Izimo ezinzima, lapho izingane zikhulile ziphoqeleka ukuba zihlale kanye nabazali bazo, zenze izimo ezinzima ezifanayo. Futhi uma "igazi lidlala", ufuna konke okuhlukile, ngezinye izikhathi ungabheka ukuthi abazali basesigumbini esilandelayo ... Akunjalo?
Izinketho zokuthi ungalala kanjani, uma abazali bekhaya, okuningi. Kodwa zonke ziletha ukwesaba esimweni. Futhi ungikholelwe mina, noma ngabe "uthule kakhulu" futhi ngemuva kweminyango evaliwe, ngeke ukwazi ukufihla "injabulo engavinjelwe" noma kunjalo.
Yiqiniso, kunezindlela ezingaphezulu noma ezingaphansi zokuziphatha zokuhlela impilo yomuntu, naphezu kokuhlala nabazali ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa. Kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu omele isizukulwane esikudala ozwelayo futhi oqaphele ukusebenzisa uhlobo lwe "isistimu yesignali." Ngokwesibonelo, "mina nomyeni wami sithatha amathikithi e-movie, ngoLwesithathu" - futhi izingane ezindala ziqonda ukuthi kulobu busuku ukuthi ungalungisa okuthile okuphazamisayo ...
Kodwa ngokuvamile kuyadingeka ukuba uneliswe yilokho. Futhi lokhu, okuncane kakhulu noma okuncane, ukulala ngokocansi ngaphansi kwesibopho, lapho abazali behamba phambili - ekamelweni elilandelayo. Futhi uma singanaki iqiniso lokuthi ukwaneliseka okunjalo kwesifiso kuvame ukulimaza, ngakho-ke singavela ngezindlela eziningi.
Izindlela zakudala:
Ukuze ubulili obunjalo obunzima, igumbi elihlukile, nebhokisi, kanye nendawo yokugezela nazo kufanelekile. Indlela elula yokuqalisa ukufaka isicelo, futhi kunzima kakhulu - into engavamile. Qaphela amasu okuphepha - isibonelo, ibhaluni lingabanda, futhi endlini yokugezela - elula kakhulu. Futhi ukuchaza odokotela be-ambulensi abafika ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi lesi sigameko sitholakale, nendlela yokugqoka izisulu, kuyoba namahloni kakhulu.
Umlando wokuphila:
U-Natalia wayenendoda eyayihlala nonina. Futhi kubonakala sengathi igumbi elihlukile livale ukhiye, futhi umuntu ngokwakhe - nxazonke ephikisayo ... Ngakho, esedlula "ukulala" ngo-10 ntambama, lo mbhangqwana wenza indlela eya "ekamelweni" lakhe, amakhandlela avuliwe futhi kuqala kuqala ...
... Ngokumemeza kwe-siren egumbini, ukususa umnyango kusuka ezitsheni zalo, umama uyangena. Le ntombazane ayinaso isikhathi sokukhipha ingubo kumngane wakhe bese uthumela "hello". Futhi umama wami e-hysterics: "Tolya, imoto yakho yaxoshwa!"
Akayikuthi lapho evamile, kodwa umama wayebuka ngaphandle kwefasitela futhi akazange abone imoto endaweni ...
- Ngezikhathi ezinjalo kukholwa ukuthi noma yiliphi ubulili lingcono kunabazali ...
Extreme
Ekamelweni lokungena noma ekhishini; ehlezi etafuleni; emphakathini womgibeli, lapho esesitokisini, umbono ohlangene wokuziphendulela - awukwazi ukuthi yini enye ongayakha ...
Umlando wokuphila:
Ngokuvamile uNastya wahlala neRom, lapho abazali bakhe behamba kuleli zwe. Futhi manje lo mbhangqwana, owabuyela ekhaya sekwephuzile, wahlangana nabazali bawo. Futhi bachaza ukuthi baletha nabo ugogo omdala. I-Roma, njengomfana weqiniso, ayizange ikhiphe umngane ebusuku, futhi yangena egumbini lakhe. Manje balala ndawonye - ugogo ewindwangu kanye nombhangqwana odongeni oluphambene.
Ugogo wayelele ngokuzwakalayo, futhi wabanjwa ngamandla. Futhi, ngemva kokucabangela ukuthi bangalala kanjani uma abazali bekhaya, lo mbhangqwana awutholanga lutho olungcono ...
Bazama ukuthula. Kodwa ekuseni, uNastia, eya esikoleni, wathola ukuphawula kukagogo wakhe: "Uqale, udlale, ngizolala!". Ngemuva kokumbula okunjalo, ngangifuna ukuwela emhlabeni. U-Nastya akazange ahlale futhi ...
- Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, ubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo nezihlobo zingase bubi nakakhulu uma unquma ukuba "umuntu ongenazo izinkinga"
Ubulili obusheshayo
Umbuzo wokuthi ungalala kanjani, uma abazali bekhaya, kulula ukuxazulula uma abazali beya esitolo, bathole iphephandaba noma ukuhleba nomakhelwane. Khona-ke lo mbhangqwana ujabule "nokuhlonipha" okwenziwe. Kodwa sonke isikhathi okufanele ulalele - ngeke ukuchofoza ilokhi? Awuzange yini isihluthulelo siphenduke? Ungabe uzwa izinyathelo emgodini?
Futhi-ke, izimo eziyiziphukuphuku lapho ukubuya kwabazali kuyanda. Futhi uma ukhumbuza futhi ukuthi emva kokubili kokubili bafuna ukugeza, bese ufihla "ukuchitha isikhathi" kwakho ngeke kusebenze.
Umlando wokuphila:
Umngane wami ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha ehamba nesoka lakhe ngendawo yokuhlala, elalela izinyathelo, ukuchofoza, izingxoxo emgodini.
- Ukusho ukuthi ubulili obunjalo bungcono kunekho, kungahle kube nokugqweba okukhulu.
Ukuphumula nokuphumula
Ngokwemvelo, isibambiso sobulili obufanele, okuyinto eyoba mnandi ukuyikhumbula, isimo esizolile nokusondelana okuphelele. Kule ndlela kuphela umuntu angakwazi ukuvula imiphefumulo futhi azinikeze umuzwa, ngomqondo, ngokuhambisana.
Ngakho-ke, umbuzo "ukuthi ungalala kanjani, uma abazali bekhaya", kukhona impendulo eyodwa kuphela - ungabhekani nabo ekhaya.
Akusibo ubusuku obujulile, noma ukuthungwa okuhle kwezwi akukwazi ukunikeza lo mqondo wokuphepha nokubuyela ngokugcwele ngokobulili, okunikeza umnyango ovaliwe kanye nomuzi. Noma, ekubi kakhulu, imoto yakhe, indawo yokuhlala usuku noma ihlathini elinyene ...