Wonke umuntu empilweni uye wabhekana namaphupho amabi ngokuphindaphindiwe. Baphupha ngokuphelele konke, kokubili abadala kanye nezingane ezincane. Abantu abadala, la maphupho athatha kahle ngokuthula, ekuqaleni kukhona izinkumbulo ezingathandeki, kodwa emva kwesikhathi konke kukhohliwe. Izingane zibhekene nezinkinga ezimbi kakhulu. Abakwazanga ukuthola ukuthi yiyiphi iqiniso, nokuthi iphupho liphi.
Yingakho emva kokuvusa baqhubeka bekhala futhi baqala ukwesaba amakati nezinja abaphupha ngendlela ehle kakhulu. Noma baqala ukwesaba ubumnyama, ngokufika okuvela ngaphansi kwemibhede nakubakhabhinethi, izilo ezihlukahlukene ziphuma. Ezimweni ezinjalo, abazali akudingeki batshele ingane ukuthi izingane ezinhle azizesabi noma yini ukuthi abafana nabamantombazane abakhulu akuyona into enhle yokwesaba. Izindlela ezinjalo zobusuku ziyesaba ukuthi ingane ngeke ilahle, kodwa izakhiwo ezingaphansi kwezinto eziphansi zizothola kalula. Ungahambi ngokushesha kumthandi wezengqondo. Kungcono ukuhlaziya usuku lwengane, ube nesineke bese uzungeza umntwana ngothando nokunakekelwa. Ngemuva kwalokho, kungcono kunokuba abazali bezingane zabo abazi ukuthi ngubani.
Izimbangela zamaphupho amabi
Abaningi bayamangala izimbangela zamaphupho amabi. Khona-ke, bangabizwa yini?
- Izifo. Ngokuvamile zikhona amaphupho angama-night in izifo ezihambisana nokushisa komkhuhlane. Isibonelo: umkhuhlane noma i-ARVI.
- Ukucindezeleka ukukhathazeka. Kungadlulisela umndeni wonke endlini entsha, ukuhlukunyezwa phakathi kwabazali noma ukufa kwe-hamster othandekayo noma i-parrot.
- Imithi. Ezinye izidakamizwa zingabangela ubuthongo obubi, ziyakwazi ukudala ubusuku.
- I-Ostroyaniya ukudla okunamafutha. Lesi sizathu sabonakaliswa ososayensi ngosizo locwaningo, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukunciphisa ukudla kokudla okunamandla nokudla.
- Iphutha. Ukulala embhedeni omncane, oqinile futhi oqothuzayo kuyingozi, ingane, ngokunyakaza kancane kancane iyovuka.
Izincomo zokuvimbela ama-nightmares
Zonke lezi zincomo zilula kubazali abanothando:
- Okokuqala, njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, udinga ukubuyekezwa indawo yokulala yengane. Ukubhekwa kumele kube okunethezeka ngangokunokwenzeka. Akufanele ihlasele ngenkathi ushayela, ibanzi ngokwanele futhi iphansi. I-mattress akufanele ibe nzima kakhulu. Umcengezi we-Blanket kufanele ukhethwe ngenkathi, ingane akufanele ibanda noma ilale lapho ilele. Uma umntwana esaba umnyama, kufanele uqaphele ukukhanya ebusuku, kungaba isibani esincane ebusuku, emile etafuleni lombhede noma encane emdongeni.
- Kuvinjelwe ukubuka ama-movie amahloni ngokuningiliziwe, futhi kufanele ugweme imidwebo lapho kunezilo ezihlukahlukene. Izingane zinengqondo enkulu kakhulu, zonke lezi zilo azodlulisela empilweni yangempela. Bayoba nayo ebumnyameni, ngaphansi kwemibhede, kumafasitela ngemuva kwamakhethini, njll.
- Phakathi nosuku lonke, kubalulekile ukuhlela imidlalo esebenzayo nemidanso yengane. Ngokuchitha wonke amandla akhe, umntwana okhathele ulele ngokushesha futhi enamandla.
- Kusihlwa ababili ukulala kubalulekile ukunciphisa umsebenzi wayo. Funda izindaba, poryvat.Neobhodimo zama ukudala amasiko athile ngaphambi kokulala: ukugeza okuphoqelekile, i-lullaby noma ukubukela uhlelo lwezingane "Spokoyonoichi!". Konke lokhu kuzokusiza ukuzola futhi ulale ingane ukuba ilale.
- I-front kufanele ivuselele igumbi lapho ingane izolala khona. Endaweni egumbini eluthulile, kuningi ithuba lokuphupha okuphukisayo ngezimoto zobusuku.
- Usizo oluhle kakhulu lokubhekana namaphupho amabi neqoqo lakho elizithandayo lomntwana noma umlingo pjazhama. Ngaphambi kokulala, ngitshele ukuthi ungubani ithoyizi elinamahhashi, ukuthi angayinqoba kanjani yonke "babaikas" nokuthi uzoqapha kanjani ubuthongo bakhe obuhle ubusuku bonke. Noma yikuphi ama-pajamas magic anayo, ukuthi uzosivikela kanjani kuzo zonke izingubo zokuhlanza.
- Enye indlela emangalisayo kakhulu evela emaphupheni amabi angaba ngumthandazo ngaphambi kokulala. Umbhalo womkhuleko kufanele ube olula, okungcono, uma usefomini. Ngaphambi kokuqala kwengane kudingekile ukuchaza ukuthi yiziphi izingelosi kanye noNkulunkulu ezinjengokumelwa okuzwakalayo kuye. Khona-ke angakwazi ukulala ngokuqiniseka ukuthi uzokwazi ukuvikela ubusuku obuseduze.
Uma ingane isalokhu iphupho elibi futhi iqala ukubiza unina futhi ikhala, udinga ukuza kuye ekushayeni ucingo lokuqala. Mxhase, ummbambe. Uma engakwazi ukutshela ngephupho lakhe, kuzomele uzame ukuphendula indaba ebalulekile ngokuphela kwesikhathi esihle. Vumela izinyane lizizwe njengeqhawe elikhulu kuye, hhayi isisulu. Khona-ke kufanele umbuyise embhedeni, ubambe futhi uhlale eduze kwakhe. Kubalulekile ukuthi uyazi ukuthi uzomsiza empeleni futhi uyomqonda.
Into esemqoka ukufudumala, ukunakekela, uthando nokuqonda ngokuphathelene nengane. Futhi maduzane konke ukwesaba kwengane kuzoshiya ngaphandle kokulandelela futhi ngeke kusinqobe!