Izazi zengqondo zaqaphela ukuthi ukuhlukanisana nomuntu othandekayo, futhi ngisho nangokwengeziwe isehlukaniso, kuhamba njalo kubuhlungu. Ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane. Usola ngokuthi awukwazi ukulondoloza ubuhlobo, okwenza ukhathazeke ngomntanakho. Ungakwazi ukuphuma kule nkinga ngokuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo, noma ungakwazi-ngokomoya ukukhula nokuqiniswa. Indlela yokukhohlwa uthando oludala futhi usinde ukuhlukanisa, kuxhomeke kithi kuphela.
Zizinakekele
Iseluleko sokuqala ukugxila emsebenzini wakho. Uma usanda kucabanga ngokushintsha umsebenzi, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza ngokuseduze. Njengoba kungavamile ngangokunokwenzeka, hlela "isikhathi sokuzihlola". Phuma emicabangweni enzima futhi ukhohlwe ngesehlukaniso ngeke uphumelele. Kodwa ukunciphisa imicabango engathandekayo okungenani - kakhulu ngaphakathi kwamandla. Cela usizo ezihlotsheni, noma ngabe ukuziqhenya akusho. Izihlobo nabangane bangempela bayazi ukuthi phakathi nalesi sikhathi unzima kakhulu, ungafihli imizwelo yakho. Ngokuvamile hamba, vakashela izivakashi. Ngisho noma ungayifuni ngempela, ukuxhumana okujabulisayo, okungajabulisi, okuthandekayo - ngokuqinisekile kuyokwenza okuhle. Qaphela impilo, kokubili ngokomoya nangokwenyama. Ukukhathazeka okuningi nezinkinga zasendlini akuzange kunikeze ithuba lokubheka ukubukeka? Manje yisikhathi! Phambili!
Shiya izinkumbulo
Izinkumbulo zokuthandana, usuku lokuqala, kisses, ukuhamba okuhlangene - yilokho abesifazane abavame ukuhlala ngemva kokuhlukanisa. Injabulo ayifuni, ingqondo yokulahlekelwa nokungabi nabulungisa kuphela. Ingabe izinkumbulo zobuhlobo obudlule zingasiza ukukhohlwa uthando oludala? Ngakho-ke, ungavumeli izinkumbulo zigcine umphefumulo wakho. Shiya esidlule esikhathini esidlule. Khumbula: ukuzithokozisa ngokokuziphatha akuzange kube nomuntu omuhle, akakaze, futhi akazange alethe impumuzo kunoma ubani. Zama futhi ukungena ezinkingeni futhi ungabi nesithakazelo empilweni yomuntu wangaphambili. Ngesinye isikhathi, vala leli khasi lempilo yakho!
Qaphela izifiso
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphulukisa inhliziyo ephukile futhi usinde isahlukaniso akumele uhlale wazi ukuthi kwenzekani futhi uqhubeke uphila. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi impilo yomndeni ingashiyi isikhathi semisebenzi ezithakazelisayo, manje ongayithola. Zama ukuhlola kahle isimo esisha. Cabanga ukuthi unesikhathi kanye nethuba lokubona izifiso ezindala ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi umyeni wangaphambili uzoyithatha kanjani manje. Ukusinda isahlukaniso kuzosiza ukukhululwa kwamaphupho akho - ukuhamba olwandle, uhambo. Ukwahlukanisa akusijabulisi, kodwa lokhu akuwona umusho wokufa, kunalokho, i-voucher empilweni entsha!
Yini ongayisho enganeni
Ukuphuka kwakho akuyona nje imizwelo yakho. Kunzima ukuhlukanisa nezingane. Umsebenzi wabazali ukuchaza ingane ukuthi kungani umama nobaba bengayikuhlala ndawonye kanye nokuhlukanisa. Kungcono, uma wonke umuntu ezoba nengxenye kule ngxoxo: wena, indoda nomntwana. Qinisekisa ingane ukuthi ukuhamba kukababa akuhlangene nokuziphatha kwengane (ngokuvamile izingane zizitshela ngokuhlukana nabazali), akukho lutho ebuhlotsheni bakho oluzoshintsha. Ekuqaleni, zama ukuqiniseka ukuthi ubaba uvame ukuvakashela ingane.
Ubuhlobo obusha
Ngemuva kwesahlukaniso, abesifazane abaningi abasheshayo ukwakha ubudlelwane obusha. Besaba ukuphindaphinda kwesimo sokuhlukanisa. Noma kunjalo akufanele ugweme umphakathi wesilisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubani ongasho, sizizwa singowesifazane ngempela sizungezwe amadoda kuphela. Ungakhohlwa ukubheka nxazonke - uthando lungalindele ngokungalindelekile!
Ukubona isehlukaniso njengesiqalo sokuphila okusha, lapho uyojabula ngempela! Okungenani kubalulekile ukuqonda isimo esibucayi, uma uhlose ukukhohlwa kuze kube phakade ngothando oludala nesahlukaniso. Ukudangala nokucindezeleka ngeke kukusize nganoma iyiphi indlela. Kodwa inkolelo yokuthi konke kuzokwenza ngcono futhi ukuphila kuyoba ngcono, kuzosiza ukuphakama esinye isinyathelo ngaphezulu.