Amantombazane ethu akwenziwe ngani?
Amantombazane ngokuvamile anesisindo esincane nokuphakama kokuzalwa kunabesilisa, athola kancane isisindo kancane kancane. Kukholelwa ukuthi amantombazane athuthukisa inkulumo ngokushesha, amakhono amaningi asebenzayo afundiswa, futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso.
Iqiniso liwukuthi kusukela ekuzaleni kuze kube sesikhathini esithile umsebenzi we-hemisphere engxenyeni yesobunxele (okuyiyona enesibopho senkulumo ethuthukile) emantombazaneni kunamandla kakhulu kunomsebenzi wokunene. Yingakho kulula ukuxhumana nabo, kulula ukuzitholela ezisha, kulula ukuchaza.
Kungathiwa ukuthi amantombazane alalela futhi aqaphele kunabantwana. Noma kunjalo, lokhu kuziphatha kunesichazo sayo - bafuna ukuthola imvume. Abafana, ngokuphambene nalokho, bavame ukwenza "okubi" noma "naphezu". Kulokhu baboshwa ngokubusa kwezwe elifanele lobuchopho, elibhekene nemizwelo.
Eminyakeni yokuguquka, isimo siyashintsha kakhulu. Abafana, abaqhuba wonke umuntu ngobuqili ngokuziphatha kwabo okubi, bakhuthazelela ukuguqulwa kwezinto eziyinhloko kwezwe elilodwa phezu kolunye kulula, kepha amantombazane avame ukuphikisana. I-modest yangaphambili iqala ukuphenduka "engahlelekile", abafundi abahloniphekile baba izingane ezineminyaka emithathu ubudala, njalonjalo.
Indodakazi kababa noma umama ka-ponytail?
Ngokuvamile abapapa bacabanga ukuthi imfundo yamantombazane ingumsebenzi womama kuphela. Ngingaba kanjani nobaba wami ukudlala nendodakazi yami ngamadonki noma ukubopha iminsalo yami? Kodwa lokhu akudingekile! Ubaba okhathalelayo ngempela uzothola okuthile okuyokwenza nendodakazi yakhe. Into esemqoka ukulalela ingane.
Indima kababa, njengomvikeli omuhle futhi omuhle, kubalulekile ukuthi intombazane ibe nokuqonda okulungile komndeni. Esikhathini esizayo, umyeni wakhe, uzoqhathaniswa ngokucophelela noyise.
Kakade esekhulile, umfana uzoqala ukudweba okuningi kuyise. Futhi le ntombazane isibonelo esihle kuyohlale umama. Amantombazane ane-rapture adlala ngezinto zezimama, izimonyo, bafunde ukusiza ezungeze indlu, badlale ngamadonki, bezama indima yomama. Ubaba onomusa onobulungisa uyadingeka ngezinhloso eziningi, kepha emfundweni yobuntombi, intombazane ayikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle komama!
Izinhlobo zezinhlamvu zamantombazane
Amantombazane ahlukile. Ahluke ekuziphatheni, ukubukeka, ukuziphatha. Futhi imfundo, yebo, inomthelela omkhulu ekuzihloneni nasekuziphatheni kwengane. Ungaphambani nomuntu wengane yakho futhi ungathukutheli. Vele ufunde indlela futhi ungakuqondisi kahle ngendlela efanele.
Imfundo nezinhlobo zobunikazi - izinto azihlukaniseki. Ngendlela yokuziphatha, singakwazi ukuhlukanisa izinhlobo eziyinhloko zabalingiswa bamantombazane:
The Princess
Lona uhlobo olusimanje kunazo zonke. Ubudala bomzali buyanda, abantwana emndenini bavame ukuvela lapho umama eseduze noma iminyaka engu-30. Uma owesifazane ezalwa intombazane, khona-ke uzama ukubamba kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka. Bavuzwa ngokuningi kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, emndenini lapho "i-princess" enjalo iphakanyiswa khona, igama lokugcina kunoma yikuphi okwenzelwe ingane. Ngokushesha nje lapho into ingekho ngaphezu kwayo, ngokushesha iqala ukuba ingenangqondo kanye ne-hysterical.
Emantombazaneni anjalo, ukubaluleka okuyinhloko ukubukeka okuhle, baxoxisana kuphela ngama-oda nokugcina. Uma ingane yakho ifanele kule ncazelo - udinga ukuthatha isinyathelo ngokuphuthumayo! Okokuqala, indodakazi yenkosikazi, ejwayele ukuyifuna, ngeke kube lula ukuhlala ezweni elidala, lapho kungekhona wonke umuntu oyozama ukumjabulisa. Ubani ongathanda lokhu ukwelashwa? Okwesibili, ungavumeli ubuhle bangaphandle bube yingqayizivele yengane. Phela, ngesikhathi sokuguquka, amantombazane avame ukuphenduka "idada elibi" okwesikhashana. Lokhu kuyoba yinto enzima kakhulu yomuntu ongobuhle ngaphandle kwakhe konke okunye. Okwesithathu, intombazane kumele iqonde ukuthi indodakazi yenkosi ayiyona idoli elihle futhi elihle. Lo ngumuntu, ngaphezu kwakho konke okunomusa, okulungile, okunakekelayo nokuqondile.
"Udoti olubi"
Lesi yisibonelo sendaba ehluke ngokuphelele. Uma le ntombazane ingabonakali njengodonsa omuhle, lokhu akusho ukuthi abazali bakhe bayamhlambalaza ngalokhu! Inkimbinkimbi ye "duckling ugly" ibilokhu ihlelwe kusukela ebuntwaneni (ikakhulukazi ngumama).
Uma usencane esemncane intombazane izwa ukubuyekezwa okubuhlungu noma ukuhlekwa usulu ngokubukeka kwayo, iveza ukuhlukumeza okuncane. Akunakwenzeka ukukulungisa kamuva! Intombazane enjalo esikhathini esizayo izobhekana nezinkinga eziningi, akunakwenzeka ukuba ujabule empilweni yakhe.
Qaphela ukuthi zingaki izibonelo zamakhosikazi adumile emhlabeni, okungabizwa ngokuthi u-frank omubi. Kodwa-ke, baye baphumelela empilweni, bajabule othandweni futhi banelisekile. Imfihlo yukuthi ukuzethemba kwabo akugcini kahle kusukela ebuntwaneni! Umuntu othembekile ngaso sonke isikhathi uphumelela impumelelo. Qonda lokhu ngokwakho, bese uvumela indodakazi yakho ukuba iqonde.
"I-Peppy iyisitoreji eside"
Lezi zingane ezikhuthele kakhulu. Lesi yisibonelo somfana wentombazane, ngamadolo aphelile kuze kube phakade nobuso obungcolile. "Hooligan! Drachunya! Intombazanyana! Ingabe amantombazane aziphatha ngale ndlela? !! !! "- uma amagama anjalo ephindaphinda njalo indodakazi yakho, khona-ke lokhu kungumntwana walolu hlobo.
Khumbula, awukwazi ukushintsha ingane engasebenzi kahle! Kungcono ukuba amandla akhe abe ngumzila owusizo. Imidlalo ehamba phambili, umbuthano wezingane zasenkulisa, isigaba sezemidlalo. Akukho mqondo ekushayeleni intombazane enjalo esikoleni somculo, kungcono kumnike isifundo lapho ungahambisa khona okuningi, ushaye amandla.
Cinderella
Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi esikhathini sethu kukhona namantombazane anjalo. Ngokujwayelekile bavela emndenini omkhulu, lapho kudingeka khona njalo usize umama wakho ekhaya. Ukungalingani kwendaba kubandakanya ukukhuliswa okukhudlwana. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zisiza ngokuzithandela, kepha emndenini wakho ziphendukela ingane encane emsebenzini - udinga ukushintsha okuthile.
Kubalulekile ukujwayela ingane ukuba isebenze, Yebo, kodwa kuzo zonke izinto isilinganiso sibalulekile. Uma ukhulisa indodakazi yakho uCinderella, ulungele ukuthi uzosebenzela impilo yakhe ngomuntu, ungahlezi impilo yakhe, ngeke ajabule ngempela. Kodwa kuyohlale ikhona indoda esheshayo ukubona ukuthi intombazane isisebenzi sesikhathi esigcwele futhi iyohlala entanyeni yakhe!