Ake sibone ukuthi yikuphi okufanayo. "Ukungabi nokuzizwa" kungumqondo obuningi kakhulu futhi ukhuluma ngokukhathazeka kokukhathazeka, kanye nomsebenzi okweqile kwengane. Ngalesi sikole, njengombuso, izinkinga eziningi. Izinkinga ezinkulu ukuthola indlela yokuzifundisa nokulahlwa ngumphakathi wezingane ezinjalo ezingasebenzi.
Into eyinhloko yokwazi ukuthi akekho udokotela ongasiza ekubhekaneni nale nkinga ngokuthi "ukungahloniphi." Imfundo yezingane ezingasebenzi kakhulu ngokuyinhloko kubazali. Ungasiza ingane yakho ukuba ibhekane nalezi zinkinga. Kodwa akulula. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi le syndrome ayiphathwa, kepha kufanele nje ishintshwe. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kunendlela yokufundisa izingane ezingasebenzi. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, abazali kudingeka banakekele kakhulu izingane zabo, kunokubukela i-TV ngemva komsebenzi. Lesi sikhathi singasetshenziswa ngenzuzo yomndeni nengane. Isibonelo, unganikeza ingane yakho ukwenza imidwebo yebumba noma ukudweba, ukuphawula amapuzzli noma nje ukusiza umama wayo ekhishini ngomoya ophansi, uguqule i-daddy bolt odongeni. Lezi zenzo zizosiza ingane ukuba ilahle amandla akhe, imizwelo nokuhlukunyezwa. Umphumela uzoba ebusweni. Ingane izobe ihlaziye, ilinganise kakhulu.
Umphakathi ozungezile ubona izingane ezinjengokuthi zonakalisiwe, zihlukumezekile futhi zonakalisiwe. Ezimweni eziningi, abazali abaqondi futhi ingane yabo, becabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyisici somlingiswa. Bammangalela ngakho. Kodwa le ndlela yokufundisa ngeke iholele lutho oluhle. Uzoqhubeka ukwandisa inkinga yengane. Ngeke kube nomphumela ekuqedeni ukulimala nokuqina kwemfundo. Kudingekile ukuthola ukuthekisana. Umsebenzi obaluleke kunawo wonke womzali ukubekezela, isimo sengqondo esihle nothando. Ukuthukuthela ingane akuwenzi lutho.
Njengomthetho, kunzima kakhulu ezinganeni ezingasebenzi ukuthola ulimi oluvamile neontanga zabo. Umntanakho uhlala "egijima" inkampani noma ithimba. Kodwa ingane ifuna ukuxhumana!
Indlela yokufundisa izingane ezingasebenzi kahle kufanele zikhethwe ngabantwana ngabanye. Omunye wabazali anganikeza ingane esikoleni esikhokhelwa ngasese, umuntu oqasha abafundisi kanye nothisha uhlanganyela ohlelweni olulodwa.
Uma ingane ikhuthele kakhulu, lokhu akuyona inkomba yokuthi ingane ihlupheka ngenxa yokungabi nalutho lwe-syndrome. Isiphetho singanikezwa kuphela yi-neuropathologist ngokuhlolwa ngokucophelela. Ukwehla komzimba yisifo lapho isimiso sezinzwa sikhathazeka khona, amangqamuzana omzimba ashintshiwe.
Ukuze uqaphele lesi sifo ngaphambi kwesikhathi, kubalulekile ukuba unake ukuziphatha komntwana kusukela emaminithi okuqala okuphila: ukuthi ulala kanjani, udle, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona abahlaziyi abangenangqondo, ngabe uhlala ekhala. Ingane ayikwazi ukugxila, ingalaleli. Kodwa, njengomthetho, abazali baqala ukuqonda ukuthi ingane isuke ingasebenzi kahle, lapho ingane iqala ukuya esikoleni, ibuyele emuva kwezinye zezifundo. Yebo, uma uqaphele ukuthi i-syndrome isesenkulisa, uvele nje unabazali abakhathalelayo. Kubalulekile ukuguqula isimo sengqondo kumntanakho, ukuhlela izindlela zokukhulisa futhi esikhathini esizayo, mhlawumbe, ukugwema izinkinga esikoleni.
Izazi zengqondo zincoma ukudala indawo enhle nefudumele yengane. Uma umntwana ecasulwa ngumsindo, vula umculo othulile othulile, uma ephendula ngokugqamile, bese uthenge isibani ngaphandle kokukhanya okukhanyayo. Kuphumelela kakhulu ukuthi umntwana athathe amabhati aphethwe yi-coniferous, kanye nomsuka we-valerian ukwenza itiye. Ngomntwana onjalo kungcono ukuvakashela izindawo ezinomsindo (izimakethe, amaqembu, izitolo). Bandakanya ingane emidlalweni ethule, gxila kakhulu. Imidlalo efanelekayo njengama-cubes, yakha i-mosaic, imidwebo, umbala, izincwadi zokufunda. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, khuthaza ingane yakho, ngoba uyakunaka. Ingane akufanele isebenze ngokweqile - ingaholela ekukhanyeni kwemizwelo. Phakathi kwamageyimu athule ake ingane iqede futhi ubuyele emidlalweni ezolile futhi. Yenza ingane ibe yesikhashana esimisweni. Lokhu kuzomsiza ukuba abale isikhathi namandla akhe. Kufanele kube nesikhathi esithile sokudla, ukudlala nokulala. Ngakho-ke, ingane enkulisa izoba lula ukujwayela isimiso.
Lapho ufunda ekhaya ukuze uthuthukise ukufunda kwezinto, sebenzisa izithombe, imidwebo kanye nehluzo. Fundisa ingane yakho ukulalela abantu abadala. Mnike imizila emincane futhi ubuke umsebenzi. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, dumisa ingane yakho kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, qaphela yonke impumelelo yakhe, ujabule naye. Ungammangazi uma ingane yenza okuthile okungalungile. Futhi uhlale eduze kwanezikhathi ezingeni lakhe futhi uchaze lokho akwenzile okungalungile.
Bazali abathandekayo, okokuqala konke kuxhomeke kuwe, ukuthi ingane ingangena kanjani emphakathini omdala. Khumbula, into eyinhloko uthando lwakho kanye nokungabi nandaba kwengane kuyoba khona!