuhle kakhulu kunoma yiziphi izinkinga zomuntu siqu. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba usondele ngokungathí sina ngale nkinga, yini okufanele uyenze ngokuzilibazisa? Lapha kufanele siqhubeke nomuntu wengane, izifiso zakhe kanye nezithakazelo zakhe. Yimiphi imibuthano yenzalo kuphela ayinikeli izikhungo zemisebenzi yangaphandle. Lo mdwebo, ukuqothula uboya, ama-studios ahlukahlukene, ama-vocal studios, ungazama isandla esiteji, njll.
Ezemidlalo nokudansa. Kungani ungazami eminye imidlalo? Isibonelo, i-aikido. Igama lihle futhi alivamile. U-Aikido umzabalazo ozofanelana kahle nabafana namantombazane. U-Aikido ufundisa kokubili ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi kanye nekhono lokuzimela kunoma yisiphi isimo. Lapha, wonke umntwana uzozuza imiphumela emihle. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zezemidlalo kuzo zonke ukunambitheka. Into esemqoka ukuwavakashela ngentshiseko. Ukuchitha isikhathi esihle futhi okuwusizo ukuvakashela esigabeni somdanso webhola. Ukudansa kwe-Ballroom akudonseli amantombazane kuphela, kodwa futhi nabafana. Ukudansa kwe-Ballroom kuyomfundisa ingane ukuthi ihambe kahle, izwe nomculo, kodwa futhi ihlale ihlala kahle. Kodwa into esemqoka akuphoqeleli ukuvakashela echibini, uma ingane iphupha ukwenza umculo futhi, ngokuphambene, ngokuphambene nalokho.
Ukuzilibazisa kwengqondo kwengane. Ngokuqondene nokuzilibazisa kwengqondo, ngakho-ke zonke izingane kufanele kube nokuphumula kwengqondo. Lokhu kuzoba yisisekelo solwazi olusha. Umuntu kufanele athuthukiswe ngokugcwele. Yebo, uma ingane inentshisekelo yokudlala i-chess noma abahloli. Le midlalo iyakwazi ukuthuthukisa amakhono ombalo wengane. Asikho isifiso sokubandakanya chess kanye nabahloli? Zama ukuthola isithakazelo ekudlala i-monopoly. Ngisho nomdlalo wama-mosaics awukhulumi nje kuphela ngomshini weminwe, kodwa futhi unakekele, ukucabanga okunengqondo.
Sikukwazisa ukuthi unake ukunakekelwa kokuzijabulisa okuhlukahlukene ngesikhathi. Yonke into yokuzilibazisa inesikhathi sayo. Isibonelo, emidlalweni ehlakaniphile, isikhathi esihle kakhulu kusuka emahoreni amathathu kuya ku-5 ngosuku. Ngalesi sikhathi, ubuchopho buyakwazi ukugxilisa ingqondo. Kusihlwa, kungcono ukuqhuba imidlalo ngezingane. Hlukanisa isikhathi sokuzilibazisa esebenzayo, futhi ingane iyokhulela umuntu onempilo nohlakaniphile.
Noma yiliphi igundane lihle ngendlela yazo, kodwa into esemqoka ukuthi iletha ingane injabulo. Ungazami ukugcwalisa sonke isikhathi samahhala wengane. Ngemuva kwalokho, kudingeka futhi abe nesikhathi sakhe siqu. Kungesikhathi sokukhululeka ukuthi ingane ifunde umhlaba, ibonisa. Konke kuhle ngokulinganisela.