Okokuqala, unqume ngesakhiwo somshado, ngoba kuvela kulokhu ukuthi izinqumo ezengeziwe zizoxhomeka.
Uma ungafuni ukuya kude emkhosini we-classic futhi ufuna ukushiya idili, umphathi wezinsizakalo nokunye, ngakho-ke kulokhu kufanele uqaphele indawo yomkhosi. Imibono enesithakazelo yomshado ingatholakala ngesikhathi somkhosi wokuphuma. Ngokuvamile kuwo wonke amadolobha ungathola, uma kungenjalo ibhange lomfula, i-gazebo ethokomele noma ngisho nepaki lapho ungafaka khona kalula umcibisholo wabashadile, izihlalo zezivakashi kanye netafula le-buffet. Kule nguqulo, uzokhunjulwa yizivakashi, njengabantu abasha abangebona abangaziwayo emikhandweni ye-European fashion, kodwa konke okufanayo kuzokwenza ngaphandle kwemininingwane eshaqisayo.
Ngomshado onjalo, imincintiswano ye-banal ngeke ibe yinto engalungile, kodwa kuphela imisebenzi yangempela kanye nohlelo lokubonisa. Hlela indawo yebhokisi le-KVN elihola, okungenani kuyoba mnandi kakhulu kune-toastmaster evamile. Yena, ngendleleni angenza umkhosi ngokwawo, ngoba ukubhaliswa okusemthethweni komshado kunoma yikuphi okuzobanjelwa ehhovisi lokubhalisa.
Yakha indawo yalo mkhosi ngamathoni athile, uma uthanda, cabanga ngekhodi yokugqoka yezivakashi. Hlela umculo ophilayo futhi uzizwe njenge-heroine yefilimu yangaphandle. Ukuphela kusihlwa akuyona imilenze evamile, kodwa umbukiso womlilo! Njengoba usebenzise imali efanayo, wena nezivakashi zakho uzothola okuningi okubonakalayo. Uma umkhosi ubambezelekile, futhi usuvele usufuna ukuphuma edilini, kwenzeke ekuthuthweni okungavamile: ukuhamba, uma ukhona emhlabathini, futhi uma usebhishi, uNkulunkulu ngokwakhe ucele ukuba uhambe ngomkhumbi, bese uhambela enye yehhotela.
Uma ngabe umkhosi wakho usuyenzeka kumkhuba ojwayelekile wansuku zonke, qaphela kusengaphambili ngezindawo ezithakazelisayo zesithombe nokudubula kwevidyo. Khuluma nomthwebuli wezithombe mayelana nomzila wakho, thatha nawe izesekeli eziningi ezahlukene: isambulela, amabhuzu, i-lollipops, ibhasikidi yezithelo, amathoyizi. Hlela ukudubula ku-karting, bowling, esikebheni noma noma iyiphi indawo yokudlela noma igumbi elinengaphakathi elingavamile. Zama ukugcizelela isimo sosuku lomshado, ukuze ujabulele izithombe uma ubhekwa eminyakeni embalwa.
Umshado wangempela uzothola, uma uwenza ngesitayela esithile. Akuyona isitayela somshado manje esingajwayelekile. Noma imikhosi yama-80. Kulesi simo, kudingeka ucabange ngazo zonke imininingwane. Akukhona nje kuphela kulabo abasanda kushada. Ngesitayela esisodwa, konke okuvela ekusungulweni kwendawo yokudla, i-cortege nomculo kufanele kuqiniswe. Uma ulungele ukusebenza ngesikhathi sokulungiselela futhi uvikele imibono yakho phambi kwesizukulwane esabekayo - hamba! Buka ama-movie, iziqeshana zalezo zikhathi, xoxisana nomculi wakho wokwenza, umdwebi wezithombe zakho. Uma ungakalungeli izinyathelo ezinkulu, thola ingubo emfushane, hhayi imibala ekhanyayo. Manje salons lomshado unikeza izinketho eziningi ongakwenza ngaphandle kwezinsizakalo zokuthungula.
I-bravest sinikeza imibono yangempela yokubamba imishado. Lapha iphuzu lokuqala lingaba yizinto zokuzilibazisa zalabo abashadile. Mhlawumbe uhamba ngamabhayisikili ngokushesha noma uzimisele ukuvuselela izinkambo zomkhonto. Ngokuqinisekile wena nabangani bendilinga elifanayo kuzokusiza ekuhleleni ubunikazi obungavamile. Kulesi simo, kuyoba kubalulekile kuwe ukuba unake yonke imininingwane, ukuze umshado ulingane nesihloko esinikeziwe. Okusho ukuthi, bheka ukukhiya, abaqeqeshi noma okufanayo, izikhumba zesikhumba nakho konke okukulo moya. Ungakhohlwa ukutshela abazali bakho ngezinhloso zakho, wenze izimemo, ezicacisa ifomethi yomshado wakho.
Kulabo abathanda umlando wezwe elithile, kodwa imali ayikuvumeli ukuba ugubhe umshado lapho, ngakho-ke kukhona imibono embalwa. Manje ayikho inkinga yokuthola i-saris kubathandi baseNdiya noma izambatho zesizwe zaseSpain, e-Argentina, eNingizimu Afrika. Konke kuncike ekulungeleni kwakho kokuhlolwa. Futhi mhlawumbe ufuna ukudlala umshado, ngokuvumelana namasiko wezwe lethu, ngakho konke kuba lula nakakhulu. Futhi ama-ensembles okukhethwa kuwo kanye nehholo angatholakala afanelekile futhi izivakashi ngisho nokugqoka konke ngeke kube yinkinga.
Ngezansi, sizonikeza imibono yangempela kulabo abakulungele ukuqhuba umshado kuphela komunye nomunye. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, ake sithi umshado ophethwe phesheya ngeke ube namandla emthethweni ezweni lakini, ngakho-ke kufanele ufake izitembu lapha, futhi lapho ngabe umphefumulo ufuna ukuhamba khona.
Uma uthanda ama-exotics, ke umgwaqo oqondile, noma kunalokho isitebhisi sezindiza, ukuya eMaldives, Bali, Thailand bese ubala ohlwini. Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, thola ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi umcimbi womshado ukhona, mayelana nokuba khona komthwebuli wezithombe (ngaphandle uma unquma ukuthatha ngokwakho, kufakazelwe) nethuba lokuzilungiselela wena nomthandekayo wakho ngomkhosi. E-Czech Republic naseJalimane, ungahamba ngohambo olulungiselelwe ngaphambili kulabo abasanda kushada nomkhosi womshado. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi kunezinkolo eziningi zamaKatolika kunezi-Orthodox.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi uma ukhetha ngesakhiwo somshado onjalo, ungase uhlangabezane nokungaqondani nokulahlwa kwezihlobo eziphupha ukudansa edilini lakho. Kulesi simo, kubalulekile ukuma eyedwa, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi lesi sifiso sasihlangane futhi awunaso ukuxabana nomngane wakho ozayo naye. Futhi uma konke kuvele lapha, khona-ke uhleleke ngokuphepha uhambo ukuze uhlangabezane namaphupho akho nemishado ngaphandle.
Ungaziphili injabulo yokugubha umshado ngendlela oyifunayo. Phela, lokhu kugubha kwenzeka ngesikhathi esisodwa (ngokuqinisekile, ngokuqinisekile)! Sithemba ukuthi imibono yethu yangempela yomshado yenza ukuba ucabange ngendaba yosuku lwakho olujabulisayo nomkhosi. Iholide elikulungele kahle liyokuletha imizwelo emihle nakakhulu.