Ukuphila, ikhaya, umsebenzi, izingane, izinkinga, izifo ... Konke lokhu kukuvimbela ukuba uthole injabulo egcwele kulokho, ngenjongo yanini, empeleni, imibhangqwana idalwa. Ubulili buba yisikhubekiso, imindeni eminingi ejabule kanye nemibano eqinile iphukile. "Indlela yokukhulisa ubulili nomyeni wakhe?" - zibuze abafazi. "Ingabe udinga lokhu?" - labo abahlukumeza ngokocansi bahlushwa ... Inkinga yobulili emndenini
Imvelo ihlelwe kanjalo ukuze sibone ukukhanga okugqamile komunye nomunye kuphela isikhathi esithile. Njengoba ososayensi basikisela, ukuthuthukiswa kwezidakamizwa ezifanele ezibangelwa ukuzwakalisa kanye nokudakwa komunye nomunye, ezinye ziyeka izinyanga ezintathu emva kokuhlangana, ezinye eminyakeni emithathu kuphela kamuva. Kodwa ngokushesha lesi sikhathi siza. Futhi-ke abesifazane, ngokuvamile ngokuvamile abaxhomeke ocansini, baqala ukuzibuza: kanjani ukuthi uzibeke kanjani ocansini nomyeni wakho, ukuthi ungayithola kanjani leyo mizwelo yokuziphendulela?
Umzimba wethuNgokuvamile, kuncike kakhulu esimweni somzimba. Emva kwakho konke, ngegqoko elibi noma abe yingxoxo ezitaladini (futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo nesihloko sama-anecdotes amaningi), ikhanda lekhanda kunzima ukuzwa into ngaphandle kokubuhlungu. Akusikho lokho okuhehayo - umzwelo uyimfihlakalo futhi uphepha, kepha ngeke uzizwe iphunga eliqondile kakhulu lezinhlamvu zokushiswa! Ngakho-ke, uma umzimba usuvele usebenza "ngaphandle kwamandla okugcina," ngabe luhlobo luni lobulili (okuyinto isisindo sokukhiqiza) esingakhuluma ngalo? Umzimba uzama ukuphunyuka, futhi ukuzwa ukucindezeleka okungadingekile kuye kunoma yini!
Ngakho-ke, zama ukungazishiyi, uzama ukuphakamisa isimo sengqondo sobulili nomyeni wakhe - namanje uzoba nenkohlakalo kakhulu, njengowesifazane obandayo. Owesifazane othakazelisayo ngoba ethandekayo - unezinto okumele azibonise, uyakwazi "ukubonisa" ekufiseni kwakhe phambi komuntu othandekayo wakhe.
Ngakho, ngaphambi kwesikhathi samahhala, ongathanda ukuzinikezela kumyeni wakho futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ngokwakho, ukulala ocansini:
- Awukho isikhathi esingaphezu kwehora ngaphambili, kodwa ungazifisi nengozi (engozini yokuphazamisa ukuthula okukhulu phakathi kwama-oohs futhi ugwaye "umkhonto wesisu olambile");
- Ungaphuzi i-diuretics (kubo, ngokuyisigameko, kungokwakhe futhi ethandwa yitiye eminingi eluhlaza), gwema uketshezi (okungajabulisi okuphazamisekile kumzuzwana wothando ohambweni lwendlu yangasese);
- Qinisekisa ukuthi (zilalele wena, ngoba odokotela emtholampilo "bakhaza" ngokungagwegwesi) ukuthi uzizwa uhle.
"Susa izingane kusukela esikrinini!"
Isikhathi esilandelayo, hhayi esincane esicashile - kwengqondo. Maye, i-psyche yethu ihlelwe kahle kangangokuthi izingosi zobulili emnyango noma engozini yokubanjwa ngumama esizijwayeza isikhathi. Kwezinye, nakanjani, futhi emva kokufuna ukuthakazelisa, kodwa kunoma yikuphi, abantwana bethu abanecala lokukhathazeka kwethu. Ngakho-ke, uma kunengozi ukuthi ingane izobuya esikoleni maduzane, kungcono ukuhlehlisa ucansi kuze kube ngoMgqibelo, lapho (ngokwesiko kusengaphambili) uthumela izingane ukuvakashela ugogo wakho. Phela, ezimweni ezinjalo, lapho owesifazane engazizwa ezolile futhi evikelwe, kunzima ukuzama ngandlela-thile ukujwayela ukuya ocansini nomyeni wakhe.
Imingcele Yesikhathi
"Sineziphi isikhathi? Ukuhlukana ngokocansi? "
Kungaba ibinzana elihle kusuka ku-melodrama mayelana nomfazi ongathandeki noma isandulela sefilimu yehlobo elithi "Three X". Kodwa empilweni yangempela ukuzivumelanisa nobulili nomyeni wakhe, lapho kuye khona imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu, akunangqondo. Owesifazane uzizwa esetshenzisiwe noma ngandlela-thile ephuthele lapho enesibindi futhi engaqondakali "egxilile" esikhathini esithile. Njengokuba wayengumpheki e-restaurant futhi kwadingeka agcwalise umyalelo womunye umuntu.
Incwadi kufanele ilandelwe owesifazane - nakuba ethi iphuzu eliyinhloko kwezocansi lixhomeke emadodeni. Yiqiniso, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, i-libido yomyeni wayo iyancipha (ikakhulukazi uma kuqhathaniswa nezikhathi zobusha obunzima). Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ubheke amehlo futhi "ubambe" labo abathandekayo imizuzu engu-2-5 lapho efuna.
"Imizuzu eyishumi, indiza evamile!"
Owesifazane ngokuvamile kunzima ezocansi. Uma isifiso somuntu siphela, iningi lezocansi, njengombuso, liyeka. Futhi angase afune ngesikhathi esithile, futhi ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa i-caresses yakhe iyinto enengekayo. Futhi manje uguqula isiqondiso somcabango, futhi futhi kuhle ... Ungazibekela kanjani ubulili nomyeni wakho uma uthanda into ethile, bese ungayithandi into evelele?
Kufanele ukhulume. Kufanele uchaze futhi ukhuthaze. Okungenani okokuqala, uma uqaphela ukuthi nguwe - ingonyamakazi, i-tigress, isidlo. Uthola eyakho, nezinyathelo eziningana (kulungile, ngizokumela, othandekayo, ngoba ngenye indlela ungilungisa) - akufanelekile. Ukukhipha kuyinto engunaphakade, yilokho okwanelisayo (abadli belamba). Futhi yikuphi uhlobo lokulamba kokuqala okungaba khona, uma uvame "ukubekezelela", ucabanga ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokudweba phansi?
Isiqubulo esikhulu somuntu olele embhedeniEzindaweni eziningi, owesifazane unelungelo lokuhlala enhle, enomusa, egcwele futhi ezwela. Ngokomlobi oyedwa, "ungatshela ubisi." Kodwa ubulili - lena yindawo lapho sekuyisikhathi sokugqoka i-bra armored, ukukhula amazinyo namahlumela. Futhi ku-sex, isiqubulo sowesifazane ukukhetha igama elifushane elithi "Thatha!"
Ulimi lwesiRussia, Yebo, luphonsa ukuphazamiseka. "Nikeza", "nika", futhi ngisho nabuhlungu kakhulu - "davalka." Kodwa lokhu akunjalo! Amadoda ayakuthanda kakhulu lokho abatshala khona. Ngakho, sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha. Futhi ngokushesha nje lapho ujwayele ukujwayele lokho okukuthi "ngawe", futhi nje udinga ukuza futhi uthathe ucansi kuyoba injabulo. Ngisho kungavunyelwe. Ngisho engavamile. Mhlawumbe kungalungile noma kungcolile. Futhi ngeke kudingeke ulungise. Kuzoba yisikhathi sokuthola ukuthi yini ongathanda namuhla ...