Ukuzalwa kwengane akuyona nje injabulo enkulu kubo bobabili abazali abancane kanye nogogo nomkhulu omncane. Lokhu kuyisiqalo sendleleni ende eya ekuphileni, ngoba akwanele ukubeletha umntwana onempilo, kuyadingeka ukuba usebenzise amandla amakhulu (kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo) ukuze umntwana akhule enempilo futhi ehlakaniphile.
Enye yamakhono ingane eqala ukufunda ngokoqobo kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila kwayo yikhono lokukhuluma. Futhi nakuba kungeke kube yisikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuba asho izwi lakhe lokuqala, kodwa inkumbulo yezingane isivele iqalile ukulungisa nokuqonda imisindo, ama-syllable, amagama nemishwana ukuze uqale ukuwabiza ngokucacile cishe eminyakeni yobudala. Kodwa kuze kube manje, abazali basadingeka benze okuningi kanye nengane yabo ukufundisa amakhono okukhuluma. Ingabe ikhona indlela elula yokufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ikhulume kahle kanjani? Sizothola namhlanje!
Into yokuqala umama osemncane angayenza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi inkulumo yengane yakhe ihlanzekile futhi ihle esikhathini esizayo ukukhuluma naye njalo, nokubiza ngokucacile yonke imisindo ngaphandle kokulungisa lokho okuthiwa "inkulumo yezingane." Omunye akufanele abe namahloni futhi achaze ingane yonke into eyenzeka nxazonke kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zingaki izinyanga nezinsuku ingane ikhona. Ngempela, into esemqoka yengane ukuzwa izwi lomama, liqonde futhi liyikhumbule. Futhi emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa, yena uzama ukuphinda emva kwakhe - ekuqaleni imisindo elula namagama alula, amagama alula. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi lonke ukugeleza kolwazi olutholwe nguye akubonakali futhi akukhunjulwa nguye.
Abazali abaningi abasha abakhuluma nezingane zabo ekhaya baqala ukuzizwa benamahloni ngokwenza lokhu emphakathini - ngesikhathi sokuhamba kwansuku zonke, noma ekuqokweni kukadokotela. Bacabanga ukuthi babukeka beyiziphukuphuku, bekhuluma nabantu abangabazi ngezingane ezincane kangaka. Futhi ayinalutho kakhulu - ngoba ngale ndlela ikhishwa ekukhulumisaneni kwansuku zonke isendlalelo lonke lolo lwazi oludingekayo nolusithakazelisayo kumntwana. Futhi ukuphawula ngomntwana okwenzekayo akudingeki nje kuphela ezindongeni zendlu yakhe, lapho kungabikho lutho olujulile nolomhlaba jikelele olwenzeka khona. Kudingeka ukuphawula kukho konke okwenzeka emgwaqweni - neqabunga eliwile, futhi uzohlangana nomfazi. Phela, lapho ingane ithola ulwazi mayelana nezwe elikhulu elizungezile, lizoqhubeka ligcinwe enkumbulo yakhe, futhi ngokushesha uzama "ukuphulukana" ngaphandle ngenhlobo yokukhuluma.
Ukufundisa inkulumo yengane akufanele neze ikhohlwe ngomkhuba wokukhuluma, ukubiza kahle. Ngempela, ingane, umama uyisibonelo kukho konke. Futhi uma umama engasho ukuthi yikuphi umsindo nemagama ngendlela efanele (akunandaba ukuthi kungani - ngenxa yokuthi akakwazi, noma ngenxa nje yokuthi akafuni), khona-ke ingane ingaqala ukuyibiza ngokungafanele. Futhi ukubuyisela emuva kwesikhathi, ukulungisa kunzima kakhulu. Ngokufanayo, umuntu akufanele akhohlwe ngemithetho yokunambitheka okuhle, futhi kusukela ekuqaleni ufunde isibonelo sakhe siqu sokubonga. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma abazali bethi amagama anjalo, umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa uzokwazi ukuthi "ngiyabonga" nge-apple eyinikezwa yona, futhi uzolindela amazwi okubonga ngawe ngokuhlanganyela amathoyizi akhe nawe futhi ekumema ukuba udlale naye.
Ngokukhamba kwesikhathi abazali bazama ukubuyisela i-TV ngomntwana. Bakholelwa ukuthi lokho okushiwo i-TV kwanele ingane encane, futhi akudingeki ukuba ukhulume naye njalo. Kodwa le mbono ayiphutha ngokuyisisekelo. Ngempela, ingane encane, ngokuvamile ivunyelwe ukuchitha imizuzu engaphezu kwengu-15 ngosuku phambi kwethemishini ye-TV, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu ukuze izingane zingaboni konke - izithombe ezinhle zomculo kuphela ezingathinti ingqondo yengane. Ama-Classics endala ye-Soviet kule ndaba azokwenza konke okusemandleni, ngoba kuze kube manje thina, esidala, abantu abadala kangaka, ngenjabulo futhi sizohlala ku-TV ukubukela "abaculi baseBremen" noma "iKapitoshka". Ukuphindaphinda njalo emidwebeni yamagama, ukuphindaphinda kwendaba efanayo kungasiza ngisho nengane ekubizeni amagama akhe okuqala. Uma ukhetha izithombe zezinqola ezikhunjini zakho, khumbula into esemqoka - izidwebe kufanele zibe yiqiniso, amaqhawe azo kufanele abe nezilwane zezilwane zangempela, hhayi ezinye izinhlamvu ezingacacile ezingacaciswanga. Isikhathi samaqhawe esiqanjiwe sizofika kamuva, lapho ingane ingachazwa khona.
Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi imidwebo yinto yesibili, into ebaluleke kakhulu yengane ukukhulumisana kwakho naye, nsuku zonke, njalo ngomzuzu, ezithambile futhi ezithakazelisayo kokubili. Ungathembi ukuthi ingane yakho izofundiswa ukukhuluma kangcono kunakho (ugogo, abangane egcekeni, othisha enkulisa). Wena, futhi nguwe kuphela, ungafundisa ingane yakho, futhi kuphela ongabona futhi wenze ngesikhathi, uma kukhona okungahambi kahle. Nakani konke okwenziwa ngumntanakho futhi uthi. Futhi uma ngenxa yokuxhumana kwakho naye, izingxoxo zansuku zonke, akazange aqale ukukhuluma aze abe neminyaka emithathu ubudala, ungalindeli ukuba "akhulume", kungcono ukuxhumana nabachwepheshe ngokushesha. Phela, izinkinga zingahluka kakhulu. Futhi ngokushesha lapho bekhonjiswe ochwepheshe, kancane kancane bayothinta ukuthuthukiswa kwengane, futhi kulula ukuqedwa.
Ingabe ikhona indlela elula yokufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ikhulume kahle kanjani? Okubaluleke kakhulu - thanda ingane yakho, futhi ungalokothi uhlale unganandaba nemizamo yakhe yokwenza noma ukusho noma yini. Mkhuthaze, msize, amnike ithuba lokuthuthukisa. Futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu - khuluma naye futhi umlalele, noma ngabe kwenzekani empilweni yakho.