Abazukulukazi bama-matrons abazidlayo baseRoma, ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwabo uSuku lwabesifazane, bafika esiphethweni sokuba khona kwabathandekayo babo ngosuku lowesifazane lwentwasahlobo nobuhle, bekhuluma ngokukhululekile. Amadoda ngalolu suku avunyelwe kuphela ukuhambisa isigamu sabo endaweni yokugubha (esanikeze ngaphambi kwesipho esiphuthumayo), bese ehambisa ekhaya.
Kuyilinga ngakwesinye isandla. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala kimi ukuthi lo mqondo usondelene nokuba nomuntu wakho othandekayo. Thola i-bouquet ebaluleke kakhulu yama-roses obomvu (ama-irises ama-purple noma ama-tulips amhlophe), hamba ndawonye ukuhamba ngezinyawo epaki (ulale embhedeni kuze kube kusihlwa noma uye embukisweni we-soul-mellow melodrama), futhi kusihlwa uvakashele indawo yokudlela enhle (uhlele isidlo sasekhaya ndawonye noma umeme isimemo kuya kweshumi eliseduze abangane). Isikripthi sosuku lwabesifazane besentwasahlobo nobuhle singaba yinoma yini, into eyinhloko ukuthi uyichitha ngokungenakulibaleka, uzizwe ukuthi uyathandwa futhi uyakwaziswa, uqaphela ukuthi ujabule ngaphandle "kwezinkomba."
Kulindele isimangaliso
Ucabangani, yini esiyilindayo ngobusuku beSuku lwabesifazane? Izimbali, ubucwebe obuhle, izigqoko zangaphansi ze-sexy, amaswidi, amakha amafashini? Yiqiniso, akekho kithi ozolahla kulezi zipho, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, uzocasuka uma bengayitholi isipho kulolu hlu njengesipho. Kodwa izipho, noma yikuphi okushoyo, ziyingxenye eyodwa yezinto ezinhle kakhulu kulokho esikulindele ngokulangazela ngoMashi 8. Silindele okungaphezulu: izinkumanga ezimnandi, okungathi thina ngokwethu singeke sikwazi ukuchaza, kodwa uma kwenzeka, sizoqonda ukuthi "Yebo, yilokho engangikuphuphile!" Izimangalisi, izimangaliso, ekugcineni. Izimangaliso amadoda ethu abathandayo abahlela kulolu suku. Kodwa ukuthi befana ncamashi njengoba uphupha, asize abameli bethu abakhethiwe ekusebenzeni kwabo kancane.
Ukuqala kwangempela kweholidi
Ngokuqinisekile empilweni yakho uye wabhekana nokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi umqondo wokuthi ukugubha usuku lukaSuku lwabesifazane (ikakhulukazi, njengamanye amadethi amangazayo) wena nomlingani wakho uhlukile. Ngonyaka odlule wena, wena, waphupha ukuthi wena nomyeni wakho nizochitha lolu suku kuphela, kodwa wathatha futhi wamema abangane (kwakungcono ngisho noma epheka ukudla kwakhe). Futhi umngane wakho oseduze wayefisa ukuthi umyeni wakhe wayezomtshela ngephuphu yesiqhwaga saseFrance, abathandekayo embukisweni. Kodwa wathola indandatho yesipho, okubi kunazo zonke ongazange uhlangabezane nayo (ngenhlanhla, ingabuyiselwa esitolo, okwenza ngokuthula). Ngenxa yalezi zibonelo ezingabonakali kakhulu, ekugcineni wazi ukuthi: umlingani wakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usondele kangakanani, ngeke usazi ukufunda imicabango yakho. Futhi utshele umuntu wakho ngokuthula ukuthi yikuphi "uhambo olubomvu" noma "izintambo zendlovukazi" ophupha ngalo kulo suku lwentwasahlobo, kungcono ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Lokhu kungenziwa kanjani? Izazi zengqondo zithi amazwi akho kufanele abe angabonakali, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, futhi aqukethe imininingwane ecacile ezosiza indoda ukukhumbula isifiso sakho. Isibonelo, "Yisiphi isikhwama esenziwe ngesitayela esintombazane. I-black suede, uthando lwami! Ngicabanga ukuthi ngibone okufanayo esitolo eduze kwesitolo. " Ungaqiniseka, umyeni wakho uzokujabulela ukusebenzisa usizo lwakho. Into ewukuphela, ungacindezeli. Kuyoba mnandi kuye njengokungathi uziqagele. Ngokufanayo, ungathula "uhlele" ngokuthula futhi usebenzise kanjani iholidi. Isibonelo, uma usho izikhathi ezimbalwa mayelana nokuthi i-cafe emangalisayo yavulwa kanjani endaweni nokuthi ungathanda ukuphuza itiye lapho nge-branded charlotte, mhlawumbe, ngomhla ka-8 Mashi isifiso sakho sizogcwaliseka.
Ngiyabonga kakhulu! Qinisekisa ukuveza injabulo yakho lapho kunoma yikuphi ukuhalalisela, ukubonisa ukunakwa, isipho. Sukuma, ukubonga ngobuqotho, wenze ukuncoma kumnandi kanye nenganekwane yomuntu othandekayo. Ngisho noma engazange ... ngiyakukucela. Naphezu kwakho konke, wazama, wacabanga, wakhetha, wachitha. Mhlawumbe awuzange utshele lo mlingani ulwazi olulungile, ucabanga ukuthi kufanele aziqagele ngezifiso zakho, noma ukuphanga ngokusobala. Ungakhathazeki futhi uphazamise othandekayo wakho. Thenga lokho okuphuphile, noma ubuze ngesikhathi esizayo. Amaholidi aseduze kakhulu!