Ukuzwa uthando, ukuthanda nokuthandwa - zonke lezi zigaba ziyingqayizivele kuphela kumuntu. Ezweni lesilwane, ungalungisa ukubonakaliswa kwesihawu nesihawu kuphela.
Uthando lwavela kanjani? Wavelaphi? Ngenkambiso yokuzibandakanya kwabantu, ubudlelwane babo ezizweni, emindenini, emindenini, ekuthuthukiseni ubudlelwane bezenhlalakahle - konke lokhu kwasiza umuntu ukuthola ikhono lokuzwa imizwelo ejulile ngomunye umuntu.Othandekayo kuphela ongakwazi ukuqonda into enomuzwa wokuthi awunayo enye. Umthandi kuphela ozwa impilo yonke, uphefumula amaphaphu aphelele, ubona yonke imibala ehlanganisa izwe lethu.
Odokotela bahumusha uthando njengesikhangiso esingenakunqotshwa, njengendlela ekhethekile yokudlulisa ubuningi bezinhlobo zezinto eziphilayo, ezamandla, ezenhlalakahle nezisondelene. Abantu abakudala bafuna ukuthi uthando luphefumulelwe kakhulu futhi lukhuthaze ukwakha ubuhle ezindaweni ezahlukene zokudala.
Ukuthandana kulula, ukuthanda kunzima. Ukuze uziphelele ngokuphelele imizwa yomuntu, kuphela abantu abazimisele, abavuthiwe, abaneleyo abakwazi ukuzivumela ukuba bazibandakanye ngokuphelele yi-whirlpool yemizwelo. Abaningi bayesaba uthando. Ukungayiqondi ukuthi kwenzekani kubo, abantu ngezinye izikhathi bazikhiphe ngaphakathi, bavale izwe labo langaphakathi, besaba ukungacatshangwa noma ukushiswa. Kodwa yilabo kuphela abahlala bevulekile emilenzeni ethandekayo kuletha ukuphila kwethu kuzobona ukuthi kuze kube mzuzu abazange bahlale nhlobo.
Uthando luhlanganisa njalo isidingo sokunikeza. Mina, kuqala, nakho konke okungcono okusizungezile, akudingeki nje kuphela, kodwa kunesidingo sangempela sokunikeza abathandekayo izwe lonke. Uthando kuphela onika ngobuqotho umhlaba wakhe ophilayo, injabulo, ukuqonda kwakhe, konke ukukhathazeka, amahlaya nokuhle. Ngezinye izikhathi, lapho ukudabuka kuvela ekuhlukaniseni noma ukuhlukana, ufuna ukudlulisa ukudabuka, ukuwabelana nomuntu okubhekiswe kuye.
Abathandi ekubhekeleni ubuso, ngokuhambisana ne-narcotic. Ukulahlekelwa into yothando ngaphandle kokubona, ngisho nesikhathi esifushane, izwe lonke liyancipha kakhulu, ikhanda lingaqala, futhi ukuzwa okungajabulisi endaweni enhliziyweni kubonakala ngempela.
Izazi zengqondo zithi ubukhona bothando bubonakaliswa ezingeni lesayensi. Ngumuzwa wokuthi yiyona ncazelo ebaluleke kunazo zonke yokuphila, isidonsela phambili, siqhubekele yonke indawo. Kodwa njengoba uthando lunikeza imizwelo emihle, kungabangela ubuhlungu, ukungabi nandaba nokubhujiswa. Kuthiwani ngothando olungenakulinganiswa lokugula.
Awukwazi ukulungele ukuthandana, awukwazi ukufunda ukwakha uthando ngokuvumelana neminye imithetho noma imithetho. Bamane nje abakho. Kodwa uthando lungasifundisa okuningi. Okokuqala, nikeza, wabelane, unike. Okwesibili, uthando lusifundisa ukuba siphile, hhayi ukuba khona. Okwesithathu, uthando lusifundisa ukuba sijabule. Futhi lezi zinkumbulo zizohlala isikhathi eside, imemori ngokwayo iyokhetha ukuthi yini ezosula, futhi njengomthetho, izikhathi ezijabulisayo kakhulu ezikhunjulwayo zihlala ebuchosheni bethu - lapho sithanda!
Emphakathini wanamuhla, singasho ngokuphepha ukuthi uthando luyibhizinisi. Ubuhlobo bomuntu siqu obunwetshiwe, izintombi ezithandwayo zokuphila kwazo - konke lokhu kunciphisa umuzwa onzima kunazo zonke, kuwubeka phansi.
Intombazane encane yathi uthando lwangempela yilokho konke kuhlangene. Uma kungekho ukuphindaphindiwe, lo mzwa awukwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi uthando lwangempela. Umlomo wengane, njengoba waziwa, kuyiqiniso. Ngifuna wonke umuntu azungeze ukuthanda izingane, ngento, kodwa nje!