Uma ngisemncane ngayazi inkulumo ethi "Ukungabi nakakhulu nokukhathazeka" Ngingahle ngingaxhunywanga nazo zonke amalebula ezinyantisayo: "ukungaboni, ngokuzithobayo, okuphazamisayo." Usuku lwami lokuqala enkulisa lwaphela ekhoneni. Amabhuku ami esikoleni ahlanganisa amazwi omfundisi othintekayo: "Inkukhu ibhala, hhayi umfana wesikole!" Kuthiwani ngedayari: "Ngagijimela emadokisini ngakhala," "Ngimemeza ngesifundo sokucula." Wayesho ukuthini? Kungani? Angikhumbuli ...
Akekho owayefuna ukuba umngane nentombazane engavamile, engenangqondo, owayezoqala ukuhleka endaweni, bese ephazamisa abanye ngezindaba ezingenangqondo, bese eqala ukukhala izinyembezi ngaphandle kwesizathu ... Angiyedwa. Kuwo wonke amakilasi noma ekilasini lesibhedlela kukhona intukuthelo enjalo. Kuyadingeka ukuba i-Šustricka encane iwele umngcele wesikole noma inkulisa, ukuhlambalaza kwehla kuwela ikhanda lakhe eliphazamisekile. Futhi ekhaya abazali abaphelelwe amandla abakwazi ukubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa kwengane. Ngenxa yalokho, ihlanganisa idumela elingenakunakeleka, elibiziwe, elinzima ukulifunda. Kodwa "umuntu ompofu" kuphela ukuthi unenkinga yokungabi namandla, akuyona isifo esasakazeka kakhulu sesistimu yezinzwa. Kodwa ukuhlukumeza akuyona iphutha, kodwa inhlekelele yengane. Esikhathini esithangamini samanje eMoscow, "Ukuvikela impilo yabantwana baseRussia," kwamenyezelwa ukuthi ezweni lethu kuphela i-syndrome yokungahloniphi nokukhathazeka (ADHD) ibhalwe ezinganeni eziyizigidi ezimbili!
Ngokujwayelekile abazali baqala ukuqonda ukuthi kukhona into enhle nengane, cishe iminyaka emine ubudala. Ingane ibonakala ikhula ihlakaniphile, ibuza, kepha ayikwazi ukugxila kunoma yini: lalela inganekwane yamaminithi - idinga ukudweba, ke, hhayi ukuqedela, umklami owanele. Endaweni ayikwazi ukuhlala ngomzuzwana okwesibili: ukujika njalo, iqhuma phezulu, into ethintana ngezandla zakhe. Futhi nakuba eselokhu ehamba usuku lonke, uhamba ngendlela engavamile: uyazishaya ngokuzumayo, ahlasele, awela ezinkingeni. Okubi nakakhulu isimo ngesimo sokuziphatha: izibhamu zokuzijabulisa ezingavinjelwe zithathwe esikhundleni sokuhlukunyezwa. Ingane ishesha kakhulu ikhathele, kodwa lapho ikhathele, iyakhathazeka kakhulu. Kubonakala sengathi ufuna ukukhulumisana, kodwa akwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane besikhathi eside, ujoyina imidlalo yeqembu ngothando, kodwa ngokushesha ubanda. Engxoxweni ayilaleli i-interlocutor, iphazamisa. Kodwa, njengomthetho, konke lokho kuvele kubhalwe phansi kwizici zobumnene, izinkinga zenkathi enzima, imfundo embi. Ngesilinganiso esiphelele, abazali baqonda ukungathí sina kwenkinga, lapho umntwana ewela umkhawulo wekilasi lokuqala. Imfundo yethu yesibili yenzelwe ingane ejwayelekile, ngaphandle kwanoma yiziphi izinkinga. Kodwa lesi sikole asibekezelelanga kakhulu izingane ezingenasifo esizwakalayo: inomsindo, i-sloppy, ingakhululekile. Yebo kukhona isikole! Abaphazamisi bokuzola ngeke babekezelele isigaba sezemidlalo noma studio yobuciko.
Yingakho udinga ukuqala ukulungisa isimo ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Okokuqala, kuzomele uzibonele ukuthi ingane yakho ikhethekile, futhi akekho ozoyibeka icala: akunjalo wena, naye, nanoma ubani omunye. Ungashiyi wedwa ngezinkinga zakho. Zama ukukhombisa ingane kumchwepheshe ongcono, futhi mhlawumbe ababili: isazi sezinzwa ne-psychotherapist. Uma kungekho ochwepheshe abafanelekayo eduze kwakho - funa ulwazi oluningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngalesi simo. Kumelwe siqonde ngokushesha: ukungabi nokugula akuyona isifo, kodwa isimo esikhethekile sengqondo esingalungiswa, kodwa singalungiswa kuze kube sekupheleni, futhi awukwazi ukuguqula ukubonisa ububele nganoma iyiphi indlela. Okungasiza ngempela ukufundisa umuntu omncane ukuthi aphile ngokuvumelana naye kanye nabanye, ukuze amnike ithuba lokufunda ngokujwayelekile.
Indlela elula yokulungisa imithi. Kodwa izidakamizwa ze-psychotropic ne-nootropic ezibekwe i-ADHD zinemiphumela emibi kakhulu kanye neyinkimbinkimbi yokuphikisana. Futhi kubalulekile ukukhumbula: emva kokuba izimpawu zabo zokuhoxiswa zingabuya ngamandla aphindwe kathathu. Ngokuvamile, zingathathwa kuphela ngaphansi kokulawulwa okunzima kwedokotela kanye nezinkomba ezimbi ngempela. Kunezindlela eziningi ezithandekayo. Okuhle kakhulu kusiza ukuvivinya okukhethekile okulungisa, okuvumela ukuba "rewire" yonke imoto yendawo yengane entsha, ukuqala ukuthuthukiswa kwayo ngendlela ejwayelekile. Futhi kusukela ukuthuthukiswa kokunakekelwa ekuphenduleni izingxenye ezifanayo zobuchopho njenge-motor sphere, ukuhlushwa kwengane kuyanda, ukukhathazeka kunciphisa, ukwehlukana okujwayelekile kuyancipha. Kodwa ukuze kuzuzwe umphumela, kuzodingeka ukuthi uqhube amakilasi nsuku zonke iminyaka emibili kuya kwemibili. Ngokuvamile, ukuvocavoca kuhlanganiswa ngezifundo nomhlinzeki wezinkulumo kanye ne-defectologist, inkambo yamavithamini nemithi ye-homeopathic. Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi usize ngempela ingane engasebenzi kahle ngokushintsha indlela yakhe nendlela yokuphila. Dala usuku oluhlelekile lomntwana bese ululandela ngokucacile. Sebenzisa isikhathi esengeziwe emoyeni ovulekile, lapho ungadingeki ukukhawulela inkululeko yengane. Buka ukudla. Izingane ezinjalo ziphikisana ngekhofi, iziphuzo ze-carbonated, ushokoledi. Kukhona isiphakamiso sokusebenzisa ngokweqile ushukela, imikhiqizo equkethe amakhemikhali ukunambitheka (i-glutamate sodium), ifaka isandla ekwakhiweni kokungasebenzi kahle. Zama ukugwema izindawo ezigcwele, ukuhamba okuhamba njalo ezokuthutha zomphakathi. Nciphisa umsebenzi wokufunda esikoleni. Ungavumeli ukuthi ingane isebenze ngokugcwele. Zama njalo ukuvimbela i-flash ezayo.
Ingane yakho idinga imikhawulo eqinile kulokho okuvunyelwe. Kodwa uzilungiselele ukuthi lizovivinya njalo amandla. Ungavumeli ingane ikusebenze ngamahlaya. Gwema ukuphawula okude. Zonke izimvo zakho nezimfuneko zakho kufanele kube ngokucacile futhi zicacile. Kusukela phansi kwenhliziyo, dumisani ingane nganoma yikuphi ukuphumelela, ngisho nokuncane kakhulu. Qiniseka ukuthola indawo lapho ingane yakho izophumelela khona. Futhi khumbula: zikhona amacala amaningi lapho ingane yakho engakwazi ukuphumelela khona iyokwazi ukuphumelela okuningi kunabalingani bakhe abathulile: esiteji nasendleleni yokuhamba geological, kwezobuchwepheshe kanye nezemidlalo, ukukhangisa kanye nezombusazwe - noma yikuphi ukuqina, uthando lwengozi, ikhono lokwenza izinqumo ezingezona ezejwayelekile , umcabango kanye nencazelo.