Kuvame ukukholelwa ukuthi ubulili yingxenye yabantu abasha 18-30 ubudala. Kule minyaka yobudala, amadoda nabesifazane balala njalo, banelisa ngokuphelele izidingo zabo zomzimba. Lezo zibhangqwana ezithintekayo ngokobulili, bheka ohlangothini oluvumelanisa futhi olujabulisayo. Kodwa isimo sithuthuka kanjani eminyakeni ekhulile kakhulu? Ezimweni eziningi, ngemva kweminyaka engaba ngu-50, impilo yobulili iphela noma iphela ngokuphelele. Futhi kuyize kakhulu! Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe bamazwe athuthukile abheka umhlaba.
Kwaqhutshwa isifundo, lapho impilo yobunzima yabantu abangu-200 abaneminyaka engama-60 ubudala ihlolwe khona. Kwafakazelwa ukuthi labo ababenokuxhumana ngokocansi njalo babe nengqondo ethuthukisiwe futhi inkumbulo engcono kunabo abaphikisana nabo ngokocansi. Futhi abantu abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-75 baneliseke ngokuphila kwabo ngokobulili ngaphezu kwabantu abaneminyaka engama-60 ubudala. Ngakho ososayensi bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi abantu asebekhulile bangakwazi futhi babe nobuhlobo bobulili obuvamile. Lokhu kunomthelela kwimemori ende nokuthuthukiswa okujwayelekile empilweni.
Ngokuphambene nezinkolelo zesimo
Abantu bakithi abanalo ubulili ekugugeni, hhayi ngoba abakwazi noma abangafuni. Kuyinto nje esingayamukeli yona, kuyihlazo. Ochwepheshe bathi futhi isifiso socansi kanye nekhono lokwenza ucansi, yize noma kancane kancane linciphisa, kodwa lingabi nemingcele ecacile. Ngokuya ngesimo sempilo yabantu kanye nesimo saso, umsebenzi wobulili ungahluka kakhulu. Ezinye imibhangqwana eshadile zigcina ubuhlobo obuseduze nangesikhathi sekhalenda esikupheleni, ngenxa yesimo esihle somzimba wonke.
Umbono ophakanyisiwe wokuthi lapho usukhulile owesifazane ulahlekelwa ikhono lokugculiswa ngokocansi ngenxa yokuya esikhathini, akanayo izizathu zokwelashwa. Yiqiniso, ushintsho lwe-climacteric lukhathaza isigaba socansi. Ngakho-ke, ukuntuleka kwamahomoni wesifazane ocansini kuholela ekumekeni kwesifazane, okuyinto ngezinye izikhathi kuvimbela ukulala ngokobulili futhi kubangele ukuzwa okubuhlungu. Kodwa-ke, le ndaba ikulungiswa kalula - kukhona ukukhethwa okukhulu kwama-creams namafutha emakethe yanamuhla. Enye into ukuthi abantu asebekhulile bazizwa benamahloni ukuvakashela isitolo socansi.
Emadodeni abaneminyaka yobudala, isifiso sobulili sinciphisa kancane kancane, kuqala kuphela kwesithupha (ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nangesikhombisa) iminyaka eyishumi yokuphila. Le nkinga ingumuntu ngamunye. Ngeshwa, kuvame ukuba nzima ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zezifo zesistimu ye-genitourinary. Kulolu daba udokotela uvele edingekile. Kodwa amadoda amaningi ayesaba ukuphendukela kubachwepheshe ngalezi zinkinga. Ngakho-ke, ukunakekelwa nokusekelwa owesifazane othandekayo ngeke nje kumvumele ukuba alondoloze isithunzi sakhe sesilisa, kodwa futhi ahlale isikhathi eside sempilo yakhe yesilisa.
Izici zesini ekugugeni
Ubulili ekugugeni kunezinhlangothi ezimbili zemali. Ivumela umuntu ukuba azizwe esencane, ephethe eziningi ze-adrenaline nemizwa emihle. Kodwa-ke, ucansi luphoqa amandla amaningi okudliwa, okubandakanya umthwalo omkhulu wenhliziyo, imithwalo yegazi nobuchopho. Ukugcina kwabantu asebekhulile, ikakhulukazi amadoda, kungaba yingozi kakhulu. Izinga lokuzijabulisa lidlala indima ebalulekile kulokhu. Uma umuntu osekhulile eqala ubuhlobo nomuntu ongajwayelekile ongaziwayo, uthola injabulo enkulu. Akumangalisi ukuthi uxhumano olunjalo ngezinye izikhathi luphela ngokudabukisayo. Kodwa-ke, esimeni lapho abalingani beye bajwayele iminyaka eminingi komunye nomunye, lokhu kujabula akukwenzeki. Ngakho ingozi empilweni enjalo isincane ngezinye izikhathi.
Ubulili, nakuba liyingxenye yokuphila kwabantu asebekhulile, kodwa namanje kancane kancane kudala ngemuva. Abantu abaneminyaka yobudala bayakwazisa ngokujulile uthando nokukhathazeka komlingani wabo, ukuthokoza kokuxhumana nokufudumala kokuba ndawonye. Ubuhlobo obunjalo obungokomoya buyakha ubudlelwane obunamandla nakakhulu phakathi kwabalingani asebekhulile, futhi ubulili buyandisa impilo yabo bobabili!