Iningi likhathazekile ngomuntu ngaphambi komshado.
Mhlawumbe iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu ekulungiseleleni umshado wabashade besikhathi esizayo ukulungela ukuziphatha kwalesi senzakalo esibalulekile.
Into elandelayo ebalulekile inguquko yangaphandle yentombazane ibe ngumlobokazi omuhle kakhulu futhi oyingqayizivele emhlabeni: ukhanyisa egqoke lomshado we-chic, enesigqoko sezinwele zakhe futhi eqala emehlweni akhe. Ngiyavuma, ngikhathele yizinkinga ezihambisana nokulungiselela umshado, umakoti onokukhathala ebusweni bakhe akabuki okumnandi kakhulu, ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kosuku lomshado, intombazane idinga ukulala ubusuku obuhle. Ngakho-ke, indoda ngaphambi komshado kufanele inikele othandekayo wakhe ukuphumula okuhle.
Kodwa-ke, ngobunye ubusuku, ukulala kungcono ukuthi kunganakwa. Indoda ngaphambi komshado akufanele ilungiselelwe ngokucophelela, kodwa noma kunjalo, kumele futhi ibheke kahle. Le ntombazane kumele isuse izinwele, uthintane nodokotela mayelana nekhanda lomshado cishe ngezinsuku ezintathu ngaphambi komshado. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amasonto amane kuya kwahlanu ngaphambi kosuku olubekiwe, kungaba kuhle ukuqala Ukuze uvakashele i-solarium, noma kunjalo, kuyoba ngcono, uma le nqubo ingasizuzisi umlobokazi kuphela, kodwa futhi nomkhwenyana. Ngaphambi komshado nangesikhathi sokulungiselela, zama ukungabi nokwesaba, njengoba lokhu kungabangela ukuba buthakathaka kakhudlwana, futhi ngenxa yalokho kubangelwa ukukhwehlela, impumu egijima, izilonda ezibandayo noma ngisho nokuzikhukhumeza kuvele ngosuku lomkhosi, futhi indoda emshadweni kufanele ibe nenhle futhi inempilo. Zizinakekele wena nempilo yakho.
Ngemuva kokuqonda okuncane ukubonakala kwabasanda kushada, siqhubeka nento elandelayo - inhlangano yomkhosi ngokwawo. Lapha okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuhlanganisa uhlu lwazo zonke okudingeka zenziwe. Udinga ukuletha konke okudingayo ukuthenga imininingwane encane kakhulu, kuyoba ngcono uma ingubo yomshado yomakoti, izicathulo, isambatho somkhwenyana nemishado yomshado ekhona kulolu hlu. Qinisekisa ukubhala kulolu hlu konke ukuthenga, ukuze ungaphuthelwa lutho futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthenga isixha somlobokazi ngosuku lomshado.
Lapho ulungiselela umshado, unakekele ukuba khona komthwebuli wezithombe nomculi we-videographer kusengaphambili, ukuze uthathe lolu suku hhayi kwimemori kuphela, kodwa futhi kwifilimu. Ungalimazi umbono omuhle womshado uyovumela iseshini yesithombe sokuqala yesilingo kusuka kumthwebuli wezithombe ozikhethile kulezi zinhloso. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi komshado, uzokwazi ukuhlola izithombe eziqediwe, futhi uma kunjalo, ube nesikhathi sokushiya izinsizakalo zomuntu ongenamsebenzi ngokumtholela indawo efanelekile.
Ungakhohlwa mayelana nomphathi we-toast. Kungcono uma indoda imkhetha, ngoba yaziwa ukuthi ingxenye enamandla yesintu, umuzwa wokuhlekisa usho ngokuqinile kakhulu. Ukuze uhlole izimo zomshado wakhe nobuchwepheshe, ungamcela ividiyo yemishado. Ngokuvamile umethuli ochwepheshe ufika ohlelweni olulungiselelwe ngokugcwele kusihlwa kanye no-DJ wakhe, ngakho-ke uma ungenayo izifiso ezikhethekile nomculo, awukwazi ukukhathazeka ngomkhathi wokugubha.
Futhi into yokugcina iyinhlangano yokuzalwa. Ngaphambi komshado, kufanele akhethe, njengendoda nentombazane, ukuze bobabili amasosha. Kufanele kucatshangelwe kusengaphambili. Hlola ukuthi ukuqinisekiswa kwamaphasipoti okuhamba ngezinyawo sekuphelile, oda amathikithi ejensi lokuhamba, ukhokhe zonke izikweletu ezinsizakalweni zezindlu nezomphakathi, amaphoyisa omgwaqo, abaxhasi, njll. futhi konke lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ngesikhathi sokulungiselela ngaphambi komshado ukuze ugweme izinkumanga ezingathandeki ngamathikithi noma ngesikhathi sokulawulwa kwamasiko.
Khumbula ukuthi umshado ushiya umbono ongapheli enkumbulweni, nokuthi ngabe uzoba mnandi, kuxhomeke kuwe kuphela. Zama ukuhlela umkhosi ezingeni eliphakeme kakhulu. Thandanani. Kuyabuhlungu!