Ngakho-ke, akugcini nje ekunqobeni inhliziyo yakhe ekugcineni, kodwa futhi uhlukanisa ubudlelwane bakho bobulili, wanezela kubo ukuthintana kwe-flair yobulili nemfihlakalo.
Ngakho-ke, ungakha kanjani isimo sengqondo intombazane?
Yebo, kulula kakhulu - udinga nje ukufaka ucabangelo, wenze indawo efanelekile, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, nazo zonke izintambo zomphefumulo wakho ake uzizwe intombazane, ukuthi uthanda kangakanani futhi uyathanda kuwe. Ukwakhiwa kwemimoya yothando kuyasiza umculo othulile othulile (isidingo somdanso kufanele sigwenywe), ukudla okudliwayo okumnandi (okungcono ukukhanya ukuze ngemuva kwakho kungakhondi ukuba ulale), izimbali eziningi namakhandlela: ungasebenzisa amakhandlela amnandi, manje athengiswa ngobuningi cishe kunoma iyiphi isitolo. Kungaba kuhle ukuhlobisa igumbi ngamabhola, amathrebhoni noma izinhliziyo. Ngokuvamile, njengoba uthanda. Amakhandlela angashintshwa ngokukhanyisa okukhanyisiwe noma izibani eziphansi. Ake ucabange ngemithunzi emizimbeni yezinhlaka zakho eziboshwe, kubonakala odongeni. Iqiniso, kakade kuthakazelisayo? Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokukhanya okungapheli, intombazane yakho iyozizwa ikhululekile kakhulu, futhi uzothola umlingani wenyama nolalelayo. Ngenhloso efanayo ungathenga iwayini noma i-champagne. Ngithemba ukuthi usuyazi kakade ukuthanda kwakho ubuhle? Vele ungasebenzisi kabi utshwala, lokhu akuzange kuholele umuntu kuze kube sezingeni elihle.
Ngendlela, mayelana nokudla. Kungaba kuhle ukuthenga izithelo nokwenza ama saladi alula. Okufanele kube isidlo sothando - ama-strawberries, ama-cherries noma ama-raspberries. Angakondla, alahleke nxazonke, uthinte amajikijolo omzimba wakhe othandekayo, bese ephuka ijusi elivuthiwe. Isimo somusa neshokoledi yangempela, ikakhulukazi abesifazane bathanda kanjalo.
Imibala engcono kakhulu yobusuku obuseduze iyindilinga futhi ibomvu. Lesi siphetho sinomthelela othakazelisayo kwi-psychoenergetics yomuntu, kanti lowo owayengumdala ubeka imizwa yothando. Uma ungenayo emhlobiso wekamelo - akunandaba, into eyinhloko ukuthi unesisa esanele nokuzwela kumuntu oseduze. Phela, akukho nhlobo engasayikukhipha ukuziphatha okuyisiteleka kanye negama elihlaselayo elihlaselayo. Khuluma kuphela ngomnandi, ungathinti umsebenzi, izihloko zansuku zonke, abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo, njll Kungcono ukuvuma omunye nomunye othandweni, ukukhuluma ngemizwa yakho, khumbula umhlangano wokuqala, umngane wokuqala. Khumbula, kuloku kusihlwa kungokwakho kuphela nokuthi kungani Kukhona nanoma yimuphi umuntu wesithathu? Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingxoxo ezinjalo zemizwelo zihlanganisa ndawonye umbhangqwana, okungahle ube nethonya elihle ebuhlotsheni bakhe ebusweni obuseduze. Lapho ulungiselela ubusuku obuthandana, ungawudluli ekusetshenzisweni kwamandla akho. Ngaphandle kwalokho, emzuzwini othakazelisayo kakhulu, ungase uzizwe ukhathele futhi uziphatha, futhi ngokomzimba. Futhi luhlobo luni lothando olukhona?
Ungazami ukwenza i-romance "ngenkathi isenzo," izofana nokuphonsa ama-squirrels esiteshini. Kungcono ucabange phambili futhi ulungiselele.
Uma ubusuku bothando luhamba kahle ngokubusuku obunothando - qalisa imidlalo yokuthanda, ungakhohlwa ukuthambisa intombazane, utshele ukuthi uzwela oluhlukile, uncome futhi ubonise injabulo ebuhlotsheni obuseduze. Ngaphandle kwecala angeke agxeke inhlanhla yentombazane, iyoyiphanga yonke into. Mane nje unomusa, ngikholelwa, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, i-caresses yakhe iyoba yingozi njengoba eyakho. Ngobusuku obuthandana, ukuhlakulela umzimba kuyaphelele, okungase kube kancane kancane kube yinto yokuzihlakulela. Ngakho banakekele ama-creams akhethekile namafutha. Kulungile, ukuqhubeka nokufaka ingqungquthela yokukhohlisa intombazane ngeke. Ngicabanga ukuthi wena ngokwakho uyazi nokuthi ungenzani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinzuzo zobuchwepheshe bezocansi manje - ama-daime ayishumi nambili.
Kungcono ngikukhumbuze ukuthi ukuthandana akuyona nje ukusondelana okungathí sina, kungumzimba omuhle, izenzo, ukuthungathwa okwenziwe egameni nangothando. Ngobusuku obumnandi angalungiselelwa hhayi kuphela endlini noma efulethini, kodwa futhi ensimini, endaweni engavamile yolwandle, lapho umoya ngokwawo unomngane owedlala khona. Ukubambisana akudingeki ukuphela ngombhede. Ungamane umemele othandekayo wakho ukuhamba ehlathini lasebusika, ukuzwakalisa izwe elihle kakhulu, ukubanga umoya omusha we-frosty, ukuzwa ubuhle nokuhleka koMama Wendalo, bese uzifudumala ndawonye ngaphambi komlilo ovuthayo emlonyeni womunye nomunye. Indlela yokwazi, mhlawumbe lolu luhambo oluzokhumbula kakhulu emhlabeni? Noma uzozulazula epaki ekwindla, uphonsa amaqabunga omunye nomunye bese uqoqa ama-chestnuts. Noma ukukhohliswa yi-dandelion balls eyinhloko, ehlekisa kakhulu futhi ethinta izinwele .... Kunezinketho eziningi. Ngempela, ukuthandana kusho ukuphakama ngokomzwelo, lapho umphefumulo ubonakala uhamba phezu komzimba, futhi imizwa ikucindezela kuze kube sekupheleni, lapho uchitha ngokuphelele othandekayo wakho, lapho amazwi avela engoma kaZemfira engqondweni: "Ngibamba isandla sakho, nakho konke isakazeka ".
Ungakhohlwa ukuhambelana ngamasms omnene, zama ukubamba futhi uthinte othandekayo wakho futhi, ujwayele ukuzwa okuthinta ukushayela, ukuhlola ukubuka komhlaba womlingani wakho, ukushayela ucingo, ukukhuluma ngosuku oludlule, wabelane ngamava akho, uchithe isikhathi sokuphumula okuhlangene phakathi kwesimiso somkhuba okungenani ukukhulumisana, ukwenza izinkumbulo ezincane nokuthakazelisa - ngokubambisana lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuba wakhe ubudlelwane obuhle obuhambisana nesothando nenhlonipho. Futhi vumela empilweni yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi kukhona indawo yokuthanda futhi i-adventurism enempilo, egcwalisa umhlaba ngemibala emisha nokubonakala okucacile.
Ngithemba, ngiphendule ngokugcwele lo mbuzo: kanjani ukudala isimo sengqondo sensizwa? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngithandane!