Futhi, eqinisweni, ingabe into enjengale ingenzeka? Umyeni osanda kukhishwa wazama kanzima ukusiza umkakhe futhi wahlanza izitsha, wahlanza, futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, kungabonakala ngisho nangemva kokugeza amasokisi akhe. Futhi umkakhe wayejabule umyeni wakhe ngokuthile okuthakazelisayo, wahlanza konke ukukhanya, wahlanza izingubo zakhe. Bahamba kuphi umoya wabo wokukhuthaza? Mhlawumbe sebeye bajwayele futhi bengasaboni isidingo sokwenza izinto ezinhle komunye nomunye, ukuze bagxile omunye nomunye? Kungani ufakazela noma yini? Wonke umuntu unenkinga nezinkinga zabo siqu, ukuze kuthi uma beye basizana.
Uma umuntu eqala ukuzicabangela yena ngokwakhe, khona-ke uthatha kalula lokho omunye umuntu akwenzayo. Yilokho kuphela, emndenini akekho okhokhelwa lutho kunoma ubani. Kulo mbulunga, akekho ozalelwa ukuhlambalaza phansi, izinsimbi zensimbi futhi angashiyi esitofu izinsuku. Futhi uma uqaphela ukuthi kuyakwazisa futhi kuhlonishwa, khona-ke kukhona kuphela umdlandla walezi zenzo. Abaningi abaqondi ukuthi kungani umuntu kudingeka adumise futhi aqonde izenzo zakhe. Kodwa, uma ucabanga ngalombuzo, kuyacaca ukuthi kumnandi ukuba kabili umuntu enze noma yini uma umuntu emdumisa futhi emkhuthaza.
Kuyasikhathaza kakhulu lapho bethatha umsebenzi kanye nesikhathi esifanele ukuthi abashadile banikezane. Ngemuva kwakho konke, udinga igama elimnandi kuphela, futhi ngokuvamile awutholi lokho kuvunyelwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, isihlamba ngento engenziwanga. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ujwayela izinto ezinhle ngokushesha. Khona-ke wonke umsebenzi wakho kanye nemizamo yakho kuthathwa kalula, futhi ngokuqhubekayo, ubuhlobo buyancipha ukuba kube nokuthula, ukuhlambalaza nokuhlaselwa. Ingabe kunzima kakhulu kumuntu, ngaphambi kokuhlambalaza umkakhe ngento engenziwanga, azi ukuthi kungani lokhu? Mhlawumbe udinga usizo? Mhlawumbe wayekhathele izindaba zemihla ngemihla, ezingapheli futhi zingapheli. Uphilile, akanalo ibhethri elingashintshwa kusukela endala kuya elisha.
Asikhulumi iqiniso lokuthi imisebenzi yowesifazane kufanele isuswe emahlombe akhe futhi ikubizele ukucacisa ngokucacile imisebenzi yomyeni wakhe nokushintshana komunye nomunye. Ngifuna nje ukusho ukuthi abesifazane badinga ukuqonda nokuhlonipha abantu.
Umdlandla wesifazane emkhakheni wasendlini ulahlekile ngokuqondile ngoba umyeni uyeka ukumthokoza ngenkonzo noma isenzo asenzayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukudla okuphekiwe noma ukugcwalisa isicelo, ulethe ingilazi yamanzi. Amadoda athatha konke okuncane, futhi aqala ukufuna ukulala nokuhlambalaza nokuphathwa. Ngezinye izikhathi kuhlaselwa ekuthumeni. Khona-ke umyeni uqala irekhodi mayelana nokuthi "kungani ngishada", noma "awunkosikazi." Kuyinto nje ehlambalaza, ngoba kuvela ukuthi umyeni wakho uthola iphutha lokuthi "umfazi" no "umninindlu." Kodwa kulula ukubuza umbuzo, bese uthi "ngiyabonga." Futhi lona wesifazane ozungezile uzothuthuka njengeplanethi.
Umshado awuhlanganisi ubuhlobo "bamadoda" "nabesifazane", kodwa inyunyana yendoda nomkayo, abanesithakazelo komunye nomunye futhi bayajabula ngokuphila komndeni. Ngokwemvelo, abakwazi ukuphunyuka ezinkingeni zansuku zonke, kodwa umbuzo kuphela ukuthi ungazixazulula kanjani. Abanye abantu bangavuma ngokushesha ukuthi ubani ophethe lokho. Ungenza ngisho nesimiso somndeni othile, ngaphansi kwesihloko esithi: "Umyeni nomkami: sebenzelana omunye nomunye."
Uma umuntu ethandana naye noma u-idealist, khona-ke uzovela emibonweni nasezikhungweni ezithinta kakhulu, okokuqala wenze okuthandayo kunomuntu othandekayo kunalokho azokwazi ukukwenza njalo esikhathini esizayo. Uma lo muntu engummeli, ngokushesha ubeka wonke amachashazi phezu "futhi", futhi akwenze kucace ukuthi wena, khona-ke uzokwenza ngaleso sikhathi, wena, nakanjani. U-Altruists, ngakolunye uhlangothi, uzobe esekela konke okusemandleni akhe, ngoba bacabanga ukuthi kufanele noma kufanele benze konke lokhu. Futhi ngokuvamile, akuyona umthwalo kubo. Kodwa umuntu wobuningi bobuciko bobuciko bonke bazolawula futhi baphathe zonke izinqubo. Umbono wakhe awuhambisani nokuxoxisana, njengoba esho (-a), ngakho-ke kuyoba, nganoma iyiphi enye indlela. I-introvert izoqala kancane kancane ukuqoqa ngokwayo uhlobo lokunganeliseki, ukuthi yonke into ayiphumelelanga. Futhi i-extroverts izofiphala imizwelo yabo ngaphandle, ibonise ukungajabuli kwabo ngendlela yokuphikisana.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umndeni ungavumeli izinkinga zansuku zonke ukuba udle zonke lezo zikhathi ezinhle futhi ezimangalisayo ezazisekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Omunye kumele akwazi ukugcina isithakazelo esibalulekile, ithemba, ezinye izimbindi zomdlandla, njll. Futhi akusoze isidingo sokuphuthuma ngokweqile. Phela, uma omunye womshado ehlala ebonisa ukuthi uyazikhethela, khona-ke omunye akanakho ukukhetha kodwa ukuwusebenzisa. Kuzo zonke izinto udinga ukwazi isilinganiso nokuhloniphana.
Emndenini kubalulekile ukuzama ukulondoloza ukukhululeka nokuthandana ebuhlotsheni. Emva kwakho konke, lapho umfazi ekhononda njalo, ecasula futhi ebona umyeni wakhe ngaphandle kwakhe, wenza njengetshe entanyeni yakhe. Njengomyeni okhathazeka kuphela ngezindaba zakhe, uyakhathalela futhi akaqapheli yena nomkakhe nokuthi yini ayenzela impilo yabo ndawonye. Ngeshwa, asifundiswa esikoleni noma eyunivesithi indlela yokwakha ubuhlobo bomndeni ngokufanele, ukuxazulula izinkinga zansuku zonke noma ukudala isimo esihle sengqondo ekhaya. Futhi, nakuba singafundiswa lokhu, wonke umuntu uzama ukwenza lokho okubambelele kuye, ngaphandle kokucabanga ngemiphumela.
Yiziphi izinyathelo okudingeka zithathwe ukuxazulula izingxabano ezikhona zasekhaya emndenini wakho? Yini okufanele uyenze uma unganelisekile ngokusatshalaliswa kwemisebenzi ezindabeni zomndeni? Ake sibheke izinhlobo zobudlelwane bomndeni emndenini bese uzama ukuthola impendulo yombuzo oyithandayo.
Indoda ephumelelayo hhayi indoda ephumelele kangaka
Uma emndenini wakho wena nomyeni wakho sishintsha indawo ngokwempahla yomndeni, khona-ke kudingeka udinga isimo sengqondo esibi kakhulu ekusatshalazweni kwemisebenzi yasendlini. Uhlala ulahleka emsebenzini, ungumuntu oyinhloko yokuthola imali yesabelomali, kepha awunayo isikhathi esanele sokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Futhi usuku lomsebenzi wendoda yakhe luyinto encane futhi imali engenayo ingaphansi kakhulu. Kodwa akenzi umzamo omkhulu wokuhlanza, futhi angakwazi ukupheka ngenjabulo.
Izincomo
Lapho ufika ekhaya, wathola ukuthi umyeni wakho uphekile ukudla, wazama futhi wakwenza uzizwe uzijabule. Ngakho-ke mdumise ngobuqotho, masiqonde ukuthi uyayithanda ngempela umsebenzi wakhe futhi aninakekele. Mtshele ukuthi ungomunye wesigidi futhi unenhlanhla kakhulu naye. Ungamangaleli "abesifazana", ngoba kuyamcasula kakhulu. Uhlezi kakhulu emphefumulweni wakhe ongeke uholele kunoma yini enhle ebuhlotsheni bakho naye.
Futhi, kubaluleke kakhulu, ngosuku lwakho ukuphuma, ukupheka isitsha sakho ozithandayo kumuntu othandekayo. Pouch emva kwakhe. Masihlale ezwa njengendoda esimweni sakhe esivamile. Yiqiniso, uyojabula kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi uyamthanda ngalokho akwenzela khona ngaso sonke isikhathi, uthando nokukhathalela. Akulimazi ukucabanga ngalokho wena ngokwakho ongakwenza phakathi kwendlu ngezinsuku zamasonto. Masibe izitsha zokuhlanza ezifanayo noma ubeke umntwana, futhi umnikelo wemithwalo yemfanelo yomndeni wakho jikelele. Yiqiniso, ukuxhomekeka kokubonakala komfazi kumyeni wakhe akuthwali lutho oluhle, kodwa ukugxila ekuphathweni kobudlelwane bomndeni, ukungazinaki imisebenzi yakhe njengomfazi nonina, akunakwenzeka ukuba ube yisizathu sakho.
Owesifazane wendlukazi futhi osebenza kahle
Ingabe wenza umsebenzi wakho wansuku zonke ekhaya ngaphandle kokuzivimbela, futhi amandla akho asevele esiphelile? Ngakho-ke yisikhathi sokukhuluma nomyeni wakho othandekayo mayelana nokusabalaliswa kwemisebenzi yasendlini. Ngokwemvelo, kuzodingeka ukuthi ucabangele iqiniso lokuthi umlingani wakho usebenza kanzima ngaphandle kwendlu. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi kuyoba okungenangqondo futhi kungatholakali ukwabelana ngemisebenzi yasendlini ngqo kwesigamu.
Izincomo
Iningi labesilisa bakholelwa ukuthi yibo kuphela abakhathele, futhi abafazi bendlukazi abangekho.
Phela, babesebenza, benze izabelo ezihlukahlukene nobuholi buqinisekisa, futhi abafazi babekhona ekhaya. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi uma uvela emsebenzini, umuntu ugcwele ngokugcwele isidlo sakusihlwa futhi uhlale phambi kwe-TV.
Isicelo sakho sokusizwa ngendlela yokwabiwa kwemisebenzi yasendlini kufanele sitshalwe ephepheni, ngezimpikiswano ezicacile kanye nohlelo. Lokhu kuyoba yingxenye yempumelelo empikiswaneni yakho nomyeni wakho. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ungayifaki ngaphambi kweqiniso noma ufake ukucindezela kukho. Lapha udinga ukucabangela ithoni yezwi lakho, nesimo sakho sengqondo. Yethula lolu lwazi ngokuhle, ukukhanya, okungabonakali. Bonisa umyeni wakho ukuthi ulungele ukukethisa, futhi ungabeki ukulwa. Zama ukutshela indoda yakho ukuthi ufuna ukuthi akwenze okuthile kuwe. Uma lokhu kungenzima kuye, ngokuqinisekile uzofika ukukuhlangabeza futhi aphendule isicelo sakho. Kodwa akudingeki ukuthi usebenze oshade naye. Kumelwe siqonde imizamo yakhe futhi sibonge ngesenzo asenzile. Njengomfazi, kubalulekile kuwe ukuthi uzame ukulinganisela ezintweni ozenzayo komunye nomunye. Ungayisebenzisi nje.
Umfazi ungumhlanzi ongenakunqotshwa, indoda yakhe ikati elivilaphayo
Wenza konke okuzungeze indlu, zama umndeni. Futhi umyeni wakho ulele embhedeni phambi kwe-TV, noma ehlezi kukhompyutha, akunandaba. Kodwa ngokusobala uyakucasula, uzenza sengathi awukwenzi lutho, unayo indlu yokuhlala ehlanzekile futhi indwangu yetafula yedivaysi yokuzihlanza ivela endaweni ethile.
Izincomo
Mhlawumbe, bonke abantu bayaqiniseka ukuthi umsebenzi oqondile wesifazane ukupheka. Kodwa, njengoba siyazi, akekho okhokhelwa lutho kunoma ubani. Ngakho-ke, ungamema umyeni wakho ukuba apheke okuthile ngokwakhe noma nawe. Ngisho nangemva kwalokhu kuzodingeka ukwethule lonke ikhishi.
Abamele abesilisa bayamzonda ama-scandals futhi bazame ukuwagwema nganoma iyiphi indlela. Uma udala ukungqubuzana ngesisekelo semisebenzi yomkhaya engabodwa, thola ukuthi yini engavumelani ngayo. Mhlawumbe, kuzodingeka ukuthi wenze ukunikezana ngokuhlanganyela noma ukushintshana ngezibopho komunye nomunye, uma umyeni engafuni ukugeza phansi noma ukusula uthuli, bese umnika umsebenzi ongathinteki futhi othobekile kuye.
Icala elinikezwe umyeni kumele libe ngaphansi komthwalo wakhe. Ngisho noma ngabe umyala ukuba akhiphe amathrekhi, yiba nesineke, ungayifuni futhi ubekezele. Mane umkhumbuze ngomusa ngesicelo sakho bese umvumela akwenze ngokwakho.
Uma umyeni wakho eqedela umsebenzi abelwe wona futhi ungathanda ukuthi kwenzeke futhi, udinga ukusabela ngokuhlukumezayo kumphumela, ngenye indlela ekhethekile noma into ethile. Yisakaze ngezincomo eziningi, uyisuse, uphonsa entanyeni yakho, uyidle ngesitsha sakho ozithandayo. Futhi uyokujabulela ukukusiza izikhathi eziningi esikhathini esizayo.
"I-dragonfly engenandaba" nelithi "umkhuhlane womama wendlu"
Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi omama abaphuthumayo njalo ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Bahlale bexoxa efonini nabangani, bachitha amahora e-beauty salon, esitolo, njll. Umyeni uzama ukungaphumeleli ukukhomba ukuthi udinga ukunakekelwa kuphela ngowe othandekayo, kodwa ngomndeni.
Izincomo
Udinga ukukhuluma ngokungathí sina nomkakho. Bhala phansi imithwalo yemfanelo eqondene nendlu azoyenza, lokhu kuzobonisa ukucabangela kwezinhloso zakho. Khona-ke enkulumweni engathí sina, nizethule ukuba zicatshangelwe. Okulandelayo, kuzodingeka ube nesineke futhi umsize kancane ukuze ajwayele imithwalo yemfanelo yakhe emisha. Ukuhambisa izindaba zakho zasendlini, uqondiswe yilokho okwazi ukukwenza kangcono, nokuthi yini umkakho oba ngcono. Noma ngubani othanda ukwenza okuningi. Qaphela ukuthi imithwalo yemfanelo yomkakho ayibanga eyakho futhi, ungalingeka ukuba wenze lokho okushade naye okufanele akwenze. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi angeke akwazi ukwenza okuthile, bese udinga ukumfundisa, ngaphandle kwalokho uzozwa izizathu zakhe ngokuphindaphindiwe.
Njengomfazi wendoda, ngakho-ke indoda nomfazi kufanele badumise futhi bakhuthaze umsebenzi okwenziwe, bamnike izimpawu zokunakwa. Yenza umkhuba wakhe wokwenza konke ngokwakho, ukumethemba ngemisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi kunalabo abajwayele ukukwenza. Qiniseka ukuqaphela imizamo yakhe nempumelelo ukuze kuzuze umndeni. Lezi zinyathelo zizokwenza njengendlela yokuxoshwa, ukugqugquzela ukwenza imisebenzi eqhubekayo.
Ukulingana
Bobabili, ngokujwayelekile, bayakwazi ukuvumelana. Futhi uyaqonda ukuthi imisebenzi yasekhaya kufanele ihlukaniswe ngangokunokwenzeka ngesigamu. Yiqiniso, kwenzeka futhi ukuthi ufuna ukushintsha imithwalo yemfanelo yakho emahlombe omthandayo. Abanye benu bayokwenza lokhu kanye, owesibili uzojwayela lesi simo sezindaba.
Izincomo
Emndenini, umfazi angase acabange okwesikhashana umsebenzi womyeni wakhe, isibonelo, ngesikhathi sokugula komyeni wakhe, wayegcwele ngokweqile emsebenzini, wasiza ngemisebenzi yendlu kanina, njll. Ngokufanayo, oshade naye anganezela okwesikhashana emisebenzini yomsebenzi womlingani wakhe, isibonelo, ngenkathi ekhulelwe, noma ngesikhathi ehlezi nengane encane.
Kodwa isikhathi siphelile, futhi akekho ophuthumayo ukubuyisela izibopho ozenzile. Mhlawumbe hhayi ngisho nokuya. Lokhu kusho ukuthi sekufike isikhathi sokusebenzisa izinguquko ezinkulu ekusabalazweni kwemithwalo yemfanelo. Kudingeka ukhulume nomphefumulo wakho womshado, thola izizathu zokuthi kungani umyeni wakho noma umkakho kufanele aphinde abe abanikazi bomsebenzi wabo wasekhaya. Uma umuntu ezama ukuzihlukanisa nabo okwesikhashana ngaphandle kwesizathu esithile, khona-ke izenzo zekhonkrithi nezingaqinisekisiwe kumele zisetshenziswe.
Ngokwesibonelo, wenqaba ngokukhululekile ukugeza amasokisi omyeni wakhe noma ukukhipha amathrekhi. Khona-ke maduzane uzoqonda ukuthi kufanele akwenze futhi akekho oyokhipha izikhwama ezintathu zokulahla esikhundleni. Ungenza okufanayo ngokupheka. Uyazi ukuthi umkakhe uzobuya ekhaya evela emsebenzini, elindele ukuthi upheke ukudla kwasekuseni, umtshele lokho okulungiselele ngesikhathi sokugcina, futhi namhlanje kuyithuba lakhe. Kuzodingeka ulinde, uzosebenza kanzima, kodwa ngokwenza lokhu uyomsindisa ethembeni lokuthi othile uzompheka uma kufika isikhathi sakhe. Ngokwemvelo, kungenzeka futhi kudingekile, ngezinye izikhathi ukwenza ukuvumelana komunye nomunye, ikakhulukazi uma ubuzwa ngakho. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqinisekisa ukuthi lezi zindlebe ezingenayo umdlalo emasangweni owodwa futhi angangeni embusweni ohlelekile.
Indoda ayidalwanga umsebenzi weBaba
Emindenini eminingi, imisebenzi ihlukaniswe ibe yindoda kuphela futhi isilisa kuphela. Emikhaya enjalo, izinkolelo zomyeni ukuthi umkakhe zidinga usizo zithatha isikhathi eside, amandla namandla. Zonke izicelo zibonwa ngenzondo. Ngenxa yalokho, oshade naye uphelelwe yimithwalo yemithwalo, futhi isigaba somsebenzi sidinga izinguquko.
Izincomo
Amadoda anemfihlo eyodwa encane. Ngamunye wabo udinga ukudingeka, okudingekayo kulokhu noma lokho. Yimfihlo futhi kufanele isebenzise abafazi, ngesisekelo somndeni salohlelo. Mcabange ukuthi kungcono kunabo akekho ongakwazi ukubhekana nokusika kwenkukhu, ikakhulukazi njengoba enamandla kakhulu kuwe futhi uzokusiza ngokushesha kule ndaba. Futhi ngokujwayelekile, ngaso sonke isikhathi kwakuyibhizinisi lamadoda ukusika nokupheka inyama. Vumela oshade naye abe nomuzwa wokuthi ungumqaphi wempi.
Noma, isibonelo, ulethe imikhiqizo yasekhaya emakethe. Owesifazane omile futhi onomusa udinga nje ihlombe lomuntu. Abesifazane ngokujwayelekile bayaphikisana ngokuthatha amandla adonsela phansi, futhi oshade naye uhlala ehlala isikhathi eside futhi enamandla kunawe, ngoba uyisikhwama. Nganoma yiluphi usizo umyeni wakho kufanele akhuthazwe, adunyiswe futhi ambulele.
Imiphumela
Ngokwesilinganiso, indlu edolobheni lomuzi ithatha cishe amahora angu-3-5 ngosuku. Ukusebenza ezindabeni zasendlini emndenini ongenamntwana cishe amahora amane, futhi emndenini onomntwana - amahora angu-6. Kanye nalokhu, yiqiniso, kukhona ukunakekelwa kwengane. Futhi lokhu kuhoxisa kakhulu, ngokuvamile kuwela ngokuphelele emahlombe omama.
Izifundo ezingaphelele zikhomba amaqiniso athakazelisayo ahlobene nemisebenzi yobuchwepheshe yabesifazane. Uma owesifazane eya emsebenzini, uchitha isikhathi esingaphansi kwama-40-60% ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini kunabesifazane abangasebenzi. Lokhu akukona ukuthi inani lomsebenzi owenziwe yihle, kodwa ngoba isikhathi sabo sinqunyelwe. Akukubi, uma owesifazane enabasizi ebusweni bomyeni wakhe nezingane zakhe. Kodwa kuthiwani uma kungenjalo?
Indlela yokuphila engaphazanyiswayo idala umthwalo omkhulu emzimbeni wesintu, okungaholela ekuqotheni komzimba. Kukhona umuzwa ogcwele wokukhathala. Njalo udinga ukuthola isikhathi sokuphumula nokulala okugcwele. Ukuze usebenzise usizo lwemishini yasekhaya, imishini kagesi yekhaya, ezokusiza ukuba wenze umsebenzi ngokushesha futhi kube lula.
Kubaluleke kakhulu emndenini ukunikeza kahle imithwalo yemfanelo ekuphathweni komndeni. Ngeshwa, imindeni eminingi iphila ngesimiso sokuthi zonke izinto ekhaya zenziwa ngumama, futhi wonke amanye amalungu omndeni awabonanga njengemisebenzi yawo eqondile, kodwa njengomsizi omncane kuye. Ukulingana, okukhona emsebenzini noma emphakathini jikelele, kuvame ukungabikho emindenini. Kukhona imisebenzi esebenzayo ehlukaniswe yaba yindoda kuphela futhi isifazane kuphela. Lapho umuntu enza izenzo ezinjengokuthatha inhlawulo noma ukuthenga isinkwa, ngenkathi owesifazane enza konke okunye, ngezinye izikhathi kufaka phakathi i-nail emdongeni.
Amadoda avame ukukholelwa ukuthi umsebenzi wesikole awuwona umsebenzi onzima, kodwa umsebenzi olula kuphela. Ucwaningo lwesayensi lubonisa okuphambene nalokho. Siyabonga ukuthi kwaziwa ukuthi ngesikhathi sokusebenza kwemisebenzi umthwalo womzimba uphakeme kakhulu kunesikhathi somsebenzi ebhizinisini.
Futhi, ngenxa yocwaningo, kwaziwa ukuthi abesifazane abangama-24% kuphela abasebenza, bathola usizo olungavumelani nomyeni wakhe ohlelweni lwasekhaya, kanye nosizo oluncane lwezingane.
Ukusatshalaliswa kwemisebenzi yasendlini kungalungile futhi kungalungile. Umndeni kumele uhlakulele isibonelo sakhe sokuziphatha nokusizana komunye. Abanye babo esichazwe ngenhla. Kubalulekile ukuqala ukukwenza kusukela ekuqaleni kokuphila ndawonye. Khumbula ukuthi ukubamba iqhaza jikelele, kokubili kokuphumula nokusebenza, ngokungangabazeki kuqinisa ubuhlobo babantu ababili abanothando. Yilokho kuphela esingathanda ukukusho esihlokweni esithi "Umyeni nomkami: basebenzelane omunye nomunye", nakuba umndeni ngamunye ungumuntu ngamunye futhi azikho izidingo zomhlaba wonke zomshado.