Kunemibono ehlukene mayelana nesikhathi sokuncelisa. Abanye odokotela kanye nababelethi bakholelwa ukuthi umntwana kufanele athole ubisi kusuka kumama isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, njengoba kubalulekile, abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ukubeletha kuyadingeka ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokuqala, bese umama ezakhela ukuthi uzoqhubeka yini noma cha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunombono wokuthi amantombazane kuphela okufanele ancelise iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-2 - abafana bangakhula isikhathi eside kusukela ebuntwaneni esikhathini esizayo, uma beqhubeka nokuncelisa ingane engaphezu kweminyaka emibili.
Kodwa ngokushesha kufika isikhathi lapho kubalulekile ukuyeka ukuncelisa izingane zabo. Ngokwemvelo, lesi sikhathi asihloswanga ngumntwana, kodwa ngumama, ophikisana nezimo zangaphandle. Kodwa akulona njalo ukugonywa okuvela emntwini kudlula ngokwemvelo, ngezinye izikhathi kubangela ukucindezeleka kwengane. Kwenzeka ukuthi umama uletha imizwelo eminye. Masithembele ukuthi singanikeza iseluleko esiwusizo sokuthi ingane ikhulise kahle kanjani.
Kungcono uma ingane yakho isetshenziselwa isifuba izikhathi ezintathu ngosuku. Lokhu kuzokusiza ekukhuleni kancane kancane esifubeni. Uma ingane isetshenziswa izikhathi ezimbalwa (emva kokudla kusuka ebhodleleni, ekuvukeni), futhi ebusuku ubuthongo, khona-ke usukulungele ukuxoshwa ekunceliseni ibele. Kubalulekile ukuthi hhayi ingane yakho kuphela, kodwa kufanele ulungele ukusulwa kumabele.
Umama kuzodingeka ahlupheke lapho ingane isuliwe ekunceliseni ibele ngesikhathi se-lactation esinqabile, ehambisana nokuqhuma ubisi emigqumeni yezintuthwane ze-mammary, kubalulekile ukuveza ubisi ngezikhathi ezithile, mhlawumbe ukuthuthukiswa kwe-mastitis. Akudingekile ngalesi sikhathi ukudonsa isifuba - ukusabalalisa kwegazi emangcwabeni amancinci kuphukile, amadokodo agqwaliwe - lokhu kwenza izinzwa ezingathandeki zibi nakakhulu. Ngenxa yokuthuthukiswa kwe-edema, ukuvuvukala kwesifuba kungathatha ifomu eligciwane. Ungazigwema izinkinga ezinjalo ngezigulane ze-mammary, uma uqala ukuphumula ingane kusukela esifubeni ngesikhathi sokuvota. Kungokwemvelo ukuthi wena nomntanakho uzoba ngcono, uma uthola isincomo esivela ku-gynecologist wakho. Ngesikhathi sokulahlwa, ungasizwa ngemithi ekhethekile udokotela wakho ayinikezela futhi inikeza iseluleko ngokugwema ukuzwa okungajabulisi okubuhlungu.
Uma ingane igule noma isanda kuphumula, akukhuthazwa ukuba uqale inqubo yokugaya. Futhi, ungaqali ukuxoshwa, uma kukhona izinguquko empilweni yomama, ngakho-ke ingane: ukuguquka kokuhlala, isikhathi lapho umama elungiselela noma usevele ezayo ukusebenza. Ukuze ungatholi ukutheleleka kwamathumbu, ukumisa ingane ekusebenziseni esifubeni akufanele kuqale ngesikhathi sehlobo.
Ungakwazi ukuqala ukugoma ingane, ukuyishintsha nezinye izinqubo - ukudlala, ukudla - kancane kancane uzothola ukulinganiselwa kwemvelo. Umama anganikela ukunika ingane yakhe omdala isikhathi eside uma esengamthatha umdlalo othakazelisayo - ukubuka ibhuku, ukudansa, ubheke ngefasitela (fantasy yakho iyaqhubeka nohlu). Zitholele njalo umsebenzi, okungenani ukubukwa, ukuze ingane ingenze kalula kalula "inyamazane elula". Zama ukugqoka izingubo ezifanelekayo, ngakho-ke ingane izothola kunzima ukufinyelela esifubeni sakho. Kancane kancane, isifiso somntwana esixhumeni esifubeni sizosiphazamisa, futhi ungazinika ikhefu phambi kwakhe.
Shintsha umkhuba wokubeka ingane yakho. Vumela ugogo noma ubaba wakho akwenze lokhu. Faka esikhundleni sokuncelisa nge-formula lebisi, i-kefir noma ubisi obonisiwe. Kufanelekile ukuqala ngokushintsha ibhodlela ngobisi nesifuba, kancane kancane ukunciphisa inani lokubeka ingane esifubeni. Izingane ezingakhulile zingasho ukuthi umama ukhathele futhi eselele kakade, noma uzama ukushiya isikhumba somntwana kwelinye ikamelo, kuthiwa uvala isitofu, ugeze izitsha uma ugogo noma ubaba engekho eduze. Njalo uma ukwandisa isikhathi sokuxoshwa, futhi ngokushesha nje ngemva kokubuya ekamelweni elithile, uzobona ukuthi ingane engenalutho ilele kanjani ngokuthula nangokuthula.
Vumela othile ezihlotsheni zakho ukuba athathe isikhundla sakho ngesikhathi sokuvuka kwengane. Qhubeka! Kuzodingeka uhlabele ubusuku obuthile, kodwa maduzane ebusuku ebusuku ingane yakho ngeke idinge isifuba somama. Futhi uma umntwana ekuseni efuna ukuncelisa esifubeni sakhe, ungamgcoba nje, uthi umama uphaphama futhi "uselele".
I-Ottuchayte ingane yakho ebukhoneni bakho obuhlala naye - kaningi engaboni ingane, shiya isikhashana nabazali. Umkhuba wokusebenzisa isifuba somama uzokwehla ngokwawo. Futhi uma ingane isakhumbula lokhu, ungabhekana nezimpikiswano ezihlukahlukene, njengokuthi, ubisi lomama aluyona okumnandi njengoba kwakunjalo ngaphambili.
Akungamukeleki neze izindlela zokugaya, njengokugcoba isifuba ngento engathandeki ukunambitheka! Phela, isifuba somama wengane yisigceme sokuthembeka nokuthula, lapho umuntu ezwa ukuphepha okuphelele. Ungalaleli iseluleko esinjalo kubantu abangakwazi ukusebenza ngesimo sengqondo sokuxhumana kwengane nonina.
Abanye batusa ukulinganisa isifuba ngokufaka ibhodlela ngobisi obonisiwe ngaphansi kwejezi. Noma ubeke indwangu yesikhumba esifubeni, uthi ubisi manje selungela ikati. Ngezinye izikhathi izindlela ezinjalo ziphumelela.
Hlala ingane yakho kaningi kunokujwayelekile, yikhathazeke ngenkathi ukhula, ngoba lokhu kuyinkinga yokucindezela ingane yakho. Kwenzeka ukuthi ngokuxoshwa okusheshayo, umntwana uzama ukwakha inqubo ejwayele ukujwayela ngemikhuba efanayo - uqala ukuncelisa izingxenye zezingubo, iminwe yakhe, ukubonakala komuntu kubonakala. Kuzodingeka uzinikele isikhathi sakho nezimiso zakho ngenxa yenhle yengane yakho. Uzodinga ukubekezela okwengeziwe emsebenzini omkhulu, kodwa wesikhashana, umphumela ozoba ngowakho nomntanakho umvuzo