Lokhu kuyindlela yeqiniso yokuziveza, ngokwezifiso zomuntu siqu. Intshisekelo yokugqoka, ekusikeni kwayo, isitayela somuntu njalo. Ngisho nabantu basendulo bazama ukuhlobisa izingubo zabo zokuqala ngezindwangu, ukufakwa, imivimbo. Izembatho zingatshela okuningi ngomuntu ogqoke. Isitayela sezingubo, umbala wayo, ukusikeka, kanye nezesekeli kungatshela abanye ngemvelo, ukuthambekela, umugqa wokuphila. Izembatho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyayithanda noma cha, zikhombisa ngokuphelele umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi. Ikhwalithi yendwangu lapho izembatho zakho zikhonjisiwe khona, izokutshela ngokuchuma kwempahla. Izingubo ezibekwa kuwe, zingabangela imizwa ehlukene phakathi kwabantu: inhlonipho, ukungabi nandaba, ukuhleka usulu. Ngempela, emhlabeni jikelele kunezinkulumo ongazihumusha ngolimi lwakho, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa umqondo wokuthi "uhlangabezane nezingubo." Futhi ungikholelwe, awusoze waba nelungelo lesibini lokuziveza kuqala. Futhi umbono wokuqala uxhomeke ekutheni uzobona kanjani esikhathini esizayo. Lokhu sekuyisikhathi eside kube yimfihlo kunoma ubani.
Ukubukeka kuyinto yohlu uhlobo lwekhadi lebhizinisi lalowo nalowo kithi. Uma ungumuntu onomphefumulo omuhle, kodwa ungahlangabezane nesimiso somphakathi, akekho ozokwazi ngakho. Uzohlala "ngemuva" komphakathi, kuphela ngoba ukuxhumana nawe kuyobe kunganakiwe.
Kodwa ngizibuza ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukuthola ukuthi yini izingubo ezenza uzihloniphe. Uma ucabanga kanzima, akuzona izembatho ezizenza ukuthi uzihloniphe, kodwa yikuphi ukwazisa kwangaphakathi esikunika abathandekayo bakho. Futhi izingubo ziyingxenye yalokho yokuphila kwethu okungagcizelela ukuthi singaphakathi kwethu. Umuntu ozihloniphayo akasoze agqoke isambatho noma igqoke, akayikuvumela amabala angcolile ezembatho zakhe. Impahla engahlosiwe yimuphi umuntu ayikwazi ukubangela ukuzethemba, ngaphandle kokuthi abantu abahlala "phansi" - abantu abangenamakhaya, izidakamizwa, izidakamizwa.
Ukungahloniphi okubangelwa izimo eziphuthumayo, isibonelo, uma i-suit ifafazwa imoto edlula noma ibala elitshalwe ngekhofi elichithekile, linganciphisa kakhulu imfucuza yomuntu. Phela, izingubo ezingenakuqhathaniswa yisikhali sokuvikela indawo yangasese yangasese, izwe lomuntu siqu, elingaziwa. IsiSlovenity sisho ngokucacile ngesimo sayo sengqondo ngokwazo futhi njengokungathi sihlukumeza umuntu, simbula, okuholela ngezikhathi ezithile ukuqedela usizo. Kodwa la mazwi awabhekiseli kubo bonke, kodwa ikakhulukazi ebhizinisini noma kubantu abasebenzisa umphakathi, umsebenzi wabo kanye nokuphumelela emvelweni wabo njalo kuxhomeke ngokuqondile ekubukeni. Phela, umbono wabanye ngomuntu wabo uqala ukwakha kusukela ngesikhathi sokubonakala emphakathini. Futhi uma lo wesomabhizinisi, - lowo muntu engavamile futhi engafisi ukuzibona njalo ezinkingeni eziziwayo ezihloniphekile nezibopho ezimhlophe. Ubani ongafuni ukuqaphela izitayela zemfashini zanamuhla? Indlela engcono kakhulu ukubuyela kumcwaningi ohlakaniphile. Uyosiza ukukhetha izingubo ezifanisa nesimo sakho, okuzokwenza uzizwe uqiniseka kunoma yisiphi isimo.
Abanye abantu bangakwazi ukukhokhela amafolda engeziwe, ibala noma ukukhukhumeza, futhi futhi uhlobo oluthile lokunganakwa - ke intando yabo. Kungani kungenjalo? - Uma izingubo ezinjalo zingangcolisi ukuzihlonipha.
Abafana abasha abaqala nje indlela yabo elukhuni Amadoda, ngaphandle kokuba bangaphakathi, njengomoya, badinga isithombe sangaphandle. Uma ufisa, kungaba "i-macho" noma, isibonelo, "ukudukisa". Futhi kuthiwani, uma kungenjalo izingubo, kuzogcizelela isithombe esihle esikhethiwe. Izingubo ezikhethiwe kahle zizoqinisa umoya futhi zinike ukuzethemba, futhi impumelelo engxenyeni ehlukile izokwenza uzihloniphe wena.
Okufanayo kungashiwo ngamantombazane. Yilabo kuphela izingubo ezingabangela ukuzethemba, lapho intombazane izozizwa ihle khona. Konke kuxhomeke ekuthandeni kwakhe nasezintandokazi zakhe. Kodwa okokuqala uhlala njalo, uMbusi wakhe uMfashini. Izingubo zemifashini kunoma ubani onika ithemba, umqondo wesitayela. Ngezinye izikhathi uvame ukubona ukuthi intombazane enomhlanjesi onomugqa oqhekekile we-hip yathinta kanjani i-jeans-amapayipi. Futhi izinyathelo kulokhu kuphela zilahlekelwa. Intombazane ayikwazi ukucabanga ukuthi yini ebukeka, okungenani, ehlekisa. Kodwa akubheki ngokuhlonipha abanye, kodwa mayelana nokuhlonipha wena. Yebo, futhi uma kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzizwa kanjani phezulu - Ukuhlonipha isibindi sakhe. Okufanayo kungashiwo ngezinyathelo ezincane ezibekwe emzimbeni owodwa, ovela kuwo lapho azama khona "ukugibela" umzimba. Kodwa ungacabanga ukuthi intombazane enhle kakhulu evela emazweni ase-Arabhu ehamba emigwaqeni yakubo e-T-shirt ehlobo kanye nesiketi esifushane. Phela, le ngubo yayiyogcizelela ngokucacile isithunzi sayo.
Kodwa cha! - izingubo ezinjalo azikwazi ukumkhuthaza ngokuzethemba. Ngokwesiko, abesifazane abazalwa ngaphansi kwemfundiso yenkolo yamaSulumane kumele bafihle imizimba yabo emihle
ngaphansi kwenqwaba yezingubo ezikhethekile. Ngisho nobuso babo kufanele bafihle.
Futhi manje ake siphenduke emaqenjini ahlukahlukene. Ama-punks, ama-emo, ama-hippies, ama-bikers, abenzi bezinsimbi kanye nabanye abagqoke izinto ezibheke "emndenini" wabo abakufaneleki ukuhlonishwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ummeli ozihloniphayo we-subcultures ahlukahlukene uyojabula ngokugqoka izingubo ngokuvumelana nemibono ekhethiwe.
Ngakho-ke, emva kwakho konke, yikuphi uhlobo lwezingubo eziyokugqugquzela futhi zikunike ukuqiniseka? Ngokusekelwe kulokhu okushiwo ngaphambili konke ukucabanga okufanayo kungakuthola isiphetho esilandelayo mayelana nokuthi umuntu ngamunye ukhetha izingubo ezihambelana nokuthandwa kwakhe, ukukhuliswa, isiko, ukuthula kwangaphakathi, ukuchuma, imfashini. Futhi uma izingubo zihlangabezana nemigomo yakho siqu, uma ihlezi phezu kwakho ngokuphelele, uma ikhululekile kuyo, khona-ke ngokuqinisekile iyokhuthaza ukuhlonipha wena. Hhayi, uma, kanye nakho konke - ubamba ukubuka kwabanye, ukuqinisekiswa kwakho kuqinisekisiwe kuwe. Futhi ungikholelwe, lokhu akunakwenzeka ukujwayela. Ngemuva kwakho konke, amamodeli nezinkanyezi bazama konke okusemandleni abo ukuvusa ukuzwakalisa kanye nenzuzo emphakathini. Kulokhu kuncike ukulinganisa nokusebenza kwabo, ngokujwayelekile.