Ingane eneminyaka emithathu ingakwazi ukuzidela ukuba igqoke noma igxilise, noma iyenze yona ngokwayo. Lokhu kuyenzeka kubantu abadala, umgomo ukufundisa ingane, kodwa kudinga ukubekezela nokucabanga. Mhlawumbe izinketho eziningi zokuthuthukisa isimo.
Okokuqala: ukuvumela isimo sibe ngokwakho, ngoba ingane ngokushesha noma kamuva kufanele isigqoke eyedwa. Esikhathini sobudala esikoleni lokhu kuzokwenzeka nakanjani.
Indlela yesibili ukukhala noma ukushaya ingane kancane. Le ndlela iphumelela, umphumela uzokwenziwa ngokushesha kakhulu kunezinye izindlela. Ukuzwa ukwesaba kushukumisa izingane kahle. Baqeqeshwa. Le ndlela ifanele uma kwenzeka ukuthi injongo enkulu ukufundisa ingane ukuba igqoke.
Indlela yesithathu ibonisa indlela yokudala. Lapha inqubo yokufunda ingane ihlotshaniswa ngqo nomcabango womuntu omdala.
Esikhathini lapho uyazi khona ukuthi ingane iyazi ukuthi ingayiphikisa futhi ingayenza ngokushesha, isibonelo, uma ifuna ukuya endlini yangasese, isaphika lapho ihamba, udinga indlela yokudala. Ngamanye amazwi, ingane ingayigqoka-ikhumbule ke lapho kunesidingo esikhulu noma ifuna nje ukuyenza. Kungenzeka ukuthi izinyane liyakhangelwa ukuhamba noma ukuya emcimbini, kodwa inqubo yakhe yokugqoka ayijabulisi kangangokuthi udela ukuhamba nokunye, ukuze ugweme ukugqoka isikhathi eside. Yilokho okudingekayo uma udinga ukufaka iprosesa, yenza kube mnandi.
Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa ongazithatha enkonzweni:
- Umdlalo wokufihla nokufuna. Injabulo ijabule lapho amasosha ekhombisa izandla zawo, nasentanyeni yamehlo.
- Ukudlala isitimela. Kulo mdlalo isandla siyisitimela, singena emhubheni, okungukuthi, emgqeni. I-cam ilawula wonke isitimela.
- Ngokufanayo nomdlalo esitimeleni, ungadlala kugundane (ikham), i-yurknuvshego ku-mink (sleeve).
- Umdlalo "e-Basseynaya Street uhlakazekile kusukela emgwaqweni". Uma ugqoka, njalo ubuze imibuzo yengane: kuphi ukubeka amasokisi? Mhlawumbe emapeni? Cha? Faka izibambo ... .megi? Futhi kungani i-nosochki, ingawagqoka ezindlebeni? Ubani oyosiza ukuqonda? Yini okufanele ngigqoke kuqala: i-pantyhose noma ama-panties?
- Hlukanisa inqubo yokugqoka ibe yibili, okungukuthi, umzali nengane. Isibonelo, umama ugqoka imilenze yakhe ye-panties, ingane ibadonsela yona. Umama ubeka ikhanda entanyeni bese efaka izibambo emikhanda - ingane idonsa ijezi ngokuqhubekayo futhi isakaze ijaji.
- Ukuqeqesha ngamathoyizi. Ngezidoli, amabhinki, ungabonisa konke ukuvumelana nokuqonda ekugqoka.
Uma ufundisa ingane ukuba uzigqoke, kunconywa ukuba ukhethe izingubo azithandayo. Futhi khumbula ukuthi "izifundo" ezinjalo akufanele zidluliswe ngokusheshisa. Kungcono ukuzinika isikhathi esiningi, kodwa ukufeza imiphumela emihle, kunokuba uchithe isikhathi esincane futhi ungatholi lutho.
Ungesabi ukuphazamisa ingane ngemidlalo enjalo, lokhu ngeke kwenzeke. Khumbula ukuthi izingane ezisenkulisa, umsebenzi oyinhloko. Imisebenzi efomini edlalwayo isiza ingane ukuba ikhule, ifunde umhlaba, ithole ulwazi olusha kanye nokubonakala. Futhi imidlalo esiza ukufunda nokuthuthukisa umkhuba wokugqoka ingane, vumela abazali ukuba banikeze imithetho yabo "emaphaketheni" athakazelisayo.
Ngemuva kokuba ingane iqala ukudlala ngokuvumelana nemithetho yakho, gqoka ngokushesha ngesikhathi esifanele, udinga ukukhuluma ngensimu. Kungenzeka ukuthi ingxoxo ngeke idingeke futhi isimo sizozithuthukisa sisodwa. Ngokuvamile kuthatha isonto nesigamu noma amaviki amabili ukuze ingane isetshenziswe kulokho okufanele ukwenze-ukuphazamisa - lokhu kuyinto emnandi, ezithakazelisayo. Ekupheleni kwalesi sikhathi, ngeke abuyele ekuziphatheni okudlule. Ukugijima eduze kwengubo ye-cloakroom ngengubo ukuphikisana ukumgqoka akukhenanga.
Uma isimo enkulisa engashintshi futhi ingane ishiya ngezikhathi ezithile ngaphandle kokuhamba, kanti ezinye izingane zihamba ngokulindela, kuzomele zilungiswe. Abazali kuzodingeka bafike ekuseni ukuze babambe izingane ziqoqe ukuhamba ngentambama. Ngalesi sikhathi, ngenkathi ezinye izingane zizinakekela, zinikeza ingane yakho ukuthi ibuke ukuthi labo abathandana nabo babuthana kanjani, ngubani kubo ogqoka ngokushesha futhi ophuza. Ukuhambisana nokubona kwakho ngamazwana, qhathanisa ngokucophelela nezingane. Kancane kancane ulethe umntwana umqondo wokuthi labo bantwana abembethe ngokushesha, basize uthisha. I-Atot ingane, eyazigqoka kakhulu, ingumsizi ongcono kakhulu. Futhi kwenzekani uma zonke izingane ziqala ukusiza umfundisi? - Ukuhamba kuzohlala isikhathi eside. Zama ukukhuluma nomntwana ngethoni yomusa, ngaphandle kokuphakamisa izwi noma ukukhuluma ngokuhlambalaza. Umgomo womzali akufanele uhlanganyele ekuziphatheni, ingane enomkhuhlane ukucabanga ukuthi ungaba kanjani umsizi, ukuthi ungaba kanjani ozimele, umdala omdala. Futhi ukholelwa ukuthi ulwazi olutholwa yingane engxoxweni lubhekwa kangcono kunokwesabisa nokucindezeleka, okuhlelwe abazali ngokungenasici.
Uma uneminyaka yobudala, ingane izobonga lezi zingxoxo ezizolile futhi izobabonga ngokubonga okukhulu.