Kule minyaka yobudala, lo muntu, njengomthetho, wabamba umuntu, wenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo, wafinyelela ebhizinisini eliphezulu, isikhundla sakhe sezezimali sizinzile. Ngokuphindaphindiwe ukucabangela ukuzikhethela kwakhe kanye namandla akhe konke kuvunyelwe. Futhi-ke ubonakala! "Iqabunga elungile", elingenacala, lingenalutho, alikwazi futhi alikwazi. Uthando lwakhe kuphela luzomenza abe umuntu, kuphela ongamnika konke! Futhi yini eyenza intombazanyana, owesifazane ozimisele ukuxhumanisa isiphetho sakhe nomuntu omdala kunabo? Uthando? Kunalokho, umuzwa wokulondeka, ukuqiniseka, ithemba lokuphila okungcono.
Inhlalakahle yezinto ezibonakalayo, njengombuso, isimo sezenhlalakahle esiphakeme, okuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila komlingani kwenza ukuhluleka kutholakale eminyakeni yakhe eqinile, engabalulekile. Futhi yiminyaka yobudala engumuntu oneminyaka engu-40-45 ubudala! Kuyindaba ehlukile uma owesifazane osemusha, okwamanje ehlangene nokuphila, eshada nendoda eningi, emdala kakhulu kunayo. Lapha singakhuluma ngothando olwedlula umama, umhlatshelo. Izifo, indlela ethile yokuphila, isikhathi eside eside, izinguquko zesimo somuntu ekugcineni, ekugcineni - owesifazane ulungele lokhu, futhi uthando olukhulu kuphela luzomsiza ukuba akhuthazelele zonke izinkinga futhi ajabule.
Futhi lokhu kunikeza isizathu sokuthi uthando lungenzeka umahluko omkhulu weminyaka. Lo mbhangqwana, lapho abalingani abahlanganyela khona umahluko omkhulu weminyaka yobudala, uhlale unesithakazelo. Ikakhulu uma owesifazane ekhulile kunomuntu. Umlando uyazi izibonelo eziningi zobuhlobo bomshado obude nomlingani owesifazane ovuthiwe onomfana. Kodwa yiqiniso ukuthi lezi zibonelo ziphawulwe futhi zilandiswa, okubonisa ukungaboni kahle kwalesi simo. Lapha, imvelo ayikho ohlangothini lwabesifazane: ukulinganiselwa kweminyaka yobudala, izinguquko zangaphandle ezihlobene nokudala.
Kuyabonakala, eqinisweni, abesifazane baqala ukudala kunabo ontanga - amadoda. (Ngokwehluleka, kufanele kuthiwa manje lo mthetho uqhubeka uphulwa ngenxa yezimpumelelo ze-cosmetology nokuhlinzwa kweplastiki). Uma kunomuntu ohlukile "indoda ikhulile" owesifazane uvame ukuba ngumncane futhi akhangele, ngakho-ke umahluko "owesifazane ekhulile" - umlingani kufanele abe nezinzuzo eziningi (asikhulumi ngemali, kungokwothando, hhayi nge-alfonsizme).
Isitayela, i-charm, i-charisma ihlukanisa owesifazane ongavamile, ngokwanele, lokhu kungadonsela, intshisekelo insizwa. Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi lo mlingani omdala kunokuba yena, njengomthetho, khetha amadoda angama-infancy. Kodwa kunjalo? Izibonelo zamadoda amancane aphumelelayo futhi azimele abakhetha abesifazane abavuthiwe, bathi isipiliyoni sokuphila, ukuzimela, ukukwazi ukuzwa nokuqonda ngezinye izikhathi kubaluleka ngaphezu kwentsha. Futhi ukhetho lwabo, kunalokho, likhuluma ngokungenamkhawulo, inkululeko yangaphakathi, kunokungavuthi okungokomoya. Kukhona uthando olunomthelela eminyakeni, kepha lulalela imithetho efanayo njengothando lwaontanga. Uthando luhlala luthando njalo.