Ukunqoba umuntu wobuzwe obuhlukile yiphupho cishe cishe wonke owesifazane nentombazane. Kodwa ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani kahle, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ushiye uphawu enhliziyweni yakhe, hhayi bonke abesifazane abazi. Lapha, kubalulekile ukuqaphela iqiniso lokuthi kuzo zonke izingxenye zomhlaba wonke abantu banezici zabo siqu, futhi ukulingana nabo kuyadingeka, njalo kusekelwe kubo. Ngakho-ke, ungayinqoba kanjani izinhliziyo zabantu, uma ukhona ezingxenyeni ezahlukene zomhlaba?
Uma ulethwa eChina phakathi nohambo lwakho lomhlaba wonke, lungele ukuthi indoda izokudonsa kusuka ekhanda kuya enzwaneni olwandle. Lokhu kubonisa ukuthi inhliziyo yakhe ingeyakho ngokuphelele, futhi ulungele ukuhlanganyela nawe impilo yakhe yonke esele. Ngokukodwa, uthi uyakunikela ukuba umshade naye - asisekho, hhayi ngaphansi. Kodwa ukuzwa inani elikhulu lokuncoma ekhelini lakho, ngenkathi e-Argentina noma eTaiwan, uthi usuthande ngempela lo muntu.
Okungavumi kakhulu kunabantu basePhilippine. Uma beyithanda le nkosikazi, bacabanga ukuthi kufanelekile ukuyithinta ubuso bayo ngezinyawo. Inkulumo engavamile yesilisa yokuhawukela, kodwa akufanelekile. Ngoba emazweni ahlukene - amasiko namasiko ahlukene. Uma, emazweni afana ne-Algeria, iNigeria noma i-Mali, insizwa ethile yafika kuwe futhi phakathi nengxoxo, ibambe isandla sakho, yaqala ukukhanda ngesandla sakho kancane, uyazi, usulele emphefumulweni wakhe. Uma ufuna ukuphindaphinda, yenza okufanayo ngesandla sakhe. Lapha unesivumelwano esivumelwaneni, into eyinhloko ukuthi, ngaphambi kokwenza lokhu, qiniseka ukuthi uthanda lo muntu.
Phakathi kwamadoda ase-Arab, ukuzwelana ngocansi wesifazane kuhambisane nomdlalo wokubukeka noma ukuthinta kwesandla sakho. Kodwa eMalta noma eKhupro, ukudlala ngothando ngukubheka i-trump enkulu yokunqoba inhliziyo yomuntu.
Esinye isici esibalulekile ekukhohliseni ngamazwe ukubonakala komuntu wesifazane. Kuvela ukuthi ezingxenyeni ezihlukene zomhlaba ubuhle bakhe obukhethekile, ubuhle besifazane kanye nezici zokubukeka ziyabaluleka. Ngokwesibonelo, ezingxenyeni ezinjalo zezwe njengeThailand, i-China noma i-Indonesia, intombazane enesikhumba esimhlophe inganqoba inhliziyo yomuntu. Kusho ukuthi ukuvakashela lawa mazwe, akudingekile ukuthi ube ne-tan yemfashini. Kukhona abesifazane abalulekayo abangekho. Futhi kulawa mazwe, ukufunwa okukhulu kudlula amantombazane amancane futhi amancane. Kodwa mncane ngesilinganiso esithile segama. Owesifazane omncane kakhulu kulezi zindilinga zomhlaba ubonakala njengowesifazane ogula njalo.
Iqiniso elithakazelisayo ukuthi emazweni ase-Afrika, ubuhle bemvelo kanye nokukhangisa kwabesifazane akufanele neze bazise. Ukunqoba le ndoda lapha kungenzeka kuphela ngegqoka eliqhakazile, ukwakheka nokufashisa kuleli hairstyle lezwe. Futhi, ngabantu base-Afrika abanake kakhulu ukunakekelwa kwentombazane kanye nokuzibonakalisa lapho bekhetha intombazane. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba uye emhlanganweni "nomuntu wakho wase-Afrika", hlaziya zonke izenzo zakho, futhi wenze u-gait wakho uphelele futhi ujabulise. EBrazil nase-Argentina, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphoqa inhliziyo yomuntu kwinethiwekhi yakhe i-frank decollete. Kula mazwe, amadoda ayakwazisa amabele amahle namadumasa. Ngakho-ke, uma ungumnikazi walokho, nonke nina makhadi amacilongo ezandleni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, konke kufanele kukhunjulwe nokuthi emazweni ahlukene nasemadolobheni kukhona amasu akhethekile namasu okuphola. Ukwenza uhlelo olukhethekile, olulungile, ngeke uthola kunzima ukujwayelana nomunye umlenze wangaphandle. Isibonelo, e-Canada bars, indlela engcono kakhulu yokumazi umuntu uma uvula ilebula ebhodleleni lokuphuza utshwala. Kulo lizwe, lesi senzo sithi usuke ukhululekile futhi usesesikhathini esisebenzayo. E-Asia, owesifazane onamandla kufanele aqaphele intombazane egqoke ukuze intamo yakhe ibonakale ngokuphelele. Ku-Asians, intamo yesifazane ibonisa konke ubuhle besifazane nokucwengiswa.
Konke e-Argentina efanayo noma e-Brazil, ukunakwa kwamadoda akudonsa kuphela amabele wabesifazane, kodwa nokugqoka izingubo. Lapha, ukukhetha okuhle kuyoba yingubo eguquguqukayo futhi elula. Ngaphambi kokuphelela okunjalo kwemfashini, akukho mmeleli walawa mazwe angahlala. Ngendlela, qaphela ukuthi yibafana base-Argentina nabaseBrazil abangakwazi ukukuanga ngosuku lokuqala.
Ukunqoba indoda emazweni afana ne-Indiya, i-China kanye ne-Arab Emirates ingaba ngosizo lwe-make-up ekahle futhi enhle. Amadoda, abameleli bala mazwe, isimo sengqondo esibucayi nesidinga izinto ezinjalo. Ngakho-ke, lapho ufike kula mazwe angenhla, kuqala ukuvakashela ubuhle bendawo. Emva kwalokho ungaphuma ngokuphepha endleleni yakho yokuzingela abantu bezinhlobo zesilisa.
Uma unquma ukunqoba ingxenye yesilisa yabantu baseMelika, ungakhohlwa ngomdwebo (ngisho noma nje okwesikhashana). Umama waseMelika ucabangela ukuba khona komdwebo emzimbeni wesifazane kakhulu kakhulu. Indawo enhle kakhulu yokudweba i-tattoo Kunconywa ukuba ukhethe isikhumba esungeze inkinobho yesisu, ihlombe, umhlane noma isifuba. Unqabe ubuhle obunjalo bungamphuphuthekisa umuntu kuphela. Kodwa amadoda asePolynesia awanandaba namantombazane adansa kakhulu. Ngakho kuyoba usizo ngaphambi kokuba uye kuleli zwe ukuze ufunde izifundo zokudansa.
Ngakho sihlola izici eziyinhloko zendlela ezingxenyeni ezahlukene zezwe onganqoba ngayo inhliziyo yomuntu. Manje unayo wonke amakhadi esesandleni, ngakho-ke ungahamba ngokuphepha ukuze uhlasele isigamu sakho sesibili, nomaphi nomaphi lapho ungakhona khona. Futhi sifisa wena inhlanhla!