Namuhla, lapho ngamunye wethu efonini yakhe ephethe ifoni ephathekayo encane, noma ngasiphi isikhathi angakwazi "ukuxhuma" nomuntu obiza noma ode kakhulu, inkinga yemithetho yokuxhumana ngocingo iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Futhi-ke, uma wena ngokwakho unomakhalekhukhwini onjalo, okokuqala kudingeka ufunde le mithetho kahle. Yebo, ake sonke sikhulume ngokufanayo "ngezenzo zokuziphatha ezihamba phambili" kanye nemigqa eyisisekelo yokukhulumisana kwefoni. Ngakho-ke, sifuna ukukutshela isimiso semithetho eyisisekelo yokuxhumana kumakhalekhukhwini.
Naphezu kokuthi imithetho eyisisekelo yesitatimende esisezingeni eliphezulu manje ikhona kuphela esigabeni sokuthuthukiswa futhi bambalwa kakhulu abantu abakwaziyo ngabo, basadingeka bacatshangwe futhi bahlonishwe kunoma iyiphi ikholi yefoni. Ngakho-ke, imithetho eyisisekelo kakade ekhona emhlabeni kufanele ibe isisekelo sakho, okufanele uthembele ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.
Iyokuqala yale mithetho ukukwakhiwa okulungile nokunengqondo kwengxoxo ngenkathi ingxoxo yefoni yeselula. Vumelana ukuthi injongo enkulu yale foni akumele ikhulume amahora ekugcineni kumfana omusha noma ingubo entsha. Ngisho noma ungakwazi ukuthola injabulo enjalo, ube nomgwaqo ongenamkhawulo, cabanga nge-interlocutor yakho. Mhlawumbe akaqapheli ukuphazamisa ingxoxo, ukwesaba ukukucasula, kodwa empeleni akayithandi le ngxoxo ende. Ngendlela, futhi uma lokhu kungomunye nomuntu wonke obizwa ngokuthi uqobo lwakhe, lapha kakade akuyona nje isikhathi sakhe, kodwa futhi ngemali yakhe. Ikakhulukazi ukukhathazeka uma umbuthano wabantu ababizayo ngokuyinhloko abafundi noma izingane zesikole abama-akhawunti abo eselula bavame ukugcwaliswa abazali. Ngakho udinga ukonga kakhulu ukuxhumana ngefoni. Uma ufuna ngempela ukuthululela umphefumulo wakho kakhulu, thatha imali ngaphandle kwakho bese ubiza ukuxhumana. Yiqiniso, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kule nkinga izoba uhlobo olufanayo olungenamkhawulo lokuxhumana.
Ngokushesha, ngokushesha nje uma ufika kubhalisile ofuna, ungakhohlwa ukusho, futhi uma kwenzeka ubiza okokuqala nenombolo yakho engangeni encwadini yefoni yomngani wakho womngani, qiniseka ukuthi uzethula. Khona-ke udinga ukubuza ukuthi umngani wakho angakhuluma nawe okwamanje. Uma ematasa, mbuze lapho kufanele athole ucingo ukuze akhulume nawe ngokuthula, futhi awuzange umthathele ecaleni.
Omunye umthetho obalulekile wukuthi ngezingxoxo ezinde efonini ephathekayo ungakwazi ukucasula u-interlocutor wakho kuphela, kodwa nalabo abakungezile. Ngakho-ke, uma unethuba, okwamanje lapho ukhuluma efonini, ukushiya indawo egcwele indawo, lapho ukhona kulo mzuzu, isibonelo, ukushiya izethameli noma ihhovisi, kuyoba kuhle kakhulu futhi kulungile. Kodwa uma usesiteshini somphakathi uma ushayele, usendaweni yokuthutha komphakathi, uma lokhu kungabalulekile kakhulu ucingo, cela umuntu akubize ukuthi akubize kamuva noma athembise ukuthi uma usheshe, uzobuya.
Ngendlela, izingcingo ezinkundleni zemidlalo, amakhonsathini noma ezinye izindawo zokuzijabulisa zomphakathi - lokhu kuyinkinga enzima kakhulu. Ukuvakashela izikhungo ezinjalo, sicabanga, ngeke kube nzima kuwe ukuvula imodi yendandatho yocingo yakho, ukuxwayisa okudlidliza noma ukuyivala isikhashana. Khumbula ukuthi kubukeka kanjani kubi lapho othile e-cinema eqala ukwenza ucingo olukhulu kakhulu ngenkathi ebukela i-movie esithombeni. Njengoba uqaphele, kuyadabukisa kakhulu futhi kunomthelela ekwenzeni ukuthi ulahlekelwa yingxenye yesigaba sefilimu.
Ngokuvamile, phakathi kwabanikazi bezingcingo bakhononda ngokuthi, lapho bethola "umngane" wabo, baqiniseka ukuthi kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi bamgcine eceleni kwakhe. Futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso. Nansi omunye umthetho kusuka ezweni lokuziphatha okuhle. Njalo, uma kwenzeka ucingo olubalulekile, sithwale iselula. Kungenxa yakhe ukuthi uzoba nenani elikhulu lama-pluses. Kodwa ukulala nomakhalekhukhwini, ukugeza noma ukugeza naye akukhuthazwa nje.
Futhi amazwi ambalwa nge-SMS-kah. Okokuqala, zama ukuphendula njalo "kuma-sms-ki" wabangani bakho abafika efonini yakho. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukusebenzisa izithonjana ezikhethekile, ongabonisa ngazo imizwelo yakho nokuthi yini isimo sakho sengqondo manje. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngosizo lwabo, ungabonisa ukusabela kwakho engumyalezo womlayezo owatholwa kulolu muntu noma lowo muntu.
Noma kunjalo kubalulekile uma ukhuluma efonini ephathekayo, khumbula njalo ukuphepha kwakho. Ubuza, yini lokhu? Iqiniso elithakazelisayo kuleso simo ukuthi inani lezingozi zomgwaqo livela ngenxa yokungalaleli okuhambisana nezingxoxo esiteshini. Ngendlela, abahamba ngezinyawo nabo bakhathazekile. Isibonelo, lapho umuntu elalela umculo kuma-headphone noma ekhuluma nje efonini, akasibukeli njalo futhi ebuka okwenzekayo nxazonke. Ngakho-ke, imithetho eyisisekelo yokukhulumisana kweselula ihlanganisa nokuqapha. Ngelinye igama, zama ukukhuluma efonini uma udinga ukukhombisa ukulalela kwakho okuthile.
Yileyo ndlela okudingeka ngayo ukuxhumana okulungile efonini ephathekayo bese uyisebenzisa. Ngakho vumela ukuxhumana kwakho okuphathekayo kube yilokho kanye. Khumbula ukuthi ngendlela enembile yokusebenzisa ifoni ephathekayo, uzokwazi ukuthola ukukhanya okusha kokuxhumana kweselula kumculo wesimanje wokuphila kwakho. Inhlanhla!