Omunye wabangane bami waphinde waxwayisa: umuntu okhungathekile kumele adliwe futhi agonywe esifubeni sakhe. Umkhandlu ulula, kepha usebenza kakhulu.
Inombolo yesenzo sezinkathi: feed.
Isidlo kufanele sisilungele ukufika komuntu othandekayo emsebenzini. Ukudla kufanele kubonakale kujabulisa, kube ikhalori futhi kuyiphuzo. Imfundo yami yasempumalanga iphakamisa ukuthi isidlo sakusihlwa kufanele sibandakanye isobho, ucezu lwenyama nento enhle itiye. Futhi lokhu kufanele kube njalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi le ndoda icasukile noma cha. "Angisona umpheki!" - ungasho. Yiqiniso, wena ungowesifazane ohlakaniphile onothando, futhi isidlo esiphundu sesivele sesiyingxenye elula njengenduduzo yendoda ethandekayo. Sonke sikhumbula leli zwi elimangalisayo: indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele esiswini.
Le ndoda isukuma etafuleni futhi ngokuziqhenya ithwala isisu sayo esise-sofa. Cha, akazange akhumule okwamanje, kungukuthi kudingeka ahileleke. Mhlawumbe uzobukela i-TV, noma adlale enye yemidlalo yekhompyutha, noma aye egaraji ukuze alungise imoto yakhe ayithandayo (noma uphuze nomakhelwane). Ungayithinti. Shiya indoda ekhungathekile yodwa naye. Kumelwe akwenze okwenzekile. Uzocabangela isimo, uthathe isinqumo esifanele kuphela futhi, mhlawumbe, ngisho nokuzola. Qonda, akanalo uhlobo olufanayo lwe-psychology njengawe. Uma owesifazane okhungathekile elandela iseluleko kubangane bakhe bese ethulela emakhanda abo umbhebhe wezinkinga zabo, indoda ekhungathekile kuqala icabanga ngakho konke. Akadingi iseluleko esivela kubangane, noma iseluleko sakho.
Inombolo yesenzo sesibili: cindezela esifubeni.
Ngakho, akekho! Uyakuzwa? I-NOR-KOG-DA ayifuni ukumbuza ngezizathu ezamcasula. Ufuna - uzokutshela yena. Uma uqala "ukukhahla ngaphansi kwezinhlamvu zakho," uzomenza nje akhonze. Zama ukumphazamisa ngento ethile, ngitshele ukuthi usuku lwakho luhambe kanjani, kwenzekani kubangane bakho abambisene nabo, bakhulume ngezepolitiki, sezulu, ezemidlalo, nganoma yini! Uma kuphela kungaphazanyiswa! Kodwa, qaphela, ungadluli, sicela, ungakhathali umpofu. Ingxoxo engenangqondo ingaletha othandekayo ku-migraine. Yiba nomzwelo kuye, zama ukulungisa isimo sakhe sengqondo.
Kungenzeka ukuthi ngezinye izingxoxo ngeke umphazamise ngokusiza. Bese uyithatha ngaphansi kwegundane bese uyihudulela emoyeni omusha. Kungenzeka futhi okuhlukile: i-cinema, yaseshashalazini, isitolo. Kodwa kuyingozi. Uma umuntu egula, angase angathandi nje. Ngakho-ke, sikhetha ukhetho lokuhamba epaki. Mhlawumbe umoya omusha ebusuku uzosusa imicabango emibi.
Futhi lapho ufika ekhaya, ulungise ibhodlela elimnandi lomuntu okhungathekile (ibhuku akuyona nje isifazane kuphela, ukholelwa), yenza ukumisa okuphumuzayo kuye, futhi ... ngubani owaziyo ukuthi lolu suku luzophela nini ...
Futhi ekugcineni. Madoda othandekayo, amadoda angabonga kanjani. Ekuseni, othandekayo wami, owayevele ebi kakhulu izolo, uzozilungiselela ukudla kwasekuseni, futhi kusihlwa uzokuhlela okuthile okumangazayo.
Khumbula ukuthi ukuthanda kuwumsebenzi, kunzima nakakhulu ukudala ikhaya lomndeni wangempela ekhaya, lapho othandekayo ebuyela khona njalo kusihlwa ngolwazi lokuthi bayomnciphisa uma engaguli.