Ungakwenza kanjani umbono omuhle kumamazala wakho?
Ukulungiselela umhlangano nomamazala osasa kuyodinga imizamo eminingi engqondweni nangokomzwelo. Into esemqoka - ungesabi. Uma ekuqaleni imizwa yakho ingalungile, akukho lutho oluzovela kulo. Ngethemba ukuthi ukwakha isimo nomuntu owanele futhi ovamile, hhayi nonina. Phela, esikhathini esizayo ngeke uhlale nomamazala, kodwa naye.
Cabanga ngokubukeka kwakho, futhi lokhu kuqala ngezingubo, izicathulo kanye nokuqeda nge-manicure. Awazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukukhetha izingubo, ngakho uziqinisekise. Ukubukeka kwakho kufanele kube kuhle futhi kungabonakali. Futhi kule ndaba udinga ukulalela umbono womlingani wakho. Ukuze angazami ukukutshela ngomama wakhe, lokhu kungukuphela kombono wakhe, futhi kuyiphutha.
Ukwenza okwesikhashana akufanele kungabi yizinsolo. Gcizelela kancane amehlo akho, futhi lokho kuzokwanela. Indlela umamazala wakho wesikhathi esizayo azobona ngayo ukulungiswa kwabesifazane, hhayi ukuzitika ngokweqile. Umuntu udinga ukunikezwa isikhathi sokujwayela wena. Futhi kuphela esikhathini esizayo uzozivumela ngokwengeziwe ekuziphatheni, nasekwakhekeni, nasezingutsheni.
Ngokuqondene nezicathulo, kudingeka ukhethe okuhlukile futhi ukhululekile, okuzokuvumela ukuba uhlale ukhululekile futhi ukhululekile. Ungalokothi ugqoke izicathulo ezintsha. Ihora elizayo, awukwazi ukususa inkulumo yokuhlupheka ebusweni bakho. Yini engayichazwa kabi yi-interlocutors.
Umngani wakho kufanele abukeke njengesitayela sakho ngokufanele. Usuvele umbhangqwana, futhi kufanele ukhethe izingubo ndawonye. Umama endodaneni yakhe uhlale ebona indoda enhle. Futhi lapho efika emhlanganweni othandekayo wakhe, kodwa ephethe i-T-shirt, uzobe enecala, lokho akuzange kuthinte isinqumo sakhe. Futhi aziwa ukuthi yimiphi imibono ezovela ekhanda lakhe kulesi simo. Okungenani, qiniseka ukuthi izingubo zakhe nezindlovu zakhe zihle.
Ukuzijwayeza kokuqala
Futhi ekugcineni, kufika isikhathi lapho uhlangabezane nalokhu kubheka umama wakho wesikhathi esizayo. Ungesabi, khumbula ukuzithoba. Yithi, smile futhi ubuke amehlo akhe. Zama ukujabulisa umkhwekazi wakho. Yenza ukuncoma okulinganiselwe nokucabangela. Ungabheki kude, kungenjalo umkhwekazi wakho uzothatha isinqumo sokuthi ungaphatha, futhi kuphela lapho uzothola isiqondiso esibalulekile emkhayeni wendodana nendodana yakhe. Kudingeka kwenziwe ukuthi aqonde ukuthi uzothi "ngokulingana". Ungavumeli ukuzwakalisa nokuzwakalisa ithoni umsindo ohlangothini lwakhe. Kodwa awuthathi isikhundla esicasulayo nesizivikelo. Ungafaki iphuzu lakho lokubuka, lokhu akuphumelelanga. Kodwa lapha ukucabanga kwentombazane encane nengenangqondo izokhunjulwa isikhathi eside.
Kufanele uqaphele inkulumo yakho nezwi, kufanele kulinganiswe futhi kuthule. Ungazijwayeza kusengaphambili, ungasusa usuku ngaphambi komhlangano, bese uhamba nomngane wakho ukuhlaziya lokho okubonayo. Umngani uzohlola ngokulinganisa ukuziphatha kwakho futhi ukhombise amaphutha ongazokwazi ukuwabona. Erekhodini, bheka isimo esicatshangelwayo, izwi, izibonakaliso, ubuso obuso. Cabanga ngamandla akho nobuthakathaka, futhi yini engagcizelelwa.
Ukuziphatha kwakho komuntu siqu kungathinta ubuhlobo bakho besikhathi esizayo. Zama ukuthatha umkhwezala wakho. Yiqiniso, umbono wakhe ngomfazi ezimweni eziningi awugunyazi, kepha amanzi agaya leli tshe. Futhi esikhathini esizayo uzokhonza. Futhi kanjani ukuheha umuntu kumakhelwane akhe, intuitively uyazi noma yimuphi intombazane.
Ngokuhlaselwa okuncane ungazami ukuzivikela, ngisho noma umbono womamazala ungamukeleki kuwe. Kuzosho nje ukuthi uzothola okuthile. Gxila ezimweni ezinhle zomyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo. Mdumise, kodwa ngokulinganisela kuphela, imikhuba yakhe, ukukhulisa, kodwa emhlanganweni wokuqala ungasho ukuthi izilinganiso zomlingani. Uma ukhona emhlanganweni waqala ukufunda ingqondo yokucabanga, yiba nesineke, ulalele ukuphela ngokuzikhandla okuphakanyisiwe. Siyabonga yonke imibono evezwe futhi ebaluleke kakhulu.
Sifunde indlela yokwenza umqondo omuhle kumamazala omusha ozaziyo kuqala. Kodwa uma kusihlwa akuhambanga kahle? Kodwa usuvele wazi ukuthi yini okudingeka ukwenze ukuze unqobe umndeni wakhe, uma konke lokho kuwufanelekile ukuqhubeka ulwa nomlingani wakho.