Ukuze kuthuthukiswe isikhathi esifanele futhi kufanele, futhi futhi azizwe eqiniseka, udinga ubudlelwane obukhulu obungokomzwelo nabazali nemizwelo emihle. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nabazali abanothando balahlekile, bengazi ukuthi bangathatha kanjani ingane eneminyaka eyodwa, ngoba amandla wengane ikakhulukazi ahloswe ngokuklabalaza okuqhubekayo nokugijima, kodwa ukubekezela akusekho.
Ngomntwana oneminyaka elilodwa ubudala, umdlalo omuhle kakhulu futhi owusizo kakhulu ukubuka, ngakho-ke qaphela noma yiziphi izinto ezincane, ngenkathi ukhuluma ngokucacile ukuthi kwenzekani kuye. Ngokwesibonelo, ungabheka ingane ngokushayela indiza, ubone ukuthi kunetha noma iqhwa. Izibonelo ezibonisa izinzuzo eziphumelelayo ekuthuthukiseni izingane ezincane.
Amathoyizi afaneleka iminyaka
Ingane eneminyaka eyodwa ubudala inesithakazelo esikhulu kuzihlalo ezinamasondo ezihlukahlukene ezingafakwa, ukuqhuma phambi kwakhe noma ukudonsa ngentambo. Isihlalo sabakhubazekile singathengwa ngesimo somshini wokubhala, amasondo, izilwane ezincane, noma singakhiwa ngebhokisi lebhokisi elivamile. Kule minyaka futhi kukhona amathoyizi athakazelisayo angabekwa omunye komunye, okungukuthi, uhlobo lodoti lokudoba. Esikhundleni semathoyizi, unganika imishini yamakhishi ekhishini ngobukhulu obuhlukene, isibonelo, izimbiza, amapuleti, izinkomishi.
Izingane kule minyaka zithanda ukuvula nokuvala iziqukathi ezihlukahlukene. Lokhu akukona nje kuphela okuthakazelisayo, kodwa futhi kuthuthukisa amakhono amakhono omntanakho. Ukulandela lokhu, njengamathoyizi, ingane inganikeza izimbiza ezingenalutho ze-creams, ama-shampoos (ahlanzeke ngaphambilini).
Abaneminyaka elilodwa ubudala bathanda ukwakha okuthile, kodwa izakhiwo akufanele zibe phansi. Ukwakhiwa, ungathenga izingodo zamapulangwe noma zeplastiki. Ngendlela, ama-cubes angashintshwa yizimbiza ezivamile ezivela ku-groats. Ingane inesithakazelo sokwakha isakhiwo, futhi ibhubhise. Umzali ukhuthazwa ukuba athathe ingxenye ekhuthele, kunokuba ahlale kude.
Imidlalo yemisebenzi nayo isici salesi sizukulwane. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi ingane izwe njengomuntu omdala uma ibeka idonsa noma enye ithoyizi ukulala. Ungase futhi uhlele "ukudla" emaflethini, ushayela imoto egaraji. Ngenxa yalokhu, akudingekile ukuthenga izesekeli ezibizayo, zefashini.
Izingane ezineminyaka engu-1-2 ubudala zithanda ukubeka izinto eziphilayo ezingenalutho, ngaphezu kwalokho, lezo ezingenakho. Ama-cubes afaka epulatifini, isibonelo, angathatha indawo yokudla, ibhokisi elivamile lingaba yinto ehlukile egaraji.
Amageyimu wokuthinta
Izingane ezineminyaka engu-1-2 ubudala zibalulekile amathoyizi anembono ohlukile. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungadlala nomntwana ngendlela enjalo: faka amathoyizi wezingubo ezahlukene ebhokisini, bese unikeza ingane ukuthola ithoyizi okudingeka uyithinte.
Vumela ingane ukuthi idlale ngejingi namanzi kaningi. Ngesikhathi sokugeza noma nje lapho umntwana edlala emgodini ngamanzi, unake ingane ezintweni ezingagcina ziqhuma noma ngokuphambene, cwilisa. Ngokuqinisekile iphansi liyokhukhulwa ngamanzi, futhi izingubo ziyobe zimanzi, kodwa ungathukutheli, ngoba ulwazi luza kuqala, futhi ukunemba kuya ngemuva.
Ungakholeka ingane yalesikhathi ngokudweba. Ngalesi sizathu, amapensela, amapende, ama-brushes, amaki, amashidi ephepha, i-albhamu, i-tile endlini yokugezela izokwenza.
Njengoba uneminyaka engu-1-2 ungadlala umdlalo "ngokushisa kakhulu." Fihla noma iyiphi into evela kumntwana bese umcela ukuba athole, ngenkathi enza amathiphu aphuze, afudumele, ashisayo. Bese ubuza ingane ukuthi ifihle into, futhi ubheka.
Ukuxhumana ngumdlalo omuhle kakhulu wezinyane elilodwa elineminyaka elilodwa
Kubantwana beminyaka engu-1-2, okubaluleke kakhulu ukuchitha isikhathi nabazali. Kule minyaka yobudala izingane zibona ukuziphatha kwakho, izenzo futhi uqale ukuzilingisa. Futhi uma uvumela ingane ukuba ihlwithe phansi phansi ngomshanelo wangempela, khona-ke uyozizwa ebalulekile futhi ewusizo. Ungavumela ingane ukuba ibambe emaphoyiseni noma ezinkathini. Ngenkathi ingane ifunda umhlaba, ngokuqinisekile, into eyophuka, kodwa akudingekile ukuba imqalekise ngenxa yayo, ngoba ayikwazi nje ukudikibala wonke umuntu onentshisekelo yokwazi izwe elikuzungezile, kodwa futhi ingathinteka kakhulu ingane esikoleni.