Uma kwenzeka ngosuku lokuqala isigamu sesilisa sithola isipiliyoni esingakahleki sokumanga, izibalo zikhomba ukuthi 65% ala madoda afuna ukuya emhlanganweni ofanayo olandelayo. Ukuze ufunde intombazane, ukubanga ngokulungile nomuntu oyithandayo, kuzosiza ikhono lokunaka ikhwalithi yokuzibheka ngokwayo, kanye nezici ezihambisana nayo. Indawo yokumanga, kanye nokuzimisela kwendoda ethandwayo yokumanga kanye nenqubo yenkambiso, kuhlobene nalezi zici.
Ungaphika. Ukuhlangana okuthandana kokuqala, cishe, akubandakanyi umbuzo ohlobene nekhono elifanele lentombazane yokumanga, kodwa kunalokho lapho ungayenza khona. Izinyembezi ezingcono kakhulu zenzeka ezindaweni ezingapheli, njengoba abantu bezocansi bekholelwa. Amantombazane amancane ikakhulukazi afisa ukuveza imizwa yabo ngokungazi lutho, aziqhayise ngamandla akhona phezu kwesilisa wesilisa, kodwa amadoda asathanda ukuthula ngokuthula. Ukuzama ukumanga umuntu omthandayo, kokubili endaweni egcwele futhi enomsindo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ibha, noma ikhonsathi, okokuqala, noma ezinsukwini ezilandelayo, akudingekile. Amadoda anesimo esithandwayo, esingenabofakazi, ngokusho kukaMathewu Hussy - umcwaningi wokuxhumana nabantu. Ukuzikhethela kwabesifazane kuyokwazi ukudala imizwa yothando, ehambisana nomculo omnandi namakhandlela ngempepho. Into eyinhloko ukuthi akukho lutho olwamvimbela.
Silandela ukunambitheka. Iphuzu elilandelayo lizoba ukuthi ngesikhathi sokumanga indawo ebalulekile ukulandela ama-flavour avela kokubili emlonyeni nasezindebe ngobuso. Nakuba kungekhona wonke umuntu ocabangela iphunga ngesikhathi sokumanga, nokho unelungelo lokubizwa ngokuthi yingxenye ebalulekile yenqubo yezocansi. Ukumanga komuntu uSara Woodley ucabangela - isazi esikoleni esisodwa, njengesivivinyo sempilo yenkosikazi encane. Akuhambisani nephunga elithile lokumanga, kungasho ukuthi azikho izinkinga ezibucayi nesistimu yomzimba, noma okungenani ngokugaya. Ngakho-ke, kanye nomzimba ngokwawo wonke.
Silandela isikhathi. Isikhathi sibalulekile endleleni yokufunda, intombazane ayiyona ukumanga kabi. Khetha umzuzu lapho umuntu eyobekwa khona ngokumangazela okukhulu, yilokho okubalulekile. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ubulili besilisa bukulungele ukusondelana cishe njalo. K kisses akunakwenzeka, kodwa ukulala, cishe. Lapho bevusa ukukhangwa okuthakazelisayo, ngokusho kukaJudy James, obengumlobi wencwadi eyaziwa kakhulu Body Body, izindebe zesilisa ziba kancane kancane futhi zigqamile. Ukuhlola izinga eliphansi lobuso bomuntu, kungaba isignali eyengeziwe esifisweni sokumanga. Ingxenye yesilisa ayithandi ukumanga, ngokudabukisayo, emva kocansi. Uyabheka ukumangala ukuguqula ekusebenzeni okusebenzayo okubaluleke kakhulu, lapho isigamu sowesifazane esilungele khona ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Sidla ngaphambi kokumanga. Ukuthakazelisa ngeke kuthole isigamu samadoda nabesilisa, ngoba ukumanga kungcono nakancane ku-esiswini esingenalutho. Insizwa encane izolokhu ikhumbula ukukhononda kwakhe esiswini, noma ukuqina kokuphefumula kwakhe. Amazwi abacwaningi nawo asho ukuthi, lapho ekhuluma ngokudla ngaphambi kokuziqhayisa, nansi ezinye izici ezimbalwa. Owesifazane, eseqedile ukudla, uthola ubulili obufunayo. U-Aphrodisiacs wanikeza igama elifanayo ngokuhlonipha unkulunkulukazi ongumGrisi nodumile u-Aphrodite. Bakhulisa ukukhanga okusondelene, kanye nokwakhiwa kwesigamu sesilisa. Izinto ze-Psychedelic zitholakala kalula ekudleni: ezinyosi namanothi, bese ubhanana nama-avocados, kanye namakhowe. Izithelo ze-acids, ezisiza ukukhiqizwa kwamahomoni asondelene, zifaka isandla ekuqukethwe kwazo, kokubili egumbini le-champagne newayini. Amagama afanayo ayenjalo kuStephanie Tolle udokotela odla ukudla.
Ukuthintana. Ama-pheromone engokwemvelo angabhekiswa emigqumeni esemqoka ekufuneni umlingani obuseduze, oyifunayo, nabo bobabili abalingani, kokubili besilisa nabesilisa. Ezinye izicwaningi zesosayensi ziye zafinyelela esiphethweni esifanayo. Ekhumbula ukuthi khona komzimba othile womuntu onomsebenzi wokubona lezi pheromone, umuntu angasho ukuthi ukukhethwa komlingani akubangelwa izimpawu zomphakathi. Izicubu ezibucayi ngokwazo zikhona phakathi kwendawo yomlomo nekhala. Ngakho ngaphambi kokuba uwanga, unike le ndoda ithuba lokukhala. Ama-tissue azwa isignali esondelene, emele umzimba womunye. Amaseli azwelayo, uma eqhathaniswa nombono wephunga elijwayele, unikeza izibonakaliso ezingxenyeni ezithile zobuchopho bomlingani. Ubhekene nomoya womuntu ngokwakhe.
Kuvele kuphela. Ubulili besilisa abuyithandi izintuthwane ezithile zezinyane, futhi, njengokungathi u-kisses wezinwele, noma ngabe ugijima. Kunezinkolelo eziningana ezisho impendulo yombuzo othi kungani ubulili besilisa bufana nobusuku obuthandayo obuthandayo. Isazi sesayensi yabantu, uHelen Fischer, wayengombono wokuthi ngokumanga okunjalo isilisa sobulili silinga ukudlulisela u-testosterone wakhe kumfazi, okusho ukumjabulisa. Ngesigamu sesilisa, ubusuku ngokwayo kubaluleke kakhulu. Izinyembezi ezinjalo, lapho kukhona khona inqwaba yamathe, uma kuqhathaniswa nezinkanuko zothando, kuphuthumise ukushaya kwenhliziyo yakhe ezingeni ezingu-120 ngomzuzu. Ucwaningo olwenziwe ngabahlanganyeli abangu-1041, olungaziwa futhi olugcinwe eNew York University, lubonise ukuthi ukuwanga okulula phakathi kocansi kungase kungabi nendawo yabo.
Ukufunda intombazane enomunyu ovuthiwe ngezinye izikhathi kulula kunalokho akulindele. Ukubamba isithandwa kakhulu kangangokuthi indoda ayikwazi ukusiza ukucabanga ngaye isikhathi eside. Vumela wonke umuntu angaphathi ngale ndlela, kodwa kudingeka silwele lokhu. Phela, ukumanga akuyona indawo yokugcina empilweni yethu.