Imizwa ngeke iphele uma ...

Omunye umakhi oneminyaka engamashumi ayisishiyagalombili ubudala osebenza kulolu hlelo olusha, wathi: "Kwakungekho usuku engingazange ngixazulule le nkinga yezibalo. Imfihlo yokucaca kwengqondo iwukuqeqesha njalo." Futhi imfihlo 'yokungafaki' izinzwa?

Abantu ababili asebekhulile - yena kanye naye - bahamba epaki. Wonke umuntu obabhekayo, uyaqonda - bayathandana noma ihlasi noma ngaphansi kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu noma engamashumi amane eyedlule. Baye bakwazi kanjani ukusindisa, "ungaqedi" imizwa yabo? Kungani bengalahlekelwa uthando lwabo? Nanka amanye amathiphu emibhangqwana.

Ungabufihli imizwa yakho.
Ukuvuma kothando akukwazi ukuthukuthela. Ngisho noma konke kuhamba kahle emndenini wakho, izingane ezinhle zikhula, futhi unesiqiniseko sokuzizwa komunye nomunye, uthi ngezinye izikhathi: "Ngiyakuthanda." Lawa magama amathathu alula enza ukuzethemba, ukunikeza ukufudumala, ukusiza ukunqoba ukuphazamiseka kwansuku zonke. Ungavumeli umkhuba ukubhubhisa imizwa yakho.

Zama ukuthatha izandla kaningi.
Lapho abantu benamathela esandleni somuntu, banemizwa yokuphepha nokuvikeleka. Bamba isandla sezingane, ubambelele komunye nomunye, futhi akukho, akukho mandla azokuhlakaza.

Bonisa izimpawu zokunakwa.
Imizwa ngeke iphele lapho emhlanganweni nokuhlaziya kuyoba khona uthando olunothando. Ngisho nomcimbi omncane kunazo zonke ilungu lomndeni yisisusa esihle sokuletha ibhalela le-chocolate, isiqephu sezimbali, nje igama eliphansi. Buka i-TV - bamba umuntu ozalwayo ngamahlombe, udlule umuntu ohlezi ngemuva kwencwadi - thinta ngobumnene noma uhlume esihlathini.

Izinkampanini zamanje ezomunye nomunye.
Yiqiniso, lokhu akulula, kodwa kuyadingeka ngezikhathi ezithile. Ukumangala akukona kuphela kwisipho, kodwa kusiphakamiso esingalindelekile. Isibonelo, ngandlela-thile sichitha kusihlwa, uya endaweni ethile, njll.

Futhi Usuku Luka-Valentine? Phela, lokhu kungesizathu esihle sokugcina imizwa kuphela, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula umqondo omkhulu wothando. Isibonelo, itafula lokugubha usuku luka-Valentine idinga ukuklama othandweni.

Leli holide lihlotshaniswa nama roses nenhliziyo. Ngakho-ke imininingwane eyinhloko yomhlobiso - i-roses nezinhliziyo ezinhlobonhlobo zemiklamo. Ungakhohlwa ngama-balloons-izinhliziyo. Beka itafula i-vase ephansi ne-roses. Leliholide lezimbali kufanele libe yiningi, ngakho-ke ukukhetha kwakho ukuma emifuleni yamahlathi. Izitsha eziphekiwe zingabuye zihlotshwe ngezinhliziyo, iziqalo zomunye nomunye. Lungiselela noma yiziphi izitsha ezintsha.

Uma nje lo mbhangqwana ukondla inhlonipho nothando komunye nomunye, kuhambisana, ubudlelwane obujabulisayo buhlala, futhi imizwa yakho yethando ngeke 'iphele.'

UKsenia Ivanova , ikakhulukazi indawo