Bukeka kahle
Kanye ngonyaka, udinga ukushintsha ifoni, njalo eminyakeni emihlanu - imoto, njalo ngemva kwezinyanga ezintathu ukuvuselela i-wardrobe ngokuphelele. Ukuphumula kufanele kusetshenziswe emahhotela amahle kakhulu eYurophu. ICrimea neTurkey - ngenxa yokulahlekelwa, i-dacha ngokuvamile ingaphezu kwemingcele yokuziphatha. Konke ngokusho kwemigqa yesimiso samanje "somuntu ophumelelayo." Ukuqiniswa okusebenzayo kwalesi sikhundla akukwenzi. Kodwa, naphezu kwenkinga, "umshini wobuchopho" uqhubeka ukusebenza ngamandla. Izithombe ezidalwa ngokuzikhethela zenhlalakahle zivuselela izinkampani zabathengi, ziphoqele ukuba zithenge, zithenge, zithengi - akunandaba ukuthi ezinye izinto ziyadingeka futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, zingakwazi ukuzikhokhela. Kodwa-ke, kungekudala kakhulu kwacaca: akunakwenzeka ukuchitha okuningi. Ukuze ugcine indlela efanayo yokuphila, udinga ukusebenza ngaphandle kokulala nokuphumula. Nakuba lokhu akuqinisekisi izinga elibhekwa "lifanele" emphakathini wabathengi. Ngakho-ke ukucindezeleka, izinkimbinkimbi nokuzinikela okuphelele ngaphambi kokuhlupheka kwengqalasizinda.
Ufunani?
Ithimba elibi kakhulu "umthengi basket" (iqoqo lezimpahla kanye nezinsizakalo ezidingekayo ngokufanele ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zomuntu eziqakathekile, ezisungulwe nguhulumeni), inothi, alibandakanyi izidlo zokudla, izinto zokunethezeka neziphuzo ezidakayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izintambo ezingaphansi kwezingubo, izingubo, izicathulo kanye nezinye izinto zokusebenzisa isikhathi eside zidinga ukubuyekezwa ngokusekelwe isikhathi esithile lapho into ephazamiseka khona, hhayi nje ngefashini. Yiqiniso, ukuba khona kwalolu hlu akuyona neze isizathu sokunikeza ngempela umfazi owodwa njalo eminyakeni emihlanu. Kodwa ukuzama ukuqonda umehluko phakathi kokuthi "Ngifuna" futhi "ngakho wamukelwa" ngeke kube okungenasisekelo. Imfuyo engaphelele ayikho. Ngisho nabantu abacebile kakhulu babhekene nokuntuleka kwezimali - ngisho naseziqhingini zabo, kodwa iqiniso lihlala. Ukuba nakho konke akunakwenzeka. Ukuthenga akukwazi ukunikeza injabulo. Ukhilimu ovela eqinile owaziwayo, ugqoke umklami, imoto enehhashi elingamamiliyoni ingaletha umuzwa wokwaneliseka, ujabule. Lokhu kungaphezulu. Akuyabizi yini ukuthi unqume ukukhokhela lezi zinto ezincane? Bonke abantu bahlukile, futhi azikho izindlela zokupheka zonke. Ukumangalela ukuthi uzothandana kule ndawo yokukhangisa, abakhangisi bangamanga uNkulunkulu - emva kwakho konke, awukho lapho, futhi akukho zizathu zokuhoxiswa okunjalo. Wonke umuntu - owakhe, futhi ungazivumeli ukuzigawula ngaphansi kwekhekhe elilodwa, ngisho nezwe lonke. Zibuze imibuzo, ungabaza isidingo sokuthenga. Uma uthola ngokushesha impendulo kubo, unga ... uvikele ngokuphepha ukuthenga. Isifiso sangempela asiqondakali. Ungakhohlwa ngalokho okuthiwa isinxephezelo. Wonke umuntu ushayela izimoto, futhi usendleleni engaphansi komhlaba? Kodwa ungahlali emigwaqeni yezimoto. Umyeni wonke umuntu ungumlandi, kodwa akunjalo? Kodwa uhlukile futhi uyingqayizivele kuye.
Ungesabi!
Ukulahla, ukulahlekelwa imali, ukwehla kwezinga lenhlalakahle - izenzakalo azijabulisi. Kodwa-ke, azikho izizathu eziyinhloso zokwesaba noma ukwesaba. Ukungaqiniseki ngekusasa akuyona izindaba ze-Ukraine. Inkinga, noma yimuphi omunye isikhathi se-perestroika, okokuqala, ukubhujiswa kwendlela yokuphila evamile. Ungesabi. Lokhu, njenganoma yisiphi esinye isimo, kufanele sisetshenziswe! Asiyesabi ubusika, kepha sigqoka amahle ombukiso wezinwele nokuhamba; asiyesabi imvula, sithathele indebe yetiye, sithathe incwadi ethakazelisayo futhi ujabulele isikhathi esingenalutho. Ngakho okokuqala, cabanga-ungayisebenzisa kanjani imibandela ehlongozwayo? Kulokhu, izifiso zakho ezinganeni zingakusiza - khumbula ukuthi ubani owafuna ukuba njengomntwana? Mhlawumbe ufanele uzame? I-psyche yabesifazane abaningi, ngenhlanhla, ayihluki ngokunyuka kokuqina. Lokhu kusivumela ukuba sibhekane kangcono nokucindezeleka okubangelwa izinguquko. Nokho, ngaphandle kokugqugquzela okwanele, izinguquko zokuphila kwamakhadikhadi kungaba yinto enamandla. Sinikeza izindlela ezingu-5 eziqotho zokugwema ukwesaba phakathi nezinguquko ezinkulu. Gcina engqondweni yonke uhlu lwezizathu ezenza ukuba ushintshe impilo yakho. Ungakhohlwa futhi ukuthi izinguquko akuzona nje kuphela ukwelashwa okungcono kakhulu kokukhathala nobuvila, kodwa futhi isinyathelo esandulele owenzile! Hlela okungenani esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Abantu abahleliwe nabahamba ngezinyawo kulula ukuthululela ezimweni ezintsha zokuphila. Izinguquko ezihleliwe zilahlekelwa isigamu sokucindezeleka. Lungiselela ukuhlangabezana ne "nostalgia": khumbula konke ukungaphumeleli kokuphila kwakho kwangaphambilini. Ukushintsha indawo yomsebenzi, umkhakha womsebenzi, indlela yokuphila, ngokuqinisekile uzothola umphumela we "flashback". Ukukhathazeka kuzokunika izihloko nezithombe ezifanelekile ukuba zenzeke esikhathini esedlule, ukuphefumula, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukukhala. Ngesikhathi sokubuthakathaka, "phuma emikhondeni yakho" ama-trumps efihlekile. Khumbula - akukona konke okukhanyayo! Kusuka kude konke kubukeka okukhangayo kakhulu kunokuba usuke kude, ungavumeli ukucasula okungaqondakali kwakho. Sombulula izinkinga njengoba zifika. Ekuphileni kwakho okusha, okokuqala kuzoba khona izinto ezincane ezikhathazayo nezicasulayo. Ukusebenzisa isimiso esidumile sika-Miss O'Hara "Ngizocabanga ngalokhu kusasa," ungesabi ngemizamo yokucabanga ukuthi konke kuyoba nzima kangakanani, unqume ekugcineni ushintsho lwezikhadi. Ungaxhunywanga kwizimfuno zakho zakudala. Ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi, sinqatshelwe "isanqante" enhle kakhulu ukuthi inkampani nomphakathi baphumelele phambi kwethu. Bekungaphansi kwethonya labo ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi kuhle ukufana nomlingisi uMary Bath, okunciphisa ibhalansi isigamu sehora futhi usebenza endaweni eyodwa iminyaka engama-40. Manje unquma ukuthi yini okuhle nokubi. Ngakho khetha izithombe ezintsha!
Ungayiqondi impela nhlobo ...
Inkinga, okokuqala, ukubhujiswa kwendlela yokuphila evamile. Ungesabi! Njengazo zonke izimo ezihlongozwayo, kudingeke ukuthi zisetshenziswe! Ukuze ushintshe impilo yakho, udinga ukuhamba ngendlela ende, ugcwele izithiyo nokuphikisa, kuhlanganise nalabo abaseduze. Ungachaza kanjani ukuthi uhlukile manje? Kunezindlela eziningana ezivivinywe isikhathi esizokwenza uvumele ukwenza "upike owenziwe" ngale ndlela ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa. Lungiselela izindlela zokuhamba. Into esemqoka abathandekayo bakho abesaba ngayo amaphutha. Kuthiwani uma ngemuva kokushintsha impilo yakho iba yimbi? Yazisa ngazo zonke izinhlelo zakho zokulondoloza. Akuyona into engafaneleki ukusibekela kancane lesi simo. Khuluma okuningi nomndeni wakho. Chaza izizathu zezenzo zakho, ukucacisa ngokucacile zonke izimo ezenze unqume ngokuguquguquka okunjalo okubukhali, mhlawumbe, okungalindelekile. Bonisa ukuzinza kwakho nokuzimisela kwakho. Thola amalungu omndeni ukuhlonipha izinqumo zakho. Ukubhekana nemiphumela yenkinga, sakha uhlelo olusha lwamagugu. Yisikhathi esihle sokukhula komuntu siqu.