Indlela yokuhlukanisa impilo yomndeni ngokobulili. Kulula kakhulu, udinga umcabango omncane kuphela futhi uzophumelela. Kancane kancane ulungiselele umlingani wakho, mbuze ukuthi angathanda yini entsha ebuhlotsheni bakho obuseduze. Uma uqala ukudlala ngayo ngokuphawulekayo, kungadala ukuziphatha kwakho. Futhi ngeke kukusebenze okuhle, kodwa kuphela okulimazayo. Okuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ebuhlotsheni bomndeni wobulili kuyidlala. Bafika esikhathini sethu kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, ngesikhathi sezinkampani kanye nabalimi, igazi elihle lamadoda, abathandwa kakhulu yizinsizwa nezintombi. Futhi abashade babo bakhetha iplumbers kanye nabalimi.
Indoda yedwa ingumnqobi, futhi ufuna ukunqoba konke nakho konke. Mnike leli thuba, ake eqale ukunqoba, futhi umelane naye. Cabanga ukuthi uyintombazane efuna ukukhohliswa yindoda. Angaba yingxenye yomholi, futhi wena ube yindima yephayona. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumzala wakho ovela kude, futhi wena ungumsikazi ohloniphekile. Angaba yindoda epholile, futhi uyintombazane enesizotha kakhulu enezingulube. Uma ufuna inganekwane, khona-ke angakwazi ukuba yinkosana, futhi wena uyiCinderella.
Ungenza okuphambene ngqo, uzoqala ukukhohlisa umyeni wakho. Mcabange ukuthi uyingxenye yesimiso esinezibuko kanye ne-sweater elula efike kuwe ukufaka i-antivirus kwikhompyutha, futhi unjalo ingubo encane esembathweni esicacile kanye namasitokisi, e-chic lingerie, uhlale eceleni kwakhe bese uqala ukumkhohlisa. Noma ngabe ungumfundisi, futhi ungumfundi wakho. Noma enye inketho, ungumphathi, ungumuntu wakho othobekile.
Futhi manje uyingxenye yowesifazane wekhono elilula, owamukela imali emzimbeni wakhe. Zishintshe ku-courtesan: ukwakheka okukhazimulayo, isiketi esifushane, isikhumba esivulekile. Uzokwenza yonke imiyalo yakhe embhedeni, ukuze ukwazi ukuveza izifiso zangasese zomlingani wakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlawuliswe yipolisi yethrafikhi yokuphulwa komgwaqo, futhi awunayo imali yokuyikhokhela. Ngakho kufanele uqale ukudukisa iphoyisa lesitimela.
Ngokujwayelekile abesifazane okungenani ezingeni le-subconscious bafuna ukugobhozwa ngamandla. Zizwa izandla ezinamandla zesilisa zikucindezela wena nobulili ngaphandle kwe-preludes, kodwa cishe nesimiso semvelo. Indoda ifuna ngempela ukuzwa le ndima yendoda ekhungathekile, futhi owesifazane uyamlahla. Kulokhu, into esemqoka akufanele idlale, noma ungazizwa wena futhi iqiniso liyisisulu.
Ngemuva kwesinqumo sakho jikelele (ngifuna ukunaka igama elithi "jikelele") ukuze uhlanganyele emidlalweni yokudlala, uzilungiselela ngokucophelela. Cabanga ngokubukeka, ingaphakathi, uma unabantwana, kungcono ukuwathumela ukuba avakashele ugogo nomkhulu wakho, ngakho-ke kuyoba lula kuwe ukuthi ufake indima. Vala amafoni bese utshela bonke abangani bakho ukuthi ngeke uphazamiseke kulobu busuku.
Ngakho-ke, ulungele ukukhetha ukuthi iyiphi umdlalo ozoyidlala, qala ukujwayela indima, nje ungahle uhlele wonke amagama ekuqaleni, kungenjalo kuyoba kubi futhi kungathandeki, njengama-serials angabizi, noma kumafilimu e-pornography aseJalimane. Vula umculo omnandi, ukhanyise amakhandlela, ungawugcwalisa igumbi elinama-flavour akhethekile. Futhi ube nobusuku obuhle!
Ungadlala nomyeni wakho ngendlela ehlukile, uqashe igumbi lehhotela, umkhonze lapho ngosizo lwe-SMS elingayo. Futhi lapho ukumhlela ukuba kube kusihlwa okungenakulibaleka, futhi ungakwenza ngisho nasesikhathini sakusihlwa, ngakho-ke kuyoba mnandi kakhulu. Dlala indima yakho kuze kube sekugcineni, ungayinaki ingqondo yakhe emangele kanye nenqwaba yemibuzo.
Esikhathini esizayo le midlalo izokuthakazelisa kakhulu kuwe. Bayodlala indima enkulu empilweni yakho yomshado oqhubekayo. Ngisho nezingxabano ongazixazulula ngosizo lwalezi neminye imidlalo. Ake ucabange uma, ngemuva kwesinye isihlamba, uhlangana nomyeni wakho ngobuso benceku. Okulungele noma yini, uma kuphela umnikazi amxolele.
Lalela indoda yakho, njengoba echaza ukungenqikazi kwakhe ukwenza noma yini. Uma ethi ukhathele ukuphambuka njenge-squirrel esesondo, kodwa ufuna nje ukuwa futhi angahambi. Ngakho-ke yiba yingonyama embhedeni, futhi masilale futhi ajabule.
Noma ngabe usebenza njengesikhulu esiphakeme, futhi ukhathele isithombe sakhe sansuku zonke.
"Ngaphansi" esikhundleni sakhe, makabe engaphansi.
Wayekhathele isimo sansuku zonke endlini, amenzele igumbi lehhotela endlini.
Uma enesisindo esivela kulokho obekukhona ngaphambi kokuba amadoda abe khona. Ukuzenza sengathi uyintombi, makakudukise.
Kodwa konke kulokhu kuphila kungadalwa, ngisho nezikhathi ezinjalo zothando. Khumbula imithetho embalwa ukuze lokhu kungenzeki:
- Ungazifihli futhi ungafaki umlingani wakho; - Thola iziphakamiso zakhe ezihlukahlukene zobudlelwane bakho bobulili nenjabulo; - Ungalokothi uhleke ngesikhathi sokudlala umdlalo; - Ungazigxeka noma uqobo lwakhe; - Behave okungavinjelwe; - Phaphama ingane, i-shoddy futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngaphandle kwesici; - Drop zonke izinkinga.