Unesithakazelo
Kubonakala kanjani? Ingane igxilile, ibukeka ngokucophelela futhi ngentshiseko kwenye into (ngokuvamile into). Uyancipha futhi aphakamise amashiya akhe, umlomo wakhe ulula kancane, angabheka kusuka esihlokweni abheka kuso, kwenye into, kodwa futhi ubuyela kuye. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Yiqiniso, ukuba udlale ukuhlehlisa akuyona into ethakazelisayo, kodwa empaneni kuyoba into engavamile. Nweba amathuba ayo - vumela ukuthi kuthinte into entsha bese uyidlala uma iphephile. Khuthaza isithakazelo sakhe ekuhlangenwe nakho okusha nokuhlangenwe nakho, ukuphawula kukho konke okwenzekayo, ngisho noma ukhumbuza umkhulumeli wezemidlalo: "Lokhu kuyishaya elisha, liduma uma ngigonsa kanje. Ake siwuthathe esibambini bese siwuzungeza. " Ukufunda umhlaba kanye nawe kuphuthuma ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yengane. Uma ingane ingabhekiseli kuphela ithoyizi, kepha iyafinyelela kuyo, kuyadingeka ukuthola ulwazi oluthe xaxa, okusho ukuthi isikhathi sokuqokwa okusebenzayo siqala.
Uthukuthele
Kubonakala kanjani? Amakhonksi omlomo anciphisa, kokubili amashiya ahlanganiswa "nendlu" futhi ayamangalisa, ukuthuthumela, mhlawumbe sekuvele kuluhlaza. Lezi zibonakaliso zibonisa ukuthi umntwana uphelelwe amandla futhi, mhlawumbe, ukhululeke kakhulu, ukuze uma ungaphenduli, uzothola izikhalazo nokukhala okungaxhunyiwe. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Qinisekisa ukuthula nokuthula. Inani elikhulu lokubonakala, ukuhamba okude noma izihlobo ezisebenzayo - konke lokhu kungabangela izinyembezi nokukhathazeka. Okokuqala, vele uthathe ezandleni zakho bese ubhekana kahle futhi ucindezele ngokucophelela esifubeni sakho - ukuzulazula kwesigqi esincane, ukusikhipha okulula kanye nomphakathi womama kuzomsiza ingane ukuba ithule.
Uphuthelwa
Kubonakala kanjani? Udinga ukunakekelwa: uyakhala, ahlaba, ahlabe futhi ahlasele, aphonsa amathoyizi phansi. Ukumomotheka nokuhleka, uma uyinake noma uthatha ithoyizi ejected kusuka phansi. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Kuhle ukuthi ingane icela ukunakwa kwakho: kusho ukuthi kukhona uxhumano oluqinile phakathi kwakho. Njengoba ubuchopho buqala, isidingo sezingane ngezindlela ezintsha zokuvuselela sanda. Uma ezinyangeni ezingu-3 ingane ingakwazi ukuchitha amahora nje ibheke ubuso bakho noma idwebe ithawula, bese kuthi ezinyangeni ezimbalwa kuzothatha inani elikhulu kakhulu lezinto ezithakazelisayo. Mnike into elula, kodwa ikuvumela ukuba udlale ngezindlela eziningi. I-one kanye neyodwa efanayo ikwazi ukugoba, ukuzwakala noma "ukugijima" kusukela embhedeni embhedeni, futhi i-handkerchief ekhanyayo ibe ibhola, "fly" noma imane nje. Hlabelela ingoma ejwayelekile - kodwa ushintshe isigqi sayo, isivinini sokusebenza nesigama sezwi, engeza amagama amasha. Akudingeki ukuba ube ngumthombo kuphela wokuzijabulisa - inyane elivele lisuka ezinyangeni ezingu-4 idinga isikhathi samahhala ukuze nje ufunde lokho akubonayo nxazonke.
Uthukuthele
Kubonakala kanjani? Ubuso bomntwana bubomvu, isikhathi sakhe, amehlo akhe aphelelwe yisikhathi, uyakhala ngokuzwakalayo futhi enqaba ukuxhumana naye-uyakunxusa noma akushaya.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Imizwelo yezingane iseselula, ubuchopho babo abukakhulumi ngezincazelo eziyinkimbinkimbi, njengokuthi, umhawu noma amahloni. Uma uqinisekile ukuthi ingane ayilimazi, ingenayo amakhaza, ikhala lakhe alibekiwe, mhlawumbe uyathukuthela ngoba ulambile noma ukhathele ukubonakala. Khona-ke izindlela ezilula zizosiza: ukondla, ukhukhume futhi usize ulale. Gcoba umntwana - futhi akukho cala ungazwakali, ngisho noma ujabule kakhulu. Sishaya, sithuthele kancane, swayipha into ethile ukuphoqa: ngisho "sh-sh-sh ..." noma "shh, kulungile" kuyokwanela. Ungaziqali izingxabano ezingu-8 ezinjenge-Vanya, mhlawumbe, elambile, manje umama uzocabangela okuthile.
Mama, ngibhekile kuwe!
Izingane zifunda ngokucophelela ubuso bakho ngesizathu - ngakho ufunda umhlaba. Nika isandla kulokhu! Ukuziphatha kwakho kuthinta ngokuqondile ukuthuthukiswa kwayo. Nazi izindlela zokwenza kube ngempumelelo kakhulu. "Amehlo esweni." Ukuxhumana kwamehlo kuyisici esibaluleke kakhulu sokuxhumana nokuqonda okuphakathi komama nengane. Ungabufihli amehlo akho, ngokuvamile uvumela ingane ikubuke isikhathi eside. "Sinesibindi."
Ingane ikopisha ubuso bakho ngokungazi. Ngaphambi kokungena naye endaweni entsha noma okokuqala ukuhlangabezana nomfana, kunengqondo kakhulu ukukhombisa isibindi nesibindi. Uzokuphinda - futhi ukukopisha "ithemba lakho" kuzokhipha ukwesaba kwakhe.
Kuyini lokhu? "
Khuluma imizwelo yakho. Dlala nomntwana: menzele ubuso obuhlukile bese ungitshela ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lokukhuluma. Bonisa injabulo, ukudabuka, ukuhleka noma ukwesaba nokuphawula: "Umama uhleka", "Umama uyajabula", "Umama uyakhala". Ngokushesha lapho uqala ukufundisa ingane, ngokushesha uzoqala ukuqaphela imizwelo ngokwayo ngalokhu kungenziwa, "yenza ngokushesha futhi ngokuthula.
Uyesaba
Kubonakala kanjani? Amehlo avulekile, ukubukeka kuhamba, izimbambo nezinyosi zingathuthumela kancane. Mhlawumbe ingane iduma futhi ayihambanga, noma mhlawumbe isivele ikhala. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Ungumuntu omncanyana kakhulu ongakwazi ukuzinza yena, futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, akakwazi ukuthola ukuthi yini ngempela eyamesabayo. Isignali yemoto evamile izwakala njengomsindo wangemuva kuwe - ngoba uyazi ukuthi iyisignali yemoto, futhi ingane eyayizwa okokuqala ingethusa. Thatha umntwana ezandleni zakho bese uchaza ukuthi kwenzekani ngempela okwesabayo. Ngisho noma engaqondi amagama akho, izwi lakho elizolile lizomtshela ukuthi konke kuhle.
Uzizwa engakhululekile
Kubonakala kanjani? Ingane ikhala, ukukhala ngokuvamile kuqala ngokuzumayo, ubuso bubomvu, bunzima, imilenze iyashukumisela futhi icindezela isisu. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Lesi sithombe sivame ukuhlukunyezwa kwama-colic - ubuhlungu esiswini esiswini. Ukusikhipha kahle komzimba, ukuvivinya umzimba "ibhayisikili" kusiza ukukhululwa kwegesi. Ubuhlungu be-colic buyancipha kusukela ekuvezeni ekushiseni - ungabeka i-diaper esiswini somntwana, enotshiswe ngensimbi eshisayo, uyisigubhe esihlahleni noma uvele uphelele ezandleni zakho, ucindezela wena noma ubeke isisu sakho ehlombe lakho. Uma isigamu sehora emva kwezinyathelo ezithathwe umntwana aziphuculanga futhi ukukhala kuyanda - kungcono ukubonana nodokotela.
Uyathokoza
Kubonakala kanjani? Ebusweni bomntwana kunkulu, ujabule (futhi uyathinteka kakhulu!) Thumela. Uzulazula izingalo nemilenze yakhe, ukuthungatha into ethile, izinkulumo ze "ingxoxo" zivame ukukhuphuka. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Buka futhi ujabulele umbukiso omuhle. Ukusekela isimo esihle somntwana, ukumomotheka, ukuphuza phansi - lokhu kuzomnika ukuzethemba futhi kuzothuthukisa isifiso sokuhlanganyela nawe injabulo. Uthanda ukubona ukuthi ukumomotheka kwakhe kuthola impendulo enhle kangaka. Lapho uneminyaka engaba ngu-8-9 izinyanga umntwana uthola umuzwa wokuziphendulela kwezinto, okungukuthi, uyaqonda ukuthi into ikhona ngisho noma engayiboni okwamanje. Lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuqala ukudlala nomntwana "ku-ku". Ungazifihla, noma ungafihla amathoyizi. Imidlalo enjalo iyoyithokozisa kakhulu. Lokhu kuyindlela enhle yokuqinisekisa ingane uma ekhala ngokungahlali.