Amabhulogi ayinamahloni nokuchitha isikhathi? Uyazi, imiphumela yale ndawo "yokuqeqeshwa" ebonakalayo ingokoqobo.
Ukuchaza impilo yakho ekukhulumisaneni okungokoqobo nomuntu ongaziwayo , awufundi nje ukuveza ngokucacile imicabango nemizwa. Kancane kancane, ngezitini, uzakhela ngendlela ofuna ukuyenza ngayo. Okokuqala ephepheni (okungukuthi, esimweni sokuqapha), bese kuthi empilweni. Amagama anamandla amakhulu, ikakhulu uma ukholwa kuwo. Ubhala imemo yakho. Manje kubonakala kuwe ukuthi bambalwa abantu abanesithakazelo ezindabeni mayelana nesikole sakho noma imibiko evela ekuvakasheni kwakho kokuqala, futhi ngolunye usuku bayofundiswa ngenjabulo yizingane zakho nabazukulu. Funda ukuxhumana. Futhi kuzo zonke izinzwa - nokudlala ngothando, ukuphonsa imibono nomsebenzisi othakazelisayo oye ekukhanyeni, futhi ngokufaneleko ama-otshivat boorish, okuyinto i-Inthanethi engekho, futhi avikele ngokuqondile umbono wabo ekuxabaneni ngezihloko ezishisayo. Uyaziqonda kangcono. Ukuhlaziya amarekhodi amadala, ungakwazi ukukhuluma ekhanda elibandayo ukuthi kungani kungekho ubuhlobo nomuntu wangaphambili, yingakho intombazane idangele ngempela, futhi ngubani owayengalungile ngokuxabana nonina. Yenza iziphetho zakho futhi ungaphindi amaphutha futhi! Futhi ama-diaries e-intanethi ahlinzeka ithuba lokukwazi abangane bakho nabangane bakho. Funda phakathi kwemigqa!
Umklami ozimele
Ngezinye izikhathi izifiso zakho zokuzibonakalisa azigcini ematheksthini amarekhodi. Ibhulogi yakho ibheka kanjani ezweni elibonakalayo? Izinhliziyo. Ama-Postcard anezikhalazo, zonke izithunzi ze-pink ... Okuzungezile inqolobane yangempela. Kodwa uqinisekile ukuthi lesi sithombe sikaBarbie sikubonisa ngempela.
Mhlophe kumnyama. Indlela elula yokubonakala ihlukile kwabanye ukukwenza okuphambene nalokhu. Kodwa amaqiniso alula awayeki ukuba amaqiniso kuphela ngoba wonke umuntu uyazi ngabo. Futhi ukufunda izincwadi ezimhlophe ngesizinda esimnyama kunzima, ngakho gcina engqondweni - izambulelo zakho zengozini esele ingagcwaliswa. Linea. "Izinsuku ezinhlanu, ukugqoka kanjani izinwele zami," "Inyanga, ukuthi ungabloga kanjani" ... Kubonakala sengathi uyashesha ukuthola isizathu sokuziqhenya kuzo zonke izinto. Hhayi, uyathandeka futhi wena ngokwakho, ngaphandle kolwazi mayelana nakho konke lokhu!
Lokhu kusho ukuthini: ungumuntu omuhle futhi usebenza kuye. Ibhulogi iyithuba elihle labantu abanamahloni okukhulumisana nabo, abangazi ukuthi besaba kanjani noma bayesaba kanjani ukugxila ngisho nezilaleli ezincane. Futhi kanyekanye, ngesikhathi esifanayo bethola imibono ewasekelayo futhi ebona isithakazelo ngokwabo, ekugcineni bayeke ukugxuma nokuhlanya futhi nokuxhumana okubukhoma nomuntu ongaziwayo.
Lindela ushintsho.
Kusho ukuthini: cishe cishe, wamcasula ngokungaqondile ngenye indlela yegama - isibonelo, wabhala ukuthi awukwazi ukuma umsikazi wesandla, ukhohlwa ukuthi ngandlela-thile wathola isipho sakhe esikhwameni esenziwe ngesandla. Kulokhu, ukuhlaselwa kwakhe kusho ukufutheka nokubuyisela okuncane, futhi kungcono ukuthola isizathu ngokushesha. Noma, mhlawumbe, empilweni uziphatha naye njengomholi, kodwa kuwebhu uzama ukuphuma ekulawuleni?
Kusho ukuthini: ungacasuli futhi ungacabangi lokhu ukungabi nentshisekelo kumuntu wakho. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ucabanga ukuthi ungumuntu oseduze kangangokuba uyaqiniseka ukuthi uzomtshela konke ngaphambi kokuba uhlale kukhompyutha. Mhlawumbe naye unomhawu omncane kubangani bakho be-Inthanethi. Mtshele ukuthi usengumngane wakho omkhulu.
... uyashesha ukubeka izithombe zakho eziphumelele kakhulu - ngenxa yalokho, kunezithombe eziningi kubhulogi yakho kunezinhlamvu.
Kusho ukuthini: uncike emibonweni yomunye umuntu, futhi ukuphawula okungalungile noma ngisho nokungathathi hlangothi komuntu ongaziwa kungakunqamula unomphela. Fundisa ukuzethemba-uma umuntu engakuthandi, akukuguquli isidalwa esibi, kepha singene ebhokisini. Kusho ukuthi uthanda izinto ezahlukene. Endleleni, lalela iseluleko futhi ungasheshi ukuvinjelwa wonke umuntu ongeke aphume ekunconyeni: mhlawumbe izinwele zakho ezintsha akuyona into enhle kakhulu kuwe. ... ubhala "ngaphansi kokukhiya nokhiye". Kusho ukuthini: uzobe ufaneleka ngokwengeziwe kwi-diary iphepha elilula kunomlingani wakhe we-elekthronikhi. Amarekhodi akho ayomuntu siqu futhi, ngaphambi kokuba anikeze umuntu ukuba afinyelele kubo, cabanga ukuthi lo muntu ufanelwe yini ukuthembela, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyadingeka yini kuye. Akuwona wonke umuntu ovuthayo nesifiso sokuba abemmeli bezimfihlo ezimbi zomuntu ... ukuthandazela ukwengeza abangani "ngezintshisekelo." Kusho ukuthini: uthando oluvamile lokuhamba ngama-puddles, amabhayisikobho no-Audrey Toth noma i-lollipops akusho ukuthi ngamawele emoyeni. Yingakho kuvame ukuphuma ukuthi ususe abangane abasha ohlwini oluvela ezweni elingokoqobo, ngokushesha njengoba wanezela. Labo ozoba nesithakazelo ngempela sokufunda, kungcono ukucinga emiphakathini ephathelene nabo, futhi unikeze ubungane hhayi ngenxa yokuthi bobabili nilapho, futhi nakuba, ngaphambi kokuxoxa emibhalweni.
Ukuxhumana okungavamile nomuntu ongawazi kungaholela kunoma yini.