Khumbula, indoda iyisiqhawe, kufaka phakathi nenjabulo yakhe, ngakho-ke yilungele. Into esemqoka akuyona ukucindezela isimo esivele sinzima. Kufanele ukwazi ukukhumbula ukuthi ubonise kanjani kalula ukuzwelana kwakho ebuntwaneni. Khona-ke kwakungenaso isipiliyoni sokuphila okunzima, ubuhlungu bokuhlangenwe nakho kokuhlukaniswa nokuthukuthela. Ukuvuleka nokukhululeka kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokunqoba inhliziyo yowesifazane.
Yenza isinyathelo sokuzijwayeza
Uma ungajwayelene nalowo, okukhethekile - ungalibali. Uma kwenzeka wazi ukuthi ubukhulu bungakanani, sekuyisikhathi sokuba nobuhlobo obunobungane. Mema kuye kumabhayisikobho noma e-cafe, uhambele epaki. Ungacabangi ukuthi konke kulahlekile uma enqaba. Mhlawumbe unezinye izinhlelo futhi kufanele uphakamise esinye isikhathi.
Ungase ube nesithakazelo ezindabeni zakhe, imizwelo. Sondelani, sithinteke kakhulu. Mcabange ngokuthembeka nokuvuleka kwayo.
Ungasunduli kanzima kakhulu
Ngisho noma uzama ukuvuleka nokuqondisa okukhulu, akusizi ngalutho emhlanganweni wokuqala ukukhuluma ngozwela lwakho nesifiso sokuhlangana. Kungcono ukuthi ungasheshi, ngoba ungesabisa intombazane enengcindezi enjalo. Thola incazelo yegolide phakathi kokuvuleka okugcwele nokulindela kwesineke.
Zama ukuvakashela naye njalo ngangokunokwenzeka. Veza isihawu sakho ngokucophelela: ukuvula umnyango ekamelweni, ukunikeza ikhofi, ukumomotheka. Pamper le ntombazane enezipho ezincane, ezingenakubalwa noma izinto ezingamangazi.
Bheka Ngamehlo Akho
Okumangalisa ukuthi amehlo akwazi ukutshela okuningi. Ukubukeka komuntu othandweni akukwazi ukudideka nanoma yini, ngakho-ke sebenzisa. Ngakho-ke, uzokwazi ukusungula oxhumana naye oseduze futhi, mhlawumbe, ubone inhlansi emehlweni akhe.
Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ugweme amehlo akhe. Kwezinye izimo lokhu kungase kungabi kufanelekile ngokuphelele. Khumbula njalo mayelana nokuhlungwa.
Khuluma ngokuqondile
Uma uke wazama konke esikuchazile ngenhla, ungaqhubeka nokucasula okukhulu: ingxoxo ecacile mayelana nemizwa. Kodwa-ke, sineluleka ukuthi singalandeli ngesiphakamiso sokuhlangana. Kungcono kakhulu ukukwenza ebangeni lesihlanu, ukunakekelwa komuntu ofunde naye esikoleni. Indlela elula yokusho ukuthi uzizwa ngemizwa yakhe ethile futhi ubuze ukuthi ucabangani ngalokhu. Mhlawumbe intombazane uqobo ikulokhu ikubukele isikhathi eside futhi ilinde isimemo ngosuku.
Isimemo sosuku kungaba yisikhathi esihle sokukhuluma ngemizwa yakho.
Ungakhathazeki kakhulu uma intombazane enqaba. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungazami ukubambelela ebuhlotsheni abangenalo isithakazelo. Umlando uyazi amacala amaningi uma owesifazane engathandi indoda, kodwa waqhubeka emnakekela, ngenxa yalokho ayeyeka. Ungapheli amandla, ngoba impilo yakho idalwa yibo.