Ubulili, mhlawumbe, ngeke bushintshe impilo yakho, ukuxazulula izinkinga, ngeke kukuvumele ungene emfihliyweni yendawo yonke. Kodwa nokho, ngenkathi embi, kungukuthi, niyabo, ukuhlunga. Ikakhulu uma umlingani, ngokuyisisekelo, engekho: futhi ehloniphekile, futhi enakekelayo, futhi uyathanda. Kodwa kwenzeka kanjani ekamelweni lokulala, uqala ukucabanga ngemibhede ehlukene. Yisiphi isizathu "sokungahambisani"?
1. Ungase ujikeleze ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene
Kuwukuqala kokubheka kubonakala sengathi uthando alukho imingcele nezithiyo. Ngobusuku obuncane bokuthandana ekuqaleni kokuphola, cishe ngeke udinga izimbali nolwazi lukaShakespeare ekuqaleni. Kodwa ngokuqhubekayo umehluko emfundweni, ukukhuliswa, inkolo ingasho ngokungaqiniseki izwi layo elinzima ekuthuthukiseni ubuhlobo bakho.
USergei waya eFrance. Ngesinye isikhathi e-cafe wahlangana nowesifazane. Umfana omuhle wathinta umfazi waseFrance futhi, njengenjwayelo kuleli zwe elimangalisayo, lona wesifazane ngokwakhe wanquma konke. Bafika endlini yakhe, kwakungekho lutho lokukhuluma ngalo. Owesifazane ongumFulentshi wayengazi isiRussia, uSergei wayazi isiFulentshi kuphela kumqulu we-movie "Three Musketeers". Sasiya ocansini kuqala engadini, bese ekhishini etafuleni, phansi ngendawo yokucima umlilo, ekamelweni lokulala embhede ... Ngosuku lwesibili, lo mfana akazange aqaphele: wamangala ukuthola ukuthi ucansi olulodwa ukuze uthole injabulo ephelele akwanele.
2. Ifoni encane
Ngezikhathi ezithile, ngamunye wethu uphaqelekile okuthile futhi, ukuphakamisa kuleso sikhundla "somthetho womuntu siqu," uzama ukungaphuli kanye nemithetho yonke emisiwe. Ngokuvamile kungathinta kakhulu ubudlelwano bobulili obuhlukile.
U-Irina - intombazane evelele, amadoda ayemlalela njalo, futhi angakwazi ukukhetha abazofuna indawo yabo. Ngalobu busuku ukukhethwa kwehle kwawela phezu kwe-brunette ende ende. Wambheka ngamehlo afanayo, lapho i-sweet languor isakazeka kuwo wonke umzimba wayo. Ngemva kwamahora ambalwa balala embhedeni. Ukuqeda izingubo zakhe, wambamba, wamanga ... njalo, engalokothi ayeke, noma kuphi ... nje hhayi ezindebeni.
U-Irina wacabanga ukuthi ekushiseni kwesifiso sokuqala kuze kube yilapho lo mthando ungakafiki. Kodwa ngosuku lwesibili baphinde benza ngaphandle kokumanga. Okwesithathu, wasusa ngokuqinile intombazane enamathela kuye futhi wachaza ukuthi akakaze amanga izindebe zakhe, ezinjalo izimiso zakhe. U-Irina wayengenakukhetha kodwa ukushiya umuntu ompofu yedwa ngemigomo yakhe.
3. Ngaphandle Kokulindela
Sonke siza ekamelweni kanye nemithwalo yokuhlangenwe nakho okudlule. Umthandi wakho wangaphambili ukhonjiswe uma ukhona, futhi manje usebenzisa ngokuzenzakalelayo leli qhinga kumlingani omusha. Uyaqinisekiswa: uma udlule isikhathi sokugcina, uzodlula "nge-bang" futhi kulokhu.
U-Andrew abathandekayo besifazane, abathandekayo ukwenza izipho kubo, baphathe izandla futhi bajabule embhedeni. Ngendodakazi yakhe yangaphambili, wazama zonke izinhlobo zobulili, kodwa ikakhulukazi yaqala lapho eqinisa iziqhwa zakhe ngezandla zakhe, ekhishwa ngonya ukuba angene. U-Andrew usetshenziselwa lokhu simo sokuphila ngokocansi ukuthi wenza okufanayo nentombazane yakhe entsha. Wamangala ukuthi le ntombazane ayizange ithathe isisusa esinamandla. Ekhala ngokumangala, wamxosha kuye, futhi, njengoba esenikeze konke okucabanga ngaye ngokwakhe nangokweqisa kwakhe, waphuma. Ithuba lokuvuselela u-Andrei lingazange linikezwe.
4. Okuthile akulungile
Uma, kusukela ekuqaleni, into ecasulayo kumlingani wakho ikucasula, ungazijabulisi ngomcabango wokuthi uzodlula. Ngokuphambene nalokho, kuyokhula futhi, ekugcineni, ivimbele yonke imininingwana yayo.
U-Ella wahlangana ebhasini nomuntu omuhle. Baphuza ubhiya, bakhuluma. I-interlocutor yayinhle futhi imnandi. U-Ella wanquma-kungani kungenjalo, ngoba wayengakaze abe nendoda isikhathi eside kangaka. Banga embhedeni, esitebhisini, bekhala lapho u-Ella ezama ukufaka isihluthulelo ekukhiweni, ekhanga egumbini ... waze wahlanza. U-Ella wabona izinyawo zakhe. Izinyawo ezincane eziyinqaba zazimangalisayo ngobukhulu. Ubulili abusebenzanga.
5. Bheka kwenye indawo
Ucabanga ukuthi kuwe ubulili bobulili bomuntu siqu kwaze kwaba yilapho belahlekelwa yinto ekhangayo ngaphambili? Usheshe ukubhala lokhu ngenxa yobudala, ukukhathala, umsebenzi omatasa kanye nerekhodi ende yokuhlala ndawonye. Futhi mhlawumbe isizathu sihluke kakhulu? Mhlawumbe ukukhanga kwakho akulahlekelwa nhlobo, kodwa umuntu osebenza naye?
U-Anna wayemthanda kakhulu umyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Okungenani, ngakho kubonakala kuye. Njalo, lapho ecabanga ngaye, wakhumbula indoda enamandla, umgijimi, ezama ukuphumelela nokuphumelela. Uyakhumbula ukuthi wamvikela kanjani kuma-hooligans, ukuthi wathwala kanjani izandla zakhe esibhedlela ngesikhathi ephula umlenze wakhe, ukuthi wathengisa kanjani ukubukela kwakhe kuphela ukuze amthengise isipho sokuzalwa. Yeka indlela ayemthanda ngayo!
Uthandiwe? ... Ukuqagela okungazelelwe ku-Anna kwamangala. Futhi uthanda ubani manje? I-flavby, i-bald ubhiya othandekayo, enombono oqothukile ojikelezayo efulethini futhi elinde, lapho eya emgqeni olandelayo ebhokisini, uzomkhonza ipuleti yesoseji. U-Anna wabheka ngokumangalisa kulokho okwakuthiwa umyeni wakhe, futhi wabona ukuthi kwakunguye yena, hhayi u-HE, hhayi lowo ayemthanda kakhulu!