Sonke siyazi ukuthi abesifazane bathanda isimo sengqondo sokulalela. Siyajabula kakhulu ukuthola izimpawu zokubonga nokubonga, ukuncoma, izipho. Owesifazane angakwazi ukusiza umuntu ukuba amtshele ukuthi ufuna ukuthini. Ikhono elimangalisayo lingokwemvelo, ngakho konke kwenzeka ezingeni elingenakuqonda. Isibonelo eside esasungulwa abesifazane abathanda izindlebe siyaziwa wonke umuntu, kodwa bakholelwa ukuthi indlela eya enhliziyweni yamadoda kufanele ithululelwe kuphela esiswini. Ingabe abantu abanaso isifiso sokuthola indumiso kusuka kumakhethi wabo noma igama elimnandi?
Akunjalo. Amadoda nje abelwa indima yowesifazane ogcinwe emzimbeni womuntu ovikela. Kodwa uyamkhathaza, futhi azinakekele, futhi azinakekele, angaphansi kwesifazane. Ngakho-ke, ukuze silondoloze ukuzwana ebuhlotsheni, umuntu akufanele akhohlwe imizwa yomlingani, hhayi ukunganaki zonke izenzo zakhe. Futhi kungenxa yezenzo zakhe ukuthola ukuthi yini ayifunayo okwamanje kusuka kuwe, esenze lesi senzo.Inzalo eqotho
Ukuxhumana nomuntu, kufanele uhlale uqotho, ungesabi ukukhuluma kusuka enhliziyweni. Emacinweni akufanele kube khona amanothi angamanga. Ubulili obuqinile buzwa kahle kakhulu. Ukunakekelwa kwethenda yakho kuyobongwa. Kodwa ungazami ukugxila enkulumweni yakhe. Izophela ngokubi. Akufanele ukhulume naye ngezwi elihlelekile noma, ngokuphambene, mbone njengengane yakho bese uzama ukuxazulula izinkinga zakhe ngomama. Usevele engumuntu obanjwe, ake akhethe ukuthi yini eyamukelekayo kuye. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngeke akhiphe amazwi amnandi nomusa avela kuwe. Into esemqoka ukuthi amazwi akho aqotho, futhi uzozizwa.
Isimo sengqondo
Wonke umuntu unezimo lapho okuthile okumele kushintshwe, kushintshwe. Amadoda ezinkingeni ezinjalo ayathulile, azicasuli. Bayothola kokubili incazelo kanye nesisombululo. Kodwa abesifazane ngezikhathi ezinjalo abakwazi ukucindezela imizwelo yabo emibi, baqala ukucasuka, bamemeza, bafunge. Awukwazi ukuchaza ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka futhi ukuthi ungalungisa kanjani lo mcimbi. Futhi uma umuntu ehlehlisa usuku, kukhona izizathu eziningi. Futhi ukuqagela kwabesifazane kuzobukeka kuyisiphukuphuku emehlweni omuntu. Ngemuva kwalokho, wavele ephule umshini noma enkonzweni eboshiwe ikhanda.
Ngingathini kuye ngalokhu? Kumelwe sizame ukuqonda izizathu, ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani emsebenzini, yini ukuwohloka kwemoto nokuthi uzolungiswa isikhathi esingakanani? Akukaze kudingekile ukuba uqhubekele abahlaziyi, ukucinga nokuletha izizathu ezingenalutho. Lokhu kuyomcasula, kuyoba khona impikiswano, engabeka umshado wakho engozini.
Isigaba esiseduze
Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi kuphela ucansi obuthakathaka uthanda izindlebe. Noma yimuphi umuntu uthanda nokuzwa ngaye ngamazwi amnandi nobufakazi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kwisigaba esiseduze. Njengomzingeli, uyobe ejabule ngokuzwakalayo ukuzwa amagama ashukumisayo, ukuncoma kusuka kulondla ebanjwe. Lokhu kuvusa kakhulu ukuzethemba kwakhe. Uqala ukuzizwa njengomphathi wekamelo lokulala futhi uzozama kanzima ukukujabulisa ngazo zonke izindlela.
Izindaba Zasekhaya
Abesifazane bathanda lapho othandekayo emdumisa ngesidlo sasemnandi noma isidlo sakusihlwa, uhlola ihembe eliboshiwe kuye ezingeni eliphakeme. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi abesifazane bayakhohlwa ukuthi lokhu kuyinto efanayo abantu abayithandayo. Wafaka ishalofu - udumiso ngomsebenzi, lungisa iphoyisa - futhi uthi ngiyabonga. Umbono wakho ngomuntu uhlale uwusizo kakhulu. Khumbula lokhu. Futhi izinga lomsebenzi wakhe akufanele lihlolwe. Into eyinhloko ubona futhi wamukele umsebenzi wakhe. Ungamtsheli ngeshalofu elikhohlisiwe, kodwa zama ukubuyisela umsebenzi naye ndawonye. Uyakwazisa isimo sakho sengqondo esiqotho kuye futhi esikhathini esizayo uzokujabulisa ngekhwalithi yomsebenzi owenziwe, owamyala yona.
Izimpawu zokunakwa
Ngisho noma uke waphila impilo ende kakhulu emshadweni, usetshenzisiwe futhi uboshwe isikhathi eside komunye nomunye, ngakho konke okufanayo kumtshele mayelana nokukhangisa kwakhe kanye nobulili. Uma umuntu eqala ukushintsha, ngakho-ke akazizwa emukelwa futhi ucansi emndenini, kukhona ukungabi nalutho, kamuva okugcwele ukuhlukumezeka. Ungavumeli ukuncoma, kumthande othandekayo wakho. Uzokwazi ukuthi udinga futhi ngeke uphule umshado wakho osungulwe.
Ukubaluleka kwezeluleko
Umuntu wangempela kufanele aqaphele ukuthi nguye oholayo, hhayi owesifazane wakhe. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kumadoda! Mnike ukuba abe yinhloko yomndeni, uxhumane naye ezindabeni ezibalulekile, cabanga ngemibono yakhe. Lokhu kwandisa kakhulu ukubaluleka kwamadoda. Uma owesifazane ecela usizo lwakhe, khona-ke uyamethemba ekuxazululeni inkinga. Phela, awukwazi ukusebenzisa iseluleko, kodwa kufanele nakanjani ucele umbono wakho. Injabulo kuwe emshadweni!