Indlela yokwenza amandla wesifazane

Kunezinsuku lapho kukhona amandla entaba ukuze awele. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uziphophe ngokweqile ukuba uvuke ekuseni futhi wenze izinto ozithandayo.

Ingabe kukhona ukungafani phakathi kwamandla wesifazane namadoda? Yebo, yebo! Konke akulula ukuchaza, njenganoma iyiphi enye into engeyona into ebonakalayo yobomi bethu, kodwa kulula kakhulu ukuzizwa. Ukufanekisa lokhu kungaba yisibonelo: cabanga ukuthi unembatho enhle ohamba ngayo ngokumangalisayo. Phendula ngobuqotho lo mbuzo, ingabe uyozizwa uhlale uqobo kuwo ngokuphelela? Iqiniso elithakazelisayo: ngezinye izikhathi yebo, ngezinye izikhathi akunjalo. Kodwa yiziphi izinguquko? Ukugqoka okulinganayo, ukwakheka, kwekhanda ... Kodwa imizwelo ehluke ngokuphelele futhi, ngenxa yalokho, imifanekiso ehlukene nemizwa. Uma sikwazi, ngomqondo omuhle wezwi, ukusebenzisa ubufazi bethu, kusisiza ukuba singalahleki emiphakathini eyinkimbinkimbi ye-whirlpools. Uma izinqolobane zamandla seziphelile futhi asicabangi ukuzigcwalisa, isimo sinjengalokhu: konke kubonakala sengathi kusebenza kahle, kodwa akukho lutho oluphuma futhi siyeka ukujabulela ukuphila. Kuvela kuphi injabulo?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ngamunye wethu unendlela yakhe yokudonsela emhlabeni osizungezile amandla azo zonke izinto esizifezile. Kodwa kukhona umthetho ojwayelekile: udinga ukuzilalela, ukuqonda ukuthi yini ngempela engaba yikhokhiso. Kuzwakala kulula, kodwa akulula kakhulu ukusebenzisa. Isibonelo, lesi simo, esithinta ubulili abaningi obuhle. Owesifazane unomuzwa wokuthi udinga ukuzitholela okuthile. Mhlawumbe ukhathele futhi uma ezama ukukuphendula ngobuqotho lokho akufunayo ngempela, cishe uzoqonda ukuthi udinga usuku lokuchitha ngalo ukungabi nalutho okungcwele. Kodwa hhayi ukuzwa ngokugcwele izwi lakhe langaphakathi futhi efisa ukuzitholela, lo wesifazane uyahamba athenge ikhekhe. Ingabe uzokujabulisa ubumnandi? Ingabe izophinde ifake ibhetri yangaphakathi? Akunjalo, ngoba udinga ukuphumula noma, ngokuphambene, umsebenzi, isizungu noma ukuxhumana, ifilimu enhle noma incwadi, ingubo entsha noma indoda entsha, kodwa lokho akuyona ikhekhe njalo. Ngendlela, kaningi ngenxa yokuthi ukudla kuyinto elula kakhulu futhi engabizi kakhulu kithi, noma mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi asazi ukulalela izifiso zethu noma ukuthi kuyamahloni ukucabanga ngathi nokuthi singazijabulisa kanjani thina, asikwazi ukwakha amandla ethu. Imiphumela yesimo sengqondo esinjalo kuwe akulula ukuqagela.

Ukufisa kanye namathuba
Ukuze uthole amandla wesifazane okudingekayo, udinga ukulandela izifiso zakho. Maye, abesifazane abaningi besaba le nqubo. Kubonakala kubo ukuthi uma becabanga nje ngokuthi "Ngiyathanda", khona-ke bayakufika engqondweni yabo kuphela ukuba bahambe eziqhingini ezingavamile, isikhwama esingeke siphume umholo owodwa, indandatho enamagatsha anjalo okulimazayo ukubuka amehlo ... Lokhu kuyinkumbulo mayelana izifiso. Eqinisweni, uma ucabanga ngalokho okufunayo lapha futhi manje, izinto ezilula, kodwa izinto ezimnandi zizofika engqondweni yakho: itiye elishisayo endaweni ebandayo, ithuba lokulala emini emvula, uxoxe nganoma yini ngomuntu wakho futhi akukho ndawo hhayi ukusheshisa, uhambe ngezinyawo, uchithe usuku oluthile ngama-pajamas. Kunezinketho eziningi. Ungabuyisa amandla akho kuphela ngokuxhumana nawe. Futhi ungahlola ukuthi konke kulungile. Uma ujabule, yilokho okudingayo manje.

Shershe la ... indoda
Abamele bobulili obuhlukile nabo bathinta indlela esizizwa ngayo, sivumelane. Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi uma owesifazane ethanda futhi ethanda, uyamjabulisa, lapho abesifazane besho ukuthi bayamncoma, uhluma njengeMeyi rose, lapho bemnaka, uqobo uya phezulu ngaphezu komhlaba. Kodwa kukhona isicupho esiziqhubela sona futhi sichitha izinsiza zethu. Abesifazane abaningi abazi ukuthi bangathatha kanjani isithunzi sabo, ukuncoma, ukulungisa abantu. Isibonelo, kunamantombazane anjalo aphezu kwamaphiko awo, uma umuntu eseduze, kodwa alahlekelwa yisibindi ngokuphelele lapho kungekho muntu ongamthanda noma lapho engakunakekelwa ... Iphutha elijwayelekile ukuzwa ukuncoma bese ukhohlwa ngakho, ulinde elisha, ungalindi bese uphazamiseka. Uma utshele izolo ukuthi ubukeka kahle, zinike lona ngosuku olulandelayo, khumbula ukuthi uyathandeka, ngisho noma akekho ozosho kanjalo. Kukhona "i-chip" eyokusiza ukuthi ufunde ukungaphuthelwa. Cabanga ngesikhwama esincane sokucabanga. Kukhona lapho wonke amamatheka, amagama amahle avela kobulili obuhlukile. Uma nje unomuzwa wokuthi amandla aphelile, hlola ephaketheni futhi "uphume" okuqukethwe kwawo, uzobona ukuthi izinkumbulo nokubuyisela emuva ekukhunjweni kokufaneleka kwakho kuyoba yikhokhithi enamandla yokuhle. Kulula kangaka? Yebo, futhi kusebenza!

Ngezinye izikhathi ube nobugovu
Okungenani okubi kakhulu ngokwezimali, kodwa indlela ebaluleke kakhulu yokugcwalisa amandla amabhinqa ukuzivumela ukunethezeka kokuhlala wedwa. Kubonakala sengathi lokhu kuhle? Emva kwakho konke, sifisa ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nomndeni, nabathandekayo nabathandekayo. Yebo, kunjalo. Kodwa ngisho noma ngabe ube ngesonto uzothola isikhathi kuphela kuwe, akusho ukuthi ukhaphela umuntu noma ungathandi esinye isigamu sakho nezingane. Uyazi, njengenhlanhla: owesifazane oyedwa, owesifazane ohlakaniphile, omuhle, omuhle nomama wezingane eziningi, bonke babe nesikhathi, kodwa babe nekhono. Kanye ngesonto wamemela umntanami wamantombazane, wathatha ibhokisi lama-sweets akhethiweyo ayi-chocolate, indebe yekhofi futhi wavala isigamu sosuku ekamelweni elinenkampani ye-TV. Lapho abantwana bemshaya, wamemeza: "Ungangikhathazi, bantwana, nginenza umama omuhle ..." Ungesabi ukucasula labo abafuna ukuba yedwa. Lokhu kubalulekile ekubuyiselweni kwamandla.

Amabutho awakho! Ingabe lokhu kujwayelene?
Ungesabi kakhulu ngalokhu bese uzama ukuzithengisa nganoma iyiphi intengo. Mhlawumbe, ngesimiso esinjalo somzimba umzimba ukwazisa ukuthi udinga ukuguqula okuthile empilweni futhi uyilungele. Izazi zengqondo zithi izinguquko zenzeka ngesikhashana. Futhi kunjalo ngempela. Akuzona ngezikhathi zokuphikisana nokuxhunyaniswa kwemisebenzi. Ngokufanayo, ngaleyo mizuzwana lapho uphonsa izandla zakho futhi uqonda ukuthi awukwazi futhi awufani ncamashi nokuthi wawuphi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kusabisa ukuthi inguqulo entsha yezokuthuthukiswa kwesakhiwo ingakabonakali, kepha ungagijimi ngezindlela ezihlukile, linda, ubukele futhi unqume ukuthi uzoqhubeka kanjani ukwakha impilo yakho, uzofika ngokushesha.

Emzimbeni onempilo - ingqondo enempilo
Njengoba wazi, owesifazane ubuhle ezimweni ezimbili: namuhla futhi njalo! Umzimba wethu, impilo, ubuhle kubonisa ukuthi kwenzekani ngaphakathi. Kodwa-ke, hhayi imizwa yethu kuphela, imizwelo nokuhlangenwe nakho - isibuko sokubukeka, isimo somzimba singathinta isimo sengqondo. Zama ukuthola umdlalo (noma nje umsebenzi womzimba) oyithandayo: ichibi lokubhukuda, uhamba emini, ukuzivocavoca nge-hula hoop, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili, intaba noma ukugeleza kwamanzi, ukuhamba nge-skateboard noma i-skateboarding. Qinisekisa ukunikeza ukuqina kwakho okungenani ihora elilodwa ngesonto. Uzoqaphela ukuthi ukuncipha kwehora nje kuyoba ukuphakama kwamandla. Noma yimuphi owesifazane uyohlale enezinto eziningi zokudala, amandla, uthando, aze alahlekelwe amandla okumangala. Kithina namuhla, konke okujwayelekile, okujwayelekile, okucacile. Futhi yingakho impilo ngezinye izikhathi iba yintsha. Khumbula wena njengentombazane encane, ubheke umhlaba ngamehlo akhe. Yeka indlela okumangalisayo ngayo ilanga elibonakalayo emthonjeni, ukuthi kunjani utshani obukhazimulayo entwasahlobo, ukuthi buzwa kanjani okumnandi ekhaya, ukuthi ujabulela kanjani ukuhleka eduze nabangane bakho abaseduze. Vumela intombazane ukudlala kancane ngezinye izikhathi. Akakhononda ngokuntuleka kwamandla futhi uzokujabulela ukuhlanganyela nomoya wakhe omnandi namandla!

Ukuphila ngencazelo kubalulekile
Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi yilokhu okushiwo yinzalo ngathi. Eqinisweni, incazelo yikho eyenza impilo ilalele nsuku zonke. Zigcwalise ngokwakho: upheke ukuzijabulisa, wenze ubuciko, uhambe, uthandaze, ucabange ngezinto ezinhle, ukubonga indawo yonke ngalokho onakho. Kulula kakhulu, akunjalo? Kodwa uma uzama ukuphila, ujabule yonke imizuzu, ekupheleni kosuku uzizwa ukhululekile, futhi ungakhathali. Ngakho sihamba ngendlela efanele.