Isixazululo ngasinye sinezibili kanye nama-mines. Indlela yokufundisa ingane endaweni yokulala ehlukile, thola kusihloko esihlokweni esithi "Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukuba ilale ngokwahlukana nabazali bayo."
Konke noma ngaphandle?
Ukulala okuhlangene nge-crumb kunika wonke umuntu ukukhathazeka okuncane. Abantu abadala akudingeki bavuke noma nini lapho udinga ukondla, ushintshe, noma ukumbamba futhi ududuze omncane. Abazali bathola ukulala okungcono, bakhathele kancane. Futhi ukuxhumana kwengane nomama wakhe, ukuthinta kwakhe, ukufudumala, iphunga, isigqi esivamile senhliziyo kunikeza umuzwa wokulondeka, ukuphepha nokuqina kwezwe lakhe. Lezi zikhathi, ngezinga elithile, abanalo abantwana nabamama abanele, abavela ezinsukwini zokuqala emva kokubuya ekhaya lokubeletha balala ngokwehlukana. Kodwa-ke, abantwana akudingeki bancike ekunamathiselwe ngokweqile kwabazali babo. Kodwa ukulala eceleni koMama ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kudlule isikhathi esinzima sokuhlukana. Imvuthuluka eneminyaka emibili ubudala (cishe kule minyaka futhi umbuzo wokulala embhedeni ohlukile), lokhu kuyinto engathí sina yokuguqula impilo.
Ukuze angabi namandla kuye, udinga ukwesekwa kwakho nesimo sengqondo sokuzola okwenzekayo. Ngakho-ke, kusukela ekuqaleni, ungavumeli amaphutha amabili ayisisekelo, ejwayelekile kule nkathi enzima. Ungakhathazeki mayelana nosana kusengaphambili, ungadonisi "ukuhlukanisa" kwakho, ungazitholi ngokwesaba ngokuthi kuyoba kubi kangakanani ngaphandle komama. Awenzi noma yikuphi ukukhokha futhi ungashiyi noma ubani esimweni esingenalutho. Qonda, konke kufanele kuthuthuke ngendlela yayo nangesikhathi saso! Ukulala okuhle akuhlukanisi, kepha uhambo oluhle. Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi wakho ukufunda ukuhlomisa intsha endaweni lapho amaphupho amaphupho ayilindele khona. Qaphela izimpumputhe ezinokukhathazeka. Ukhalela, unamathela futhi angalokothi afune ukuya endlini yakhe yokulala emangalisayo? Khamuluka, ujezise, shiya eyodwa. U-Kroha uvame ukuhamba ebusuku, esaba into engaqondakali, akafuni ukuhlala egumbini, ngisho noma kukhona ukukhanya lapho? Yenza i-aphoyintimenti nomqondisi wezengqondo, uzosiza ingane ukuba isuse ukwesaba, ithi, akukho lutho olwesabekayo, oluzosetshenziswa - hhayi isinqumo esihle kakhulu. Lokhu kungabangela ukwesaba okwedlulele kwengane, kubangele ukucindezeleka, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nesidlo esingenamsoco, ukulila njalo, ukulahleka kwesithakazelo kumathoyizi. Ngakho-ke, kudingeka siqaphele le nkinga.
Sigibela ezweni lemilingo
Uma unenkinga yokulala nokulala, qala ngokudala indawo encane ethule futhi ephephile. Okungenani ihora ngaphambi kokulala. Thatha ingane kude ne-TV, uphazamise imidlalo ethakazelisayo esebenzayo. Mfunde incwadi, hlalani. Futhi ukuxwayisa ukuthi namuhla uzolala embhedeni wakhe. Vumela i-crumb ibonise yonke imizwa yakho emibi ngaleli themba. Ukhazimula, uthi "Angifuni", unamathele entanyeni yakhe? Ungazami ukukhohlisa "ukuba umuntu omdala", ungazami ukumbonisa ukuthi "uzothanda yena", ungathukutheli futhi ungenzi
amahloni ngokuziphatha okubi. Ngokuphambene nalokho, khombisa ukuqonda nokuzwelana: "Ngiyabona, awufuni, awujwayele ukulala njengaleyo. Yebo, ucasuke kakhulu, ngiyazisola kakhulu kuwe, uyabuhlungu ngempela. " Uyomangala ukuthi lawa mazwi ayokwenza ngokushesha futhi ngendlela enomsoco ingane ivuselele futhi ivumelanise. Futhi izinyembezi zizoyeka. Ngemva kwalokho, ngokuqinile, kodwa ngendlela enobungane, uthi: "Usadingeka ulale embhedeni wakho." Ingane izoqonda ukuthi wamukela izinqumo, umuntu omdala, futhi ukucindezela okuphelele akuyona into ehlaselayo ku-crumb, ayigcizelela isikhundla sakhe "esingaphansi". Mema ingane ukuthi ibone indlela yokwenza ishintsho sakhe esihlalweni sayo futhi silindele ukulala kube mnandi kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, umuntu, ngisho ncinyane kakhulu, uba mkhulu kakhulu futhi ahlalise lapho engazizwa ukuthi uyisisulu sezimo, kodwa umdali osebenzayo wezimiso zokuphila kwakhe. UKapuz uhlazekile, akazi ukuthi yini abayifunayo kuye? Futhi uvele ufike ngesikhathi kanye namathiphu azokwamukelwa kakade ngaphandle kokuphikiswa. Vumela indodana noma indodakazi ikhethe ithoyizi ukuze, ngokuhlanganyela, ilale naye. Mhlawumbe omncane uzoshintsha ukukhanya kwesibani sasebusuku, okuzoqapha ukulala kwakhe. Ucela ukuhambisa isikhala kwenye indawo? Ungavimbeli imvume. Ngisho noma ilungiselelo elisha libonakala lingeyona elula kunazo zonke futhi enengqondo.
Ngisize ngikhethe umculo ebusuku. Yebo, uzobona ukuthi kwakuzolile, kunomlomo nokuthula. Ngaphambi kokuba ushiye ekugcineni komuntu oyedwa embhedeni, phakamisa ukuthi usungula indaba yezinganekwane ofuna ukuyibona. Ngokuqinisekile uzophupha kuye, udinga nje ukubuza i-Fairy of Sleep. Kungaba kuhle ukuthenga Fairy enjalo kwisitolo sokudlala noma ukwenza nogogo. Futhi umnike ingane yakhe ngobusuku bokuqala bokulala okuzimele uma ulungiselela lo mzuzu obalulekile. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane izodinga isikhathi sokuyihlola. Namathisela iFairy enhloko yekhanda bese umcela ukuba afeze "imiyalo" yentombazane encane. Ukuzola, ukuzethemba kanye nesimo sakho sengqondo ngokuqinisekile ngeke sisakazwe ku-crumb. Izinsuku ezimbili noma ezintathu, kahle, ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, ngesonto lokusekelwa kwengqondo nokusekela - kanti umcabango uzokujabulela ukulala embhedeni wakhe, futhi alele ngaphandle kokukhala izinyembezi.
Ngethukile
Ngokuvamile zikhona izimo lapho ubuthongo bomntwana buphukile ngokuzumayo. Ngokungazelelwe uvuka ngokukhala phakathi nobusuku, wakhala, eqala ukwesaba isikhala sakhe. Isimiso sokuqala nesisisekelo sakho asisashintshi: ungesabi, ungabuyiseki ukwesaba kwengane yakho ngokuziphatha kwakho. Behave ngokuthula, ngothando. Manje udinga ukuthintana nomzimba ngangokunokwenzeka. I-Pobobimalis? Unganqikazi, uqonde izimbangela zokuphazamiseka kokulala. Kungaba okuyisisekelo noma kunenkimbinkimbi. Cabanga ngakho! Ama-pajamas aqinile (aqinile noma ahlabayo), i-mattress enzima noma enobunzima ingabangela ukuphazamiseka. Lezi zinto zidinga ukushintshwa. Izibonakaliso zokuqala zesifo somzimba (ukujula emqaleni, ikhanda) nakho kuthinta ukulala. Banganqunywa kuphela ngodokotela wezingane - vakashela umtholampilo nomntwana. Mhlawumbe okwesabayo okwesaba okuthile. Uma ngabe ukhona ngesikhathi esifanayo, khona-ke ngeke kudingeke ukuqagele ukuthi kuyini indaba, uzoqonda ngokushesha. Kodwa kukhona okungenzeka uma ungekho. Buza umyeni, ugogo, umhlengikazi, uqaphele ukuthi ngabe umfana omdala akamesabi ingane. Isizathu sokwesaba kufanele senziwe. I-"remedy rem healing" emangalisayo izoba yindaba yamaphupho lapha. Zama wena ngokwakho. Vumela umlingo wenze okuthile okufana nalokho okwenzekile kumntwana: kuyabalisa inja esabekayo (kahle, nje i-monster!) Noma iyamemeza (futhi ifuna ukumbamba) umalume omkhulu othukuthele. Yiqiniso, kuzo zonke izinto zakho kuzophela ngokuphepha. U-papa-winner noma u-sorceress uzosiza futhi abhekane nomuntu ohlala kuyo. Indlela yangempela yokuzikhulula ekwesabeni ukudweba ndawonye lokho ingane esabayo, ukuguqula isithombe sibe into ephephile noma emnandi. Ungakwazi ngisho nokumboza kakhulu i-monster enepende elikhanyayo (ngeke liphinde liphume). Ingabe kulula emphefumulweni? Yiqiniso, ngoba lokho okwakuvame ukwethuka kangaka, kwaphela, kwasakazeka. Kuvela ukuthi ungaya ngokuphepha ephepheni lakho. Manje siyazi ukuthi singamfundisa kanjani ingane ukuba silale ngokwehlukana nabazali babo.