Ukhathazeka okuningi mayelana nesehlukaniso, ubiza umngane wakho, ukhononda ngokuphila, ukhale njalo, ubheka amaphutha akho futhi ucabanga ukuthi ukuphila okujabulisayo akukhona kuwe.
Uyazi ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani ngemva kwesahlukaniso? Isihloko sethu sizinikele kulokhu. Sizozama ukukusiza kule nkathi enzima yokuphila kwakho bese uqala ukuhlala kabusha.
Ukuqala, ukukhulula yonke imizwelo eqoqiwe - insimbi, shaya izitsha, uhlehle zonke izinto zakhe uphinde uchithe izithombe. Ukuhamba ngemva kwesahlukaniso kuyinto eyisiphukuphuku - kungokwemvelo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho izinyembezi zokugcina ziyokoma, phendula lo mbuzo: wazifaka kanjani ekhanda ukuthi ushiyiwe nokuthi impilo iphelile ngalokhu? Iya esibukweni bese ubheka intombazane ebonakala kuyo. Ubonani? Uyabona ukuthi intombazane enhle nehlakaniphile eyazi ukuthi kufanele ujabulele kanjani ukuphila, ngubani okhala phezu kwamafilimu ezibubulayo, othanda izilwane nezingane kakhulu. Okubaluleke kakhulu, usenjalo - intombazane efanelwe uthando nokujabula. Futhi, okungafanele ukukhala ngenxa yomuntu owenze isinqumo sokuphila ngaphandle kwakho, ngemuva kokuhlukanisa udinga ukuziphatha ngesibindi.
Ingabe ufuna ukuba ngokwakho ngemva kokuhlukanisa? Kholelwa kuwe. Ungazitholi ezweni langaphandle nabantu. Ungazihawukeli - uzizwela, uqobo nje ukuphinda ungene emgodini wokudabuka nokudabuka. Kholelwa kuwe kanye namandla akho. Ungazivali ezweni lakho futhi ugcobe ngesihawu esingenamkhawulo wena. Ngokuphambene nalokho, qala ukuphila ngokugcwele. Umyeni wakho washiya wena-thatha njengesipho sokuphela kanye nethuba lokuqala impilo entsha engeke ifane neyokudala.
Sinikeza imiyalo embuzweni owake wathini: indlela yokuziphatha ngemva kokuhlukanisa.
Ukuya kuzo zonke izenzakalo ezinkulu emkhatsini wezinkampani zakhe. Izintombi zakho - ukuhleka kuzokubuyisela ngalezo zinsuku lapho ubengumfana ongenandaba. Jabulela, njengoba ufuna. Jabulela inkululeko - inzuzo ebalulekile ngaphambi komshado.
Yiba ngokwakho, umuntu ozojabula futhi ilanga lasekuseni, kusihlwa kwelanga. Indoda enomphefumulo wakhe ayikho indawo yokudabuka kumuntu oye wangikhathaza futhi washiya.
Ungaguquki - cabanga, yini ongenayo isikhathi sokwenza? Mhlawumbe uphupha ngokuphothula iziqu, kodwa isidingo sokufundisa izingane nokungajabuli njalo komyeni wakho ngemibono yakho kwenza kube nzima ukwenza iphupho ligcwaliseke. Yini ekuvimbela manje ukuthi uhlale phansi ukuze uthole izincwadi zokufunda bese uqala ukuthungatha i-granite science?
Indlela yokuziphatha ngemva kwesahlukaniso? Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo, kudingeke ukhumbule kuqala: ungubani umshado ngaphambi komshado noma ngaphambi kokuhlukanisa? Khumbula yonke into encane, yonke imizwa kulokhu noma lowo mcimbi empilweni yakho.
Uma uphendula yonke le mibuzo, uzobe usuvele unomqondo wokuthi wenzeni ukuze ube ngokwakho ngemva kokuhlukanisa.
Ungalokothi ukhohlise futhi ungesabi ukukhombisa ukuthi ungubani ngempela "Mina". Zifundise ukuthi ube ngemva kwehlukaniso - funda ukwamukela ngokwakho. Ukwazi ukuphendula ngalunye lwezenzo zakho, ukwazi ukuzibuka ovela ngaphandle nokuqonda ukuthi yini okwenzayo engalungile.
Abaningi bayesaba, ukuba wena ngokwakho emva kokuhlukanisa, ngoba ukuvuleka komuntu kwandisa amathuba okuqhubeka nokuhlupheka nokukhaphela ngokuphindaphindiwe. Yehlisa lezi zimo. Uma uphupha ukuhlala isifuba esigcwele - ke, awunalo ilungelo lokwesaba okuthile.
Futhi, kuhle ukuthi umuntu othandekayo wakho akushiye - kholwa mina, endaweni yakhe maduzane, umugqa omkhulu walabo abafisa ukukujabulisa uzokwakhiwa.