Ngendlela, amaJalimane anamathela esifundweni esifanayo, echaza indawo yabesifazane emkhathini ngegama elithi "Ikhishi. Izingane. ISonto. " Abesifazane besimanje bavame ukuzimela. Lokhu kuhle. Kodwa yilowo nalowo wesifazane okwazi ukuzimela?
Ukuzimela kungenzeka kuphela kwabesifazane abanengqondo ebukhali, uhlamvu oluqinile kanye namanye amaqhinga. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi amadoda amaningi aseRussia abheka ukuzimela kwabo ngokweqile futhi azama ukulivikela ngazo zonke izindlela. Ngokuqondene namadoda kubantu besifazane abazimele, lesi sifiso sihle kakhulu.
Noma yimuphi umuntu omdala noma omncane nomuntu ozimele uzama ukwenza kanjalo ukuze isigamu sakhe - umfazi noma intombi, sithembele kuye. Uma kungenjalo ngomqondo wezezimali, ngokokuziphatha. Futhi uzokuzama ukugcina nokuqinisa lokhu kuxhomekezwa ngombhalo onjengokuthi: "Ngaphumelela esikoleni esiphakeme iziqu, kodwa awukwazi ukubuyela esikoleni sobuchwepheshe!" Noma lokhu: "Ngisengumqondisi womnyango, futhi usengumabhalane olula. Phonsa umsebenzi, uhlale ekhaya! "Izinhloko zemindeni ezivikelekile, zihamba kaningi kunabanye abazama ukubhala abafazi babo ukuba babe abafazi. Noma kunzima futhi kunzima: indawo yowesifazane esitofu! Noma ngaphezulu ngokunembile: Yebo, ubhekene nezimpendulo zabantu abangabazi, uhlangana nengane esikoleni, ulungise isidlo .... Futhi lapho, niyabona, bazosusa ngokuphelele ilungelo lokuvota: "Ngathi, ulalele." Futhi ukunakekelwa, ngokuzenzakalelayo, kuzokhokhwa kulabo besifazane abazimele kakhulu!
Ukuze ungaphenduli igama elingenasici futhi uncike ngokugcwele kumyeni wakhe wendoda, kudingeka uvikele izithakazelo zakho kusukela ekuqaleni. Ngomusa, kodwa njalo futhi ngokufutheka. Abesifazane abazimele bakhangwa ukuthi bona ngokwabo banqume ukuthi yini okufanele bafunde, ukuthi yini abazogqoka, lapho bazoya khona. Futhi ungalindeli imali nezipho ezivela kwabathembekile, okungenzeka ukuthi, bangadelela ukulawula yonke into epeni. Kodwa ukuba yinkosikazi yekusasa lakho kuyimisebenzi ejabulisayo nehloniphekile. Phela, unesimo sakho, umholo wakho kanye namathuba akho - ukuthola imfundo noma ukuya ezifundweni ze-cardio striptease.
Awuvumi? Ucabanga ukuthi isimo sengqondo esihle samadoda ngokwazo singanqotshwa ngokulalela kunokuba abesifazane abazimele bahlangane bekhala ngokudabukisayo ewindini? Ningakholelwa, abesifazane besifazane abakhuthele bakusho lokho kunomhawu. Futhi njengoba nje nje eshiyedwa yodwa esimweni esingenakuphika, okuningi okungavinjelwe. Ngoba ukuzimela kuyimfanelo, wena, kubantwana bakho, ngomsebenzi owenzayo. Noma kunjalo - umkhuba wokwenza izinqumo ezizimele nezolwazi. Owesifazane oqinile, okungenani, unomsebenzi ozinzile futhi umholo ozinzile nezindlu.
Owesifazane ophumelelayo uvame ukukwazi ukucabanga ngaphandle kwebhokisi, imfundo enhle, egqoke futhi enziwe ukunambitheka. Uyakwazi ukuzinaka yena futhi udonse amadoda nje ngokuzimela kwakhe. Futhi ukushada owesifazane ohlakaniphile futhi ozimele akuyona inkinga. Indoda ethandwayo kulula ukubopha nakakhulu, kubonisa ubuthakathaka bakhe obuthakathaka.
"Wonke umuntu ukhetha owesifazane, inkolo, umgwaqo" ... Futhi wonke owesifazane ngokwayo kuzodingeka akhethe ukuthi uzoshiya umsebenzi wakhe owuthandayo ngenxa yomndeni. Noma funda ukuhlanganisa impilo yomndeni nomsebenzi. Ukukhumbula ukuthi abangane, umsebenzi, ukuzilibazisa kusiza ukushintsha nokukhula ngokushesha, ukuqinisa ubudlelwane bomndeni. Phela, abesifazane abazimele bathola amadoda aqinile futhi aphumelelayo abaluleka engqondweni yabo besifazane, ingcebo engokomoya, engavamile.