Kungani ubhapathiza ingane?
Kusukela embonweni wamaKristu, kunesinye sezizathu zokwamukelwa kwesigceme sokubhapathizwa - ukukholwa kweqiniso. Zonke ezinye izisusa lapha zingakwenza, ngokuhamba phambili, zihambisane, kodwa zingabi esikhundleni. Isibonelo, akuvumelekile ukubhapathiza ingane ngenxa yemfashini noma ukucindezela izihlobo, uma abazali ngokwabo bengakalungele lesi sinyathelo.
Ukukhetha igama lokubhapathizwa
ISonto Lama-Orthodox LaseRussia linikeza abasha abasanda kubhapathizwa amagama angcwele abangcwele abadunyisiwe kakade. Lokhu kwenziwa ukuze umKristu omncane anencwadi yakhe yomkhuleko kanye nomkhulumeli ebusweni bukaNkulunkulu. Ngokuvamile ngisho nangaphambi kokubhapathizwa, igama lomsana likhethiwe futhi ukutholakala kwalo kuhlolwe ngabangcwele bama-Orthodox.
Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi abazali baxosha kakhulu ukuqala futhi bakhethe igama lezinyane elingekho futhi lingakaze libe ikhalenda lesonto. Lapha kakade kudingekile ukuthi uxoxe nomuntu ovuma futhi ukhethe igama lobu-Orthodox, elifanele ngokuvumelana ne-consonance kanye nencazelo. Ngokuvamile ukhethwe ngumphathisi wasezulwini onomkhosi ogujwa emva nje kokuzalwa komKristu omncane.
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Ukukhetha ama-Godparents
Awukwazi ukukhetha ukulala noma yini, ngokusho kwabo ngokuphana, isikhundla somphakathi noma ukuthakazelisa ngesikhathi sedili. Khumbula ukuthi umsebenzi oyinhloko wabankulunkulukazi uzoba ukuthandazela ingane, ukuzama ukumvusa kukholwa kwe-Orthodox. U-godfather ngokwayo udinga ukuba abantu abanokholo futhi abanomthwalo wemfanelo ngalokhu.
Ukuze benze imisebenzi yabo efanele noma engafanele, bayokwenza, ngokuvumelana neBhayibheli, baphendule kuNkulunkulu okungenani kunabantwana babo. Uma onkulunkulukazi noma abazali bengenalo ulwazi emfundweni ye-Orthodox yengane, kumele baqale ukuxoxa nompristi.
Umkhuba wokwazisa izingxoxo sekuyisikhathi eside uyingxenye yeSonto Lobu-Orthodox futhi sekuyinto eyimfuneko yokulungiselela umhlangano wokubhapathizwa. Ngakho-ke, umuntu kufanele alungiselele ukuthi onkulunkulukazi noma abazali bomdabu bayomenywa izikhathi eziningana ebandleni ukuba bakhulume ngezisekelo zenkolo yobu-Orthodox.
Kulokhu kulandela ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukukhetha abangabhapathiziwe, abangakholelwa kuNkulunkulu, abalandeli bezinye izinkolo nokuvuma izono zobuKristu. Akuyona isiko lokubhapathiza ingane efanayo nabashadile. Nokho, lesi yisikhathi esingaqondakali.
Ngokuvamile indima yama-godfather ikhethwa izihlobo eziseduze ezihlala kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwezwe. Abavamile ukuvakashela ingane, ngisho ne-christening ngezinye izikhathi ingafika ngosuku olulodwa kuphela. Ukwenza okunjalo, cabanga: abazali abanjalo bangakhuphula kanjani ingane yakho?
Kukhona nezinkolelo-ze eziningi ezizungeze ukukhetha kwama-cronies, iningi lawo alisekelwe kunoma yini. ISonto alinqabe intombazane engashadile ukuba ibhapathize le ntombazane kuqala. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokubhapathiza izingane zabangane abasondelene abangabantwana babantwana bakho. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akukho "ukuhlukaniswa". Ungaba unkulunkulu kunoma yiziphi izihlobo zengane, ngaphandle kwabazali bakhe.
Kumele nje ugcine engqondweni ukuthi intombazane ivunyelwe ukuba ngumama ovela ku-13, kanti umfana - kusukela eminyakeni engu-15. Kodwa, ngokusho kwemithetho yezwe, kungcono ukukhetha u-godfather wesikhathi esinjalo ukuthi angafanisa isimo somzali. Lokhu kuzokwenza umsebenzi wangempela wokufundisa unkulunkulu.
Yini ongayenza esontweni
Kuncike eminyakeni yobudala, ngubani oyobhapathizwa, ulethe ihembe lokubhapathizwa noma i-yazhonku, i-diaper noma ithawula. Udinga, Yebo, nesiphambano. Uma ungahle uhlele ukuyithenga ethempelini, khona-ke ngobusuku bokubhapathizwa kuzodingeka lungcweliswe. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isiphambano senziwe ngokuhambisana namathoni weSonto. Uma isiphambano sathengwa esitolo sesonto, akukho lutho okufanele lwenziwe ngakho.
Iminikelo
Noma yimiphi iminikelo, kuhlanganise nethempeli, eyanikezwa ekusebenzeni kweSigramente, yiyo ngokuzithandela ngokuphelele. Futhi inani, elibizwa esitolo sesonto, liyisibonelo. Ngakho-ke, uma lesi sinani singenakubekezeleleka, vele uye ku-abbot, futhi cishe cishe uzovuma ukwenza iSigamente mahhala.
Kodwa, ngaphambi kokwenza lokhu, kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi imingcele eceliwe idlula kangakanani izindleko zetafula lokugubha. Khumbula ukuthi kaningi kangakanani esikunikela ethempelini ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Bese unquma, ucabanga ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuqhubeka nokukhona kwalesi sonto. Kuvela ngeminikelo yakho yokuzithandela ukuthi lokhu kuphila kuxhomeke.
Ekugcineni, umcimbi onjengokubhapathizwa kwenzeka kanye kuphela ekuphileni kwezingane zethu. Futhi ngezindleko zazo, zonke izihlobo, kufaka phakathi ama-cronies, zithatha ingxenye esebenzayo.
Nini ukuzobhapathizwa
Njengomthetho, izinkonzo ezinjalo zesonto zenziwa ngoMgqibelo nangeSonto. Futhi kwezinye amaholidi esonto. Uma udinga ukubhapathiza ingane ngolunye usuku, kuzomele uxoxisane nompristi noma isisebenzi sethempelini kusengaphambili. Lokhu kungenziwa futhi efonini yesonto lapho ufuna ukubhapathiza khona umntwana. Kunamathempeli lapho iSigraments of ubhapathizo lenziwa nsuku zonke.
Isikhathi sokuqala kwe-christening sichazwe kusengaphambili ngesikhathi sokusebenza. Kungcono ukufika isikhathi sokuthola isikhathi sokubhala isitifiketi, ubhalise irekhodi lamamitha, ukhethe isiphambano, njll. Ukuphela kweSakramente akumukeleki! Ngakho-ke ngeke wenze ukulinda umpristi, kungaki okulandelayo lapho ufuna ukubhapathizwa. Futhi-ke kungaba khona izingane ezincane kakhulu.
Okufanele ukwenze ngemuva kokubhapathizwa
Njengamanye amasiko, ubhapathizo lunemithetho yalo. Isibonelo, ngemuva kwakhe, esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, udinga ukwamukela wena futhi uthola isidlo somntwana. Izingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kwengu-7 zithola ukudla ngaphandle kokulungiselela. Futhi abantu abadala abadala kudingeka baxoxe nonkulunkulukazi mayelana nendlela yokulungiselela isidlo. Lokhu kuzosiza ngaso sonke isikhathi izisebenzi zethempeli.
Khumbula ukuthi ubhapathizo luwukuphela kokuphila kobuKristu. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, ithuba livulekele ukubhekana namanye amaSitramente eSonto. Sebenzisa ukuze ulondoloze imiphefumulo yakho.