Ukukhipha isisu: izinzuzo nezindleko

Ngezinye izikhathi kuyabuhlungu ukuthi abantu baqondiswa ngemigomo, futhi bazama ukumboza amagama afakaziwe ngelokubizwa ngokuthi ukubulala. Yebo, ngoba ngaphandle kwalokho awukwazi ukubiza ukukhipha isisu. Bazama ukuziphendulela ngokwezimo, ukuphelelwa ithemba, kanye nesimo esibi sezinto ezibonakalayo. Kodwa lezi zizathu nje. Wonke umuntu kufanele azi ukuthi kusukela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ingane ihlala, ikhula futhi ifuna ukuzalwa.

Futhi igama elithi "embryo" odokotela, ababiza ngokuthi izingane, liyisithuba nje sokubuyela emuva ezinkingeni futhi hhayi ukuthatha umthwalo we-infanticide eyenziwe. Futhi kuyamangalisa ukuthi ezweni lanamuhla, abesifazane abakafundile ukuqonda impilo yabo nokuphila kwabo. Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi amacala okungazalwa ngemuva kokukhipha isisu asenzeka. Le nqubo engenakuguqulwa ayifisani nabesifazane abaningi, into esemqoka ukuba baqede ukukhulelwa okungadingeki. Kulo mzuzu, akekho ocabanga ngomntwana.

Kunezinhlobo ezimbili zokukhipha isisu, ukukhipha isisu okuncane (umthethonqubo) kuqhutshwa kuze kube amasonto ayishumi nambili, nokukhipha isisu, okungenziwa kuze kube amasonto amabili namane. Ayikho yalezi zindlela ezibucayi, ngoba ukubulawa akunakwenzeka.
Ukukhipha isisu ngesikhathi esifushane kubhekwa njengokubuhlungu kakhulu futhi akubandakanyi imiphumela embi. Kodwa lo mbono uyiphutha. Noma yikuphi ukungenelela kwinqubo yemvelo kungaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu. Kungase kuvule ukuphuma noma kuhlale izingcezu, okuzoholela ezinkambisweni zokuvuvukala, futhi owesifazane konke kungagcina kabi kakhulu. Le nqubo ihlanganisa ukuncelisa umntwana ngaphandle kwesibeletho ngethuluzi elikhethekile, bese-ke, uma usabona izinsalela, ukuhlunga. Zingaki amafilimu mayelana nokukhipha isisu adutshulwa, esebenzisa ikhamera encane, futhi ifilimu ibonisa ngokucacile ukuthi ingane iphikisana nezenzo zodokotela, uzama ukufihla futhi iphoqe ngaphakathi kwesikhumba. Ayikho indawo yokulinda usizo, ngemuva kokuba bonke abantu bomdabu, umama, bethengise. Kodwa ingabe impilo encane ingamelana nayo.

Ukukhipha isisu esikhathini esilandelayo kuyicala elimele livinjelwe ngumthetho. Ngempela, empeleni ingane ephilayo idwenguliwe futhi isuswe njengento engafanele futhi engadingekile. Lezi zingane zenziwe kahle futhi zikulungele ukunqoba ubunzima. Ngesikhathi lapho abazali bezilwela khona impilo yomntwana ofanayo ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Abanye babulala nje. Imiphumela emva kokukhipha isisu sekuphelile. Ukungenzi lutho, ukuvuvukala, okungabangela izinqubo ezithathelwanayo. Isimo somzimba, lokhu akuyona into embi kakhulu. Kunzima kangakanani ukuhlala nengane engaphansi kwenhliziyo yakho isikhathi esiningi, uvele uzizwa konke, uyazi izwi lakho. Ukulungiswa kabusha kwama-hormones emzimbeni sekuvele kwenzeka, ukushintsha kwemizwa, izifiso zishintsha njalo ngomzuzu. Futhi nge-flash akukho lutho. Umzimba wawulungiselelwe ukubeletha umntwana, ukubeletha, ukubeletha. Futhi konke kushintsha ngokuphawulekayo. Ukungabi nalutho kungaphakathi kuphela, kodwa emphefumulweni. Abesifazane abaningi bayaqonda ukuthi babulala ingane yabo, kuphela emva kokukhipha isisu. Kodwa sekwephuzile kakhulu.

Odokotela baqhuba ukuhlolwa, ngaphambi kokuba inqubo ibonise ividiyo efanayo mayelana nokukhipha izisu, futhi okungenani isigamu sabesifazane abakhulelwe benqaba ukusebenza. Kusho ukuthini lokhu? Lokhu kubonisa kuphela ukuthi asazi noma asifuni ukwazi iqiniso lonke. Ukungaboni ngezenzo zabo, sizama ukuzivikela eqinisweni elibi, ukuqhubeka nokubulala izingane ezisencane. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi "i-fetus", "umbungu", akuyona into ede kakhulu futhi engajwayelekile. Lona ngumntwana ohlala ngaphansi kwenhliziyo.

Amafilimu anjalo kufanele aboniswe kubasha ukuze abenze bacabange ngaphambi kokwenza iphutha. Futhi mhlawumbe ke bazoqala ukwenza izinqumo ezifanele, ukuthi kungcono ukuzivikela ngaphandle kokuhlushwa okunjalo ekuphileni okuncane, okuyinto ngokuqinisekile akufanelanga isimo sengqondo esinjalo. Ngakho-ke, ukulondoloza impilo yabo emndenini wesikhathi esizayo kanye nokuzalwa kwezingane ezihaha.