Ukudla kanye nobulili, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuxhumene eduze komunye nomunye: baletha injabulo futhi bajabule. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bahluke. Ukudla kanye nobulili namanje yizinto ezithandwayo kakhulu zesintu emhlabeni wonke.
Ukudla nobulili. Ukufana.
Ubulili nokudla kungaba okungajwayelekile noma okulula. Engxoxweni engakahleleki nomngane, ungahlanganyela izindlela zokupheka (kuzo zombili izimo) ngolwazi. Ukudla kanye nobulili yizizathu ezifanele zokuqhuba ukuhlolwa, ukwethula izinto ezintsha, ngokudala izingoma zangempela.
Ukudla nobulili abukeli imingcele. Ukudla ukudla okumnandi noma ukunikezwa ukuthanda injabulo kungenzeka ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene, ngezikhathi ezahlukene kakhulu. Isibonelo, yenza "ngokushesha" ekhaya noma uhlele inqubo yokudlala isikhathi eside emvelweni noma eholidini. Gcwalisa "isifiso" sakho esihlalweni sangemuva semoto noma esiteshini sebhasi esesidlangalaleni.
Ukudla nobulili kuhlinzeka ngamathuba amaningi amashajethi kanye nabachwepheshe beqiniso bezinto ezingavamile. Yini engaba yingozi ngokweqile kunokuphuza ikhofi esheshayo esheshayo kusuka indebe epulasitiki ngenkathi ehlezi esihlalweni sangemuva sebhasi egijima emaphandleni ngaphandle komgwaqo? Ungathanda ukudla i-ayisikhilimu esitolo sokugqoka esabizayo, emnyango odwebe uphawu olwenqabela ukungena ngeziphuzo kanye ne-ayisikhilimu. Inhlanganisela yokuqala ye-suit ehhovisi ye-class kanye nenja eshibhile eshisayo esuka etendeni eliseduzane izokwenza kube lula ukuhamba kwakho.
Ukuxhunywe ekudleni noma ngokocansi kungaba njengenkampani enkulu (abathandi pepper), futhi yodwa, ecabangela ukuzindla kwakho esibukweni odongeni. Ungathuthuka ngokuthulekela efrijini ebusuku bese udla isoseji ebandayo ebumnyameni obuphelele noma uhlanganyele ocansini obuthandayo ekukhanyeni okukhulu.
Okunye ukufana ukuthi, ngezinye izikhathi, bafuna ngempela ukudla noma ukuya ocansini. Yebo, ukuze amandla angabi. Uma lokhu kudinga ukunqoba ubunzima, khona-ke okuthakazelisayo kuyoba yisikhathi sokuthola okufunayo. Yebo, uzama ukuziphazamisa, kodwa isifiso esinamandla ngeke sikuvumele ukuba uhambe futhi uzophishekela uze ukwanelise isifiso somzimba wakho.
Uma unomgwaqo omude ozayo, futhi awuzange uthathe ukudla nawe, futhi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze awulindele ukuma emakhakheni omgwaqo, kufanele ube nesineke. Uma usufuna ukulala ucansi, ungashesha "ukuzisiza." Kodwa isikhathi eside ukuzinciphisa ngezifiso ngeke kusebenze kuzo zombili izimo.
Wonke umuntu udinga ukudla okuhlukahlukene kanye nobulili ngezikhathi ezithile. Izinjabulo ezincane zizovusa ukuphila okumpunga nokubuhlungu kwansuku zonke, okugcwele umsebenzi nokukhathazeka kwansuku zonke.
Ngezinye izikhathi, ungase uvakashelwe isifiso esinqaba kakhulu sokuzama "into" noma "umuntu" omusha. Ukuhlambalaza ngemikhuba yakho kungakubiza kakhulu. Endabeni yokudla, kungabangela ukugxekwa, ukuhlukunyezwa, noma isisu esithukuthele. Uma unomlingani ohlala njalo noma ukuthi ushada kakhulu, izifiso ezinjalo "zenyama entsha" zingabangela ukuphuka noma ukuhlazeka okukhulu ngesigamu sakho sesibili.
Ekukhetheni kokudla kanye nobulili, sonke sihlukile. Omunye uthanda ukudla nokudla ekhaya ekhaya. Kwabanye, ukudla okusheshayo nobulili ngaphandle kwezibopho kuyamukeleka kakhulu. Izakhamuzi zezakhamuzi zakudala futhi ikakhulukazi izakhamuzi ezihamba ngezinyawo zikhetha ukudla okulinganiselwe futhi nazo zibandayo futhi zihlala zizinzile embhede.
Abanye bathola injabulo enkulu "ekuphekeni" inqubo, kwabanye, inqubo yokudla kanye nocansi ngokwayo ibaluleke ngaphezu kokuqala kwayo. Abanye bakhetha ukukhwabanisa nokuhlukumezeka embhedeni, abathandi bokuzikhandla bayokwenza isidlo sakusihlwa ngamapuleti amahle ahlotshiswe ngemifino nemifino.
Ukudla kanye nobulili kungashintsha, ungahlanganisa, uhlanganise futhi usethe izindlela ezintsha zokusebenzisa. Kuthiwani ngemikhiqizo "engabonakali", engenza umehluko umsebenzi wokuthandana. Lokhu yi-strawberry, ukhilimu, ushokoledi, i-spaghetti, ikhofi yasekuseni, elele embhedeni nokunye okuningi.
Ukudla nobulili kuhlobene kakhulu. Nakuba, ukudla kwethu kubaluleke kakhulu futhi kuyadingeka ngaphezu kocansi, kodwa ngokulandela igama elidumile elithi "abantu abahlali ngesinkwa sodwa," kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ubulili yingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila komuntu wanamuhla.