Ngezikhathi ezithile sidonseleka ekuhlolweni kobulili. Kodwa ukwephulwa kwezimo ezivamile kuyinto enesibopho. Kuthiwani uma sizizwa singakhululekile? Vumela lezi zingabaza zingakuvimbeli. Uma ukuhlolwa kufakazela ukuthi kuphumelele, ngeke wamukele isipiliyoni esingasoze walukhohlwa, kodwa futhi uqale kabusha umlingani. Indlela yokuhlukanisa impilo ebuseduze nomyeni wakhe? Silahla amahloni futhi sifunde ndawonye.
Dlala indima
U-Anna noGleb sebeye bakhangwa kakhulu emidlalweni yokudlala indima-kumabhayisikobho athakazelisayo. "Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ngithole injabulo ngalezo zinsuku - kubonakala sengathi imibhangqwana emihle kakhulu ingadlala udokotela nesiguli noma umsikazi nomninimzi, ongashintsha ngokugcwele futhi okwesikhashana akhohlwe ngokuyiqiniso ," kusho u-Anna. - Yingakho asizange siphuthume ukuze siqaphele ukucabanga kwethu futhi isikhathi esithile sithinteka ekukhulumeni. Kodwa ngangifuna ukuhlukanisa impilo yami ebusweni nomyeni wami.
Futhi ngolunye usuku konke kwavela ngokwayo. UGleb wabuyela ekhaya ngemuva komhlangano obalulekile futhi, ngokusobala, engenawo isikhathi, endleleni yokushintshela emisebenzini yasendlini, waphendukela kimi ngamanothi ahloniphekile enhloko. Ngangijabule kangangokuthi nganquma ukudlala naye: ngenza sengathi ngiyintombazane encane elalelayo. Sobabili sasisithwa ngumdlalo kangangokuthi asizange sibone ukuthi sasilele embhedeni. Kwakuyinto yobusuku bemilingo. Asizange senze noma yini ekhethekile, kepha imishwana, ukuziphatha nokuziphatha kuye kwashintsha: Ngazizwa ngezulu lesikhombisa ngenjabulo nenjabulo, ngidlala inkosikazi encane elalelayo. Lokhu kuzama, asikaphindaphindi, kepha bobabili bakhumbula ngesineke. "
"U-Anna noGleb basondela kakhulu ekuqalisweni kwengqondo yabo," kusho umkhulumeli wezocansi uVladimir Prokhorov. - Ekuqaleni bazilungiselela ngokwabo: baxoxisana ngezifiso zabo ngokuningiliziwe, bafunda ukuthi yini ebonakalayo ekhangayo kulokhu kuhlolwa nokuthi yilowo nalowo wesabayo. Kwasala kuphela ukulinda isikhathi esifanele, futhi ngenxa yalokho, konke kwabonakala njengokungathi kukhanya. "
Imininingwane yobuchwepheshe
U-Olga noKonstantin babengesabi ukubona iphupho eliyimfihlakalo lemibhangqwana eminingi - baya esitolo socansi futhi ndawonye bakhetha amathoyizi e-sexic funny. "Ngangaphambili, kubonakala sengathi isandulela ngculazi ayibekezelelisi izidakamizwa nezinye izinto zokuthuthukiswa kwezobuchwepheshe - bathi, konke kufanele kube yendalo ," kusho u-Olga. " Kodwa uKostya wakwazi ukungikhohlisa." Ukuzama kokuqala sakhetha umcamelo okhethekile wezocansi kanye ne-dildo enhle. Kwakukhona ukuthi amathoyizi awaphazamisi embhedeni, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, yenza kube lula kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwenzeka ukuthi inqubo asigxila emininingwaneni yezobuchwepheshe (okuyinto mina, kumelwe ngiyivume, ingesaba ukwesaba), kodwa ngigxile kakhulu emicabangweni yami . "
"Lo mbhangqwana usufike esinqumweni esifanele: empeleni, ungesabi ukusebenzisa izimboni zezocansi," kusho u-sexologist uGalina Nechaeva. - Amathoyizi e-sex zesimanje alula ukusebenzisa, aphephile ngokuphelele, ahlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo zezokwelapha futhi zenziwe ngokukhethekile ukukunika injabulo nokwandisa impilo ebuseduze. Banike njengabantu abathandekayo, ngoba awudidekile ukukhanya okuthulisiwe kwesibani sasebusuku nokulala okuhle? Futhi ungakhohlwa ngokuhlanzeka: zonke izithoyizi zidinga ukugeza ngamanzi afudumele nesepha ngaphambi nangemva kocansi, futhi ama-vibrators nama-dild kufanele asetshenziswe kanye nekhondomu kanye ne-lubricant ekhethekile. "
Ithebhulethi ye-Magic
Ngemva kweminyaka engu-15 yomshado, u-Oksana no-Igor baphawula ukuthi ukuphila kwabo ngokobulili kwabonakala kuhlwempu. Ubulili bekungavamile, kodwa mayelana nemidlalo yokuthanda, ehlala ubusuku bonke, bebengakhumbula kuphela. "Ngobusuku obunye, u-Igor wazinikela ukusebenzisa i-Viagra - iphilisi yanconywa udokotela wethu womndeni ," amasheya ka-Oksana. - Ekuqaleni ngathatha lo mbono ngokungabaza: kwabonakala kimi ukuthi imithi yokwelashwa kuphela isetshenziselwa amacala angenathemba. Kodwa-ke, emidwebeni ecabangela imiphumela engenzeka, isavumelwane. Ngiyajabula ngokuthi nginqoba ubandlululo lwami - ubulili bekumangalisa nje. Kwakukhona ukuthi amaphilisi awubangeli nje ukulungiswa okungalawulwa, kodwa usize ukugcina sonke isikhathi ngenkathi le ndoda iyethusa. Siphinde sathola ithuba lokujabulela inqubo uma nje sifuna. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, njalo ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa, sizivumela ukugubha umzimba . "
"Yiqiniso, izidakamizwa ezinjalo akufanele zithathwe ngabathandi abasha," kuxwayisa u-Vladimir Prokhorov. - Kodwa uma umuntu onesifo esinenkinga, elahlekelwa amandla kodwa okwamanje akahlupheki ngesifo senhliziyo, i-Viagra ingaba usizo oluhle. Kuzosiza ukuhlukanisa ubulili bomndeni. Ekugcineni, kuwubuwula ukungasebenzisi izinzuzo zempucuko yanamuhla, uma kunesidingo.
Kodwa uma lo mbhangqwana ukholelwa ukuthi ithebhulethi ingenza isimangaliso, khona-ke kuyodingeka amdumaze: i-Viagra kanye nezifanekiselo zalo azikho ngokwabo ezibangelwa ukuzitika, kodwa zisiza nje kuphela ukuqala izindlela zokulungisa. Uma injabulo ihamba kahle, iphilisi ingathuthukisa kakhulu izinga lokuphila ngokocansi, futhi uma kunzima indoda ukuba ijabule - cishe, ayidingi imithi, kodwa ukubonisana nomuntu ocansini. "
Shintsha izindawo
UKarina noRuben bebelokhu beba "abashadile abashisayo." "Ngaphezu kwakho konke, sithanda ukuzama ukushintsha izindawo ," kusho uRuben. - Ikakhulukazi kuboniswe ebusheni obukhuni: ukukhathazeka kungavela ekuvakashelaneni nabangani, ebhokisini lebusuku noma emotweni. Futhi maduzane saqaphela ukuthi asizange sazama ukwenza ucansi emvelweni. Lo mbono wawubonakala unzima: kwasehlobo, eduze kwe-dacha, esiyiqashisayo, kwakuyihlathi, futhi kunezindawo eziningi ezinhle. Sithatha ingubo epholile, iwayini namasangweji kanye nathi futhi sasihamba emigwaqweni egcwele. Ubulili bebuhle - isidumbu sasivunguza umoya omusha, futhi ukusondelana kwemvelo kwanikeza injabulo amandla akhethekile . "
"Ubulili endaweni entsha yindlela elula kakhulu yokuthi owesifazane ahlukanise impilo yakhe ebusweni nomyeni wakhe," kusho isazi sezocansi uGalina Nechaeva. "Akumangalisi ukuthi la madoda ayethanda ukushintsha isimo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ulale ocansini endaweni engavamile, cabanga ngalokho ofuna ukukuthola kulokhu. Isibonelo, ukwenza uthando emvelweni noma endaweni yomphakathi, sebenzisa ikhondomu, ngaphandle kwalokho kungabangela ukucasuka noma i-dysbiosis yesisu. "
UMBUZO WESIFUNDO: U-Evgeny KULGAVCHUK, isazi sezocansi, isazi sengqondo, umengameli we-Russian Association of Sexologists.
Ekuphileni ngokobulili kubalulekile ukulandela incazelo yegolide. Akufanele kuvunyelwe ukuba kube njengemfudumalo, kepha akufanelekile ukuyijika emfuleni wezintaba. Ukuphila okusondelene kufanele kubonakale njengechibi elihle elinamanzi asebenzayo. Khona-ke kuvela ukugcina ibhalansi ebaluleke kakhulu: into esemqoka ayilahlekile, kodwa izinguquko zisenzeka. Intsha kufanele idlale indima yezesekeli, futhi ingaguquki indlela yokuphila, ngoba ekugcineni ungathola okuthiwa "ukushisa ngokomzwelo", ukukhathala nokudumazeka. Ngokwemvelo, amadoda adinga ukudlala okungaphezulu nokushintsha kocansi. Uma intsha iyatholakala, ke, ukugcina ubuhlobo obuhlala njalo, kubonakala sengathi baningi besifazane. Yebo, futhi abesifazane bavame ukubuka ukungahambisani nokwaziswa njengesivivinyo sokugcina ubuhlobo obuhle. Ngokuqondene nokuhlelwa kwemicabango yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, kungase kuphawulwe ukuthi amanye awo angakhetha ngokuzenzakalelayo ukusebenzisa. Ngoba zihle nje kuphela ukucabanga futhi lapho kuqaliswa kuphela kuletha ukudumala. Uma kuxoxwa ngakho kufanelekile ukusebenzisa "imithombo yesithathu", isibonelo, izihloko zezincwadi. Uma lo mlingani engathinteli ulwazi olusha, vumelana naye, uma engacabangi, khona-ke ungathuthukisa ingxoxo ngokuqhubekayo. Kodwa qaphela ngokusebenza okusebenzayo: qiniseka qiniseka ukuthi amafantasti akho ahambisana nemibono yomlingani.
5 IZIMITHETHO ZEMIBUZO YEMISEBENZI
1. Yonke into kufanele ibe yendalo. Akudingeki ukuthi uhlakulele imiyalelo enemininingwane engakuvimbela ukuba uphumule futhi ujabulele inqubo.
2. Ukuhlolwa kumele kube nomgomo. Cabanga ukuthi kungani ufuna ukuzama lokhu noma lokho? Ukuze uzizwe nguthando lwesilwane? Noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, isisa? Noma ake umlingani azizwe ekuphakameni?
3. Ngesinye isikhathi kungcono ukushintsha eyodwa, ikakhulukazi izingxenye ezimbili zeskripthi sakho esivamile. Isibonelo, uma unquma ukwenza ubulili emvelweni, cishe akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzojabula nakakhulu nentuthuko yesikhathi esisodwa. Isimo esisodwa esingavamile siyokwanela.
4. Ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa, ungazami ukulawula ngokuphelele inqubo. Kuyoba ngcono uma uthemba umlingani futhi umvumele enze okuthile njengoba ebona kufanelekile.
5. Ungahlanganyeli ekuhlolweni. Ngezikhathi ezithile ziyamnandi futhi ziwusizo, kodwa kuphela uma ungaba yizigqila zokuphishekela izinto ezintsha. Ekugcineni, ukuzinza nakho kuhle. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - imizwa yakho, hhayi izikhundla ezintsha ...