Ucabanga ukuthi ukuphakama kwakho, isisindo nesikhumba kwakho kugxila kuwe kuphela, mhlawumbe, nabathandekayo bakho? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyini! Kuvela ukuthi le datha ye-anthropological ingakutshela ngezici zakho siqu kunoma yimuphi umuntu oxhumana nawe. Futhi, ngokuphambene, ngokufunda "ukufunda" umthethosisekelo, ungakwazi kalula ukubikezela ukuthi umlingani wakho uzoziphatha kanjani kulokhu noma kulesi simo. Lesi sihloko sizokufundisa indlela yokunquma ukuthi isimo somuntu sibukeka kanjani.
KUNGANI AMAKHOLI AMAKHODI?
Ukukhula yisici esivelele kakhulu sokubukeka. Yiqiniso, ukuhlala phakathi kokulingana kanye nekhwalithi yengqondo nobude bomzimba akudalulwe. Noma kunjalo, ukukhula kuthinta kakhulu umlingiswa womuntu, ikhono lakhe lokuxhumana. Isibonelo, indoda ekhulayo ephezulu iseza "isisindo". Futhi ngokuphambene nalokho.
Kungani abantu bengabonakali ngokubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni, ngokuvamile, kuyaqondakala. Abantu bavela ezimweni lapho ukukhula kwakuhlotshaniswa namandla. Futhi lokhu kwakubhekwa kubalulekile, ikakhulukazi kubantu. Ukubamba, ukuthola, ukunqoba, ukuvikela - lezi yizinhloso abantu abaye bazama ukuzifeza kuzo zonke izikhathi, futhi ukuthi, ezikhathini zasendulo, bekungatholakala kuphela ngosizo lwamandla.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ubudlelwane obuphakathi kokukhula namandla kuguquliwe ngandlela-thile. Akuyona ize ukuthi noma yimuphi ingane iphupha ukuba ikhule ngokushesha ukuze ibe mkhulu, okungukuthi, hhayi kuphela umnikazi wamandla omzimba, kodwa futhi nelungu eligcwele lomphakathi. Futhi isifiso sokuba abafana bakhule ngokushesha kuyisici esingaphezu kwamantombazane. Ukugxila ekukhuleni kwavela kontanga kudala ukuhlukumeza okubi kakhulu. Yingakho amadoda aphansi kakhulu abhekene nezici ezinjengomqondo ophakeme wenjongo, okunye okukhulunywa ngakho (khumbula ukuthi kutholakala kanjani amabhangqa ahlekisayo: unomuntu omfushane onesikhwama esikhulu, uyisibonelo eside) futhi unomzwelo ojulile ekuhlolweni kwabanye.
Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi i-statics evamile iyakufakazela ukuthi amadoda aphansi abe abathandi abamangalisayo. Yebo! Indoda encane e-triad yobushakama ixoxa ngokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ingatholwa amahomoni akhe, njengoba amantombazane ekhetha ukuhlangana nabafana abade. Uqala ukubhekisisa umlingani, ukulwa nalo ngomqondo ongokoqobo nangokomqondo, ukuze afunde ukungabi nasenhliziyweni nokulahla nokuthola izindlela ezintsha, eziyinkimbinkimbi zokunqoba izinhliziyo zamantombazane. Kuvela ukuthi, ngokuqala emibhalweni engcono kakhulu ngenxa yokukhula kwabo, "ama-shorties" ngezinye izikhathi azuze ukusheshisa okukhulu okumangalisayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunesikhathi esiningi sabantu abanjalo ekuthuthukisweni kwezenhlalakahle. Nakuba abantu abathandekayo begijimela emihlanganweni engapheli, "ama-shorties" ahlanganiswe ukutadisha, ukusebenza. Kodwa isimo sengqondo sabesifazane ekukhuleni sihluke kakhulu. Uma lona wesifazane engasebenzi kule podium, ukukhula kwakhe okuphezulu kungamenza abe ngumuntu ongenayo. Amadoda ayenqikaza kakhulu (okunjalo imvelo yawo) ukuqaphela ukubusa kwabesifazane, ngisho nakupharamitha enjengokukhula. Futhi abesifazane bafunde ukuthi ukukhula okuphezulu kunciphisa amathuba abo okungena emkhakheni wokubukeka kwesigamu esiphezulu sabantu.
♦ Yiqiniso, ukukhula akukwazi ukulungiswa, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi usebenze. Abesifazane abaphezulu, abanomphathi wokukhula nenja ehleliwe, akufanele bagqoke enkonzweni yezinwele zezinwele. Kungani umkhiqizo ulimele? Zama ukukhetha izingubo kwiphethini yesigaba esiphambene futhi ubambelele kahle izinwele.
♦ Abesifazane besimiso esincane, eduze kwabo bonke abaNapoleon yiBonaparte, kufanele basebenzise "ikhalenda" yabo - ukugqoka izicathulo ngezithende eziphakeme, "i-la Babette" futhi igqoke ngezinkinobho zihlelwe ngokuqondile, njll.
KANYE IZIKHILA ZAMANZI?
Ngokomzimba womuntu, uhlobo lomzimba wakhe lungahlukana ngezigaba ezintathu zabantu. Owokuqala uhlobo lwama-asthenic, oluphakeme, oluthandekile, olunamapulangwe amancane, olunamalungu amakhulu. Owesibini - abantu be-physique evulekile, bathambekele ekugcwaleni. Zivame ukuba neziqu ezincane, ngesisu esikhulu. Zinezinwele ezithambile, ezingokwemvelo, ezingakapheli isikhathi zingahle zibe nomyalelo wokuthi zibe mncane. Izazi zabo zengqondo zibiza ngokuthi "picnics". Isigaba sesithathu sibandakanya ukuqina okubanzi, okubanzi, nge-musculature ethuthukile yomuntu ngamunye. Izazi zabo zengqondo zibiza ngokuthi "amageyimu". Uma uzothola uhlobo lomzimba ngeso, cabanga ngezici "zokuzingela kuzwelonke" kokudla. Lowo owutholile ilungu leqembu lesibili, kungenzeka kube ngumuntu wezakhi zofuzo kusukela kokuqala. Futhi ngokuphambene nalokho.
Umthethosisekelo uhlobene ngqo ... nokugula ngengqondo. Kubonakala sengathi kubantu abanempilo enhle abanengqondo yokuzicabangela ingqondo.
♦ Thatha, isibonelo, abantu abane-"schizophrenic touch". Ngokuhlanganiswa okuhle kwezimo, ngamunye wabo uphila ngokuphepha futhi esebenza, kodwa ezimweni ezinzima, izimo ezibucayi kubonisa ukusabela kwe-schizophrenic. Laba bahloniphekile, ngokusho kwezingqondo zengqondo, bashiye isigaba se-asthenics. Umlingiswa odumile emhlabeni wonke u-Athos ungummeleli ocacile we-schizoids. Okunye ukuhlanganiswa, ukuthambekela kokucabanga okungacacile kuyinto yonke.
♦ Uma uyingxenye ye "picnics", khona-ke ngokusho okungaqondakali kwengqondo ongayibheka njenge-cycloid. Ngokuvamile abantu balesi sigaba bayajabula futhi baxhumana nabo. (Uma udweba ukufana okufanayo, ungabiza ngokuthi "epikinikini" i-Porthos.) Kodwa uma ukucindezeleka sekuhambile, kuqhubeka umjikelezo obekwe kuso. Khona-ke uphinde uguqule emjikelezweni womzwelo omuhle.
♦ Futhi, ekugcineni, "ama-athletics" ayingxenye yezinhlobo ze-viscose. Okungukuthi, laba bantu kungenzeka ukuthi bangagula ngokwengqondo. Futhi uma kwenzeka, kufana nesimo sokufa kwesithuthwane. Abagijimi banzima ukujwayela izimo ezintsha, balinganisela ekucabangeni kwabo.
Kodwa izici zokuziphatha? Konke kulula. Phendula, ungacabangi, ucabanga kanjani ukhathazekile, ukonakala, isifo? Unemvelo enhle, ejabulisayo, enenhlalo? Mhlawumbe iningi lethu isilwane sokuqala sincane, kanti sesibili - emzimbeni.
Sithole imibono enjalo evela okhokho abakude ababekholelwa ukuthi owesifazane ongumdonshe unempilo enhle futhi engenakunqotshwa, ngakho-ke uyakwazi ukuzala futhi akhule inzalo egcwele. Indoda ekhulile yayihlotshaniswa nokuchuma nokuthula endlini. Ubuciko besikhathi esifanayo esidala kwakuyisibonakaliso sokungabi namandla nokuphansi, uhlobo oluthile lomshado "wemvelo".
Manje sizofingqa. Lapho uhlangene nomxhumanisi, okunye kunomthelela ekugcwaleni, kunokuba ugxilile, ungakwazi ukuziphatha kalula futhi ukhululekile. Kusukela kumuntu onjalo umuntu akanakulindela ukukhwabanisa noma "ukushaya emuva." Uma umlingani wakho elula kakhulu, hlangana futhi uxoxisane ngesineke nangokucophelela. Ukuxhumana nabalingiswa, ulayishwe "ama-Fifty-Fifty", khetha uhlobo oluthile lomugqa ophakathi phakathi kokubili okukhulunywe ngenhla.
AH, SHEARS!
Njengoba kungekho iphethini elifanayo ezintendeni zezandla, ngakho-ke awekho amabili amabili ofanayo ezinyawo ezinhlabathini.
♦ Uma unemilenze ende, awukwazi ukufihla isimo sakho sengqondo kwabanye. Wena, cishe, ulindele othandweni ngaphambili, u-serenade futhi uhamba ngaphansi kwenyanga. Ngokuvamile ungakakulungeli ukuxazulula izinkinga ezihlukahlukene futhi uzama ukuthola "emuva" ongayifihla.
♦ Abaphethe imilenze emifushane bavame ukufuna futhi ngokushesha baqhubeke isidlo sokuqala ne-fan entsha. Banamandla kakhulu emhlabathini, futhi abadingi i-drooling ebomvu. Izinkinga kulaba bantu zixazululwa njengoba zifika. Kuyiqiniso, bangalindela izinguquko eziningi zemizwa.
Indlela yokunquma imiphi imilenze 'ogqoke'? Ubude bemilenze bubhekwa njengokwejwayelekile uma kuqhathaniswa nengxenye yokuphakama kowesifazane kanye no-3-8 cm. Uma ubude babo bungaphansi kwengxenye yokuphakama, imilenze ihlukaniswa njengesikhashana. Uma lilingana nobude be-9 cm noma ngaphezulu - obude.
KANYE, OKUHLE, GAIT!
Ukuchaza isimo sokubukeka ngokomzimba, ngezinye izikhathi umuntu uyakhohlwa mayelana nento esemqoka - mayelana ne-gait. Kodwa ukhuluma okuningi! Uma uhamba ukukhubeka, ukusika kancane amasokisi ngaphakathi, abanye bangabona ukuthi unamahloni futhi awujabuli empilweni yakho. Ngisho noma lokhu kuyiqiniso, umuntu akufanele avume abantu abangabazi kulezi zindaba ezingathandeki. Qala ukuthuthukisa izinyathelo ezilula, ezindizayo, futhi ngokushesha kusuka kubalandeli ngeke kube khona ukukhanya ngaphandle! Asikhulumi ngemilenze yamadoda, ngoba ayithwali umthwalo wengqondo we-semantic.