Kodwa-ke, akubona bonke abantu ababelana ngentshiseko yethu, futhi kuhle, uma bengakwenzi, ngezinye izikhathi abathandekayo bethu, basitshela ngokoqobo ngobuwula babo futhi banandaba nokubonakala! Futhi thina singabantu besifazane, izidalwa ezifihlakeleyo, futhi asikwazi ukubekezelela ubudlova obunjalo obuhle ngokumelene nenhle eceleni! Ngakho-ke, noma ngubani kithi obhekene nale nkinga, kwaphakama umbuzo, indlela yokuthola indoda ukuba igqoke kahle?
Ngenxa yobulungiswa, kufanele kuqashelwe lapha ukuthi maduzane ukunambitheka kwamadoda wonke kuthuthuka. Ngezinye izikhathi kunabantu abahlukene, phakathi kwabantu besilisa, ukujwayela ngokobulili bobulili obuhlukile, abanomqondo wemfashini nomqondo wesitayela, konke kulungile, futhi uma lo muntu efika kuwe, ungajabula nje. Bonke abanye besifazane bangakwazi ukweluleka ngezindlela ezimbalwa ukuze indoda yakho igqoke kahle!
Inombolo yokwamukela 1. Bond ... uJames Bond.
Amafilimu nezinkanyezi ze-movie manje zinomthelela omkhulu ekwakheni imfashini nokuqonda isitayela kuzilaleli. Futhi yilokho oqonda ukuthi kuyadingeka ukusebenzisa, esihlokweni salesi sihloko, njengesibonelo samadoda, i-agent 007, uJames Bond (isibonelo, indoda efanelwe noma iyiphi i-movie hero, ene-suti enhle). Into eyinhloko lapha ukuthi le hero hero movie wayengumuntu wangempela, ikakhulukazi emehlweni umlingani wakho. Ukuthi le ndoda ayikho nganoma yikuphi ukucabanga ukuthi uzama ukumnciphisa isimiso sesilisa (ngisho noma kuphela izingubo), ngakho-ke kulula ukuyikhombisa kumaqhawe anesibindi nesibindi, ngokuzibophezela ngokufanele nezicathulo ezihlambulukile njalo. Into ebaluleke kaningi lapho ebukela uchungechunge lwakhe oluthandayo lwaBodiana (abangane baka-Ocean, izikhathi ezingu-17 zentwasahlobo) naye ukhuluma ngokuthi u-Sean Konery ohloniphekile futhi ohlelekile (uGeorge Clooney, Tikhonov) ugqoke. Futhi lo muntu ngokwakhe. Ngokungazi lutho ufuna ukubukeka njengabo, futhi ngokufanele bagqoke njengabo.
Inombolo yokuthola 2. Izipho, kuhle njalo.
Madoda, banjengabantwana abakhulu, njalo badonsela esifubeni futhi bathande izipho. Ngakho-ke, unganqikazi ukunikeza le ndoda izingubo! Futhi cela ukuthi uma uphuma ndawonye endaweni ethile, ugqoka izinto owamnike zona, hhayi ama jeans ayethandayo amadala kanye nejubane elinamahloni okuzilibazisa. Chaza ukuthi uzojabula ukubona ukuthi uthwala izipho zakho. Futhi uma uhlangana isikhathi eside, ungakwazi ukuqoqa ngempela othandekayo wakho, ikhabethe elihle nelesitayela. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kuyamukeleka ngempela ukuba ahambe ebuka ibhola nabangani, hhayi ezicathulweni ozinike zona, kodwa emasakeni akhe amadala.
Inombolo yokwamukela 3. Ukuhamba okuhlangene ekugqokeni izingubo.
Uma umuntu enesimo sengqondo, kodwa uthengisa izingubo, uNkulunkulu akavumelani, emakethe yokugqoka noma emakamelweni eseduzane eseduzane endlini, ngeke kumsindise. Ngoba bangaki abangafungi ngodayi, futhi akusekho idayimane lapho. Ngakho-ke, uma edinga okuthile kusuka ezembathweni, cela ukuthi ahambe nawe ezitolo zakho ozithandayo, ngoba kunezinhlobo eziningi zezingubo ezingabizi futhi ezihle ezikhiqiza amaqoqo omabili nabesifazane. Uma usebenzisa le nqubo, imikhankaso ehlangene yezingubo, kubalulekile ukuzilawula ekuqaleni kwalolu hambo olunzima. Sinomsebenzi wokufundisa umuntu ezembathweni ezinhle, ezinhle futhi uthuthukise umqondo wesitayela, futhi ungamsabisi kulezi zitolo, ukuthi uyithengisa ngokushesha, futhi amahora angu-1,5 azama ngama-blouses. Ngakho-ke, ukuthenga okudingekayo akufanele kuthathe imizuzu engaphezu kuka-20-30. Umuntu omningi futhi ongakulungele ngeke asinde.
Nazi ezinye zezindlela ezikuvumela ukuba uqondise indoda endleleni efanele futhi ezokwenza ukuthi agqoke kahle. Ngokuqinisekile akuzona zonke, futhi ungazihlanganisa ngokuphepha futhi wengeze ngokwakho. Into esemqoka ayizami ukubeka ingcindezi enkulu kumuntu, kumele afune, bese efunda ukuthi agqoke kanjani kahle.