Ukuvuka ephusheni lakho, ukuqonda ukuthi ukhona e-dreamland futhi wenze noma yini inhliziyo yakho efisa - ukunqoba izitha, ukuphumula emhlabeni futhi uhambe, ujabulele uthando ... Ukubamba amaphupho akho ngaphansi komklamo - lokhu kungenzeka uma ufunda ubuciko bokuqaphela iphupha.
Omunye angase acabange ukuthi amaphupho aqaphelayo ayinto entsha, engaziwa ngaphambilini. Empeleni, ngisho izazi zefilosofi zamaGreki zabhala ukuthi umuntu angakwazi ukulawula amaphupho akhe. Kodwa okokuqala udinga ukungena esimweni "sobala" ("cima"), ukuphupha okuqaphelayo. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo, cishe sonke sasihlangabezane nalokhu: ngokuzumayo uyaqaphela ukuthi usephusheni, okwesikhashana udaba olubuhlungu obona lube lubi kakhulu, kepha lokhu, njengokubusa, kuvela ukuvuswa. Ngempela, izimo ezicindezelayo kanye namaphupho angathandeki abangelayo kungabangela ukuphazamiseka kokuqonda: kuyiphupho nje. Futhi uma uvuka ngomzuzwana olandelayo, kufanele uqaphele: yebo, kwakungaba iphupho elimnandi, ngakho-ke angikwazi ukwesaba hhayi ukuvuka, kodwa zama ukushintsha isimo ngedwa.Ngokuvumelana nobuthongo
Ingabe udinga ukubhaliswa ngamaphupho akho, uzama ukubona ukuthi ulele, kuyini ukusetshenziswa kwalo? Cabanga ukuthi uhamba ngokuzithoba kwakho, njengo-Alice ku-Wonderland: kunezinhlobo zobugovu endleleni, ama-monsters aphuma, izilo zezinkinga ezingokwenkolo ezingaxazululwa noma izinkimbinkimbi zikuxosha. Ephusheni evamile, uvele ubalekele ukwesaba kwakho bese uvuka ngokuthukuza okubandayo, emva kwalokho uzama ukuqonda isikhathi eside ukuthi iphupho liyini nokuthi yini okufanele ulindele. Uma uqaphela ukuthi ulele, futhi abaphishekelayo bangabantu abalingiswa begeyimu yephupho, ungakwazi ukuxazulula le nkinga ngaphandle kokuvuka. Amadoda ahlakaniphile esizweni sakwaMalaysia sasendle bafundisa izingane zabo ukuba zingabikho ezitheni zabo ephusheni, kodwa zizobhekana nazo. Kulesi simo, ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu kuyiphupho, kwanele ukuthi i-tiger ehlaselayo noma ingonyama iphenduke ibe yikhuni engenabungozi. Ukusebenzisa le nqubo, ungabhekana nezimpumputhe zobusuku futhi uxazulule izinkinga ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ukuhlaziya nokuqonda ukulala. Iphupho ngalinye linikeza izibonakaliso mayelana nalokho okubalulekile kithi: kusikhuthaza isinqumo esifanele, sixwayisa ngamaphutha, sikhathalela impilo futhi sisiza ukuxazulula izinkinga eziningi ezihlobene nabanye abantu. Uma ufunda ukuzibona ephusheni, khona-ke ungasebenzisa isakhiwo sephupho ngokwakho. Isibonelo, uqeqesha emisebenzini ehlukene, uxhumane nanoma ubani, ukubiza ababi babo, izitha noma abantu abafile ngokuphelele. Amaphupho kanye nezingokoqobo ziyizici ezimbili ezingokoqobo, ngakho ukunqoba isimo esinzima ephusheni kubangela ukuthi uqinise futhi uphumelele empeleni. Ngaphezu kokulwa nezinkinga ezenzeka ephusheni, kunezihloko eziningi ezimangalisayo futhi ezihlabayo, okuqaphela ukuthi kunikeza injabulo ephakeme kakhulu: isibonelo, isimo sezindiza. Abaningi baphupha abacwaningi ukuthi inkokhelo yamahhala ephusheni iphakamisa lo mphupho ekuqaphele: Ngiyindiza, kodwa kuyiphupho. Uma uvame ukuhamba ephusheni, cishe uzofunda ukuthi ungalawula kanjani isimo sakho. Futhi uma kukhanyiswa okunjalo kwenzeka, umuntu uthola ukuphakama okungakaze kube khona: angakwazi ukulawula indiza yakhe, anqobe amabanga amakhulu. Abaphuphi abaphuthumayo basebenzisa amakhono abo ukuze bahambe ezindaweni ezikude kakhulu zomhlaba: ukuzijabulisa lobusuku kuthandwa kakhulu kulabo abaye bazi kahle ubuciko bokulala. Futhi uma amaphupho akho engakwazi ukugcwaliseka, khona-ke ephusheni kuyokwenzeka ngempela!
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Umthetho wokuqala kulabo abafuna ukubambisana namaphupho abo futhi babone amaphupho "obala" ukubona ukubaluleka kwawo. Abanye abantu bathi ababoni amaphupho nhlobo. Empeleni, bayakubona, kodwa ungakhumbuli, futhi kwenzeka ngoba umuntu akakholelwa ekubalukeni kwamaphupho, akafuni ukungena ekujuleni kwezwe lakhe langaphakathi. Imibono ehlakaniphile noma ecacile, ngokusho kwabacwaningi, ngokuvamile ivela ngo-5 kuya ku-8 ekuseni, lapho ingqondo isivele iphumile. Kodwa ukuze ufunde amaphupho, kudingeka udinga amasu athile. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala kudingeka ufunde ukuthi ungayikhumbula kanjani amaphupho futhi ugcine idayari yephupho, (ngisho nephupho eliqhakazile futhi elizwakalayo linganyamalala uma ungawubhalisi ngesikhathi. Imininingwane ebalulekile izosuswa ememori, ngakho gcina incwadi bese ubhala phansi bese ubhala phansi wonke amaphupho akho ngesikhathi esisodwa emva kokuvusa Ngaphansi kwekholomu: ngakwesobunxele - iphupho nemifanekiso yalo, ngakwesokudla - "ukuhumusha", izinhlangano ezizimele.Ukuvuswa okungokwemvelo kwandisa amathuba okukhumbula iphupho.Uma othile ekuvusa noma i-alamu isuka, iphupho lingase lingabonakali. qala ukusebenza Uma uphupha futhi uqonde ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani kulobu busuku bokuphila kwengqondo, amaphupho azophendula ngawe ngendlela efanayo: zizokhanya, zigcwele futhi zihlale zivame kakhulu. Manje ungaqhubeka ukwazi ubuciko bezimoto eziqaphelayo: Ngaphambi kokuba ulale, zibuze: Ngizovuka ephusheni futhi ngiqaphele ukuthi lokhu kuyiphupho nje. "Ukubekezela okuncane nokuqeqeshwa futhi uzokwazi ukuzwa yonke into enhle yokulawula amaphupho akho.