Indlela yokwenza uthando ngendlela efanele, kufanele kube yikuphi ukuqala

Funda isayensi yokugqugquzela ukukhathazeka kwanoma yikuphi kithi, ufuna nje ukuthola okuningi kusuka ocansini!
Emculweni, igama elithi "prelude" lisho umsebenzi wokuqala ngaphambi kokwakhiwa okuyinhloko. Ngothando, konke kuyafana: kuyinto encane kakhulu, okulungiselela wena nomuntu wakho ukuba ujabulele kakhulu.
Lalela kuphela wena
Prelude - yilokho okuholela ekuthandaneni naye emcimbini wobulili. Ukudansa, ukushisa okubuhlungu, ukugeza okuhlangene, isidlo sakusihlwa endaweni yokudlela, i-caresses esheshayo e-elevator, izinyembezi eziyimfihlo ezindaweni eziningi ... Konke okwenza igazi ligijime ngokushesha. Bheka "umdlalo wakho" futhi ungaxoshanga ngokukhethekile amazinga. Bathi ... isandulelo sekhwalithi kufanele sigcine okungenani amaminithi angu-15, ngaphandle kwalokho owesifazane ngeke akulungele imidlalo emnandi.

Ngempela. Akukhona isikhathi eside, kodwa ngokusebenza kahle. Ngokuqinisekile kwadingeka ukuba uqhaqheke ukubuka nje umuntu oye wazizwa. Futhi uma ethinta, ubamba izindebe zakhe entanyeni yakhe, imilenze yakhe ibuthakathaka. Futhi akukho okunye okudingekayo ngaphandle kweyodwa-ukugijimela emathangeni omunye nomunye.
Njengomthetho, lokhu kwenzeka ekuqaleni kwezinkulumano ezinobudlova. Lapho izintshisekelo ziphela, sekuyisikhathi sokujabulisa omunye nomunye nge-caresses ehlukahlukene kanye namasu. Futhi la mizuzu engu-15 edume kakhulu iyoba yiphunga elimnandi ngoba bobabili!
Bathi ... zonke lezi zinto zokulungiselela zidingwa kuphela kwabesifazane, futhi amadoda aphethe kahle ngaphandle kwabo. Ngempela. Uma oshade naye ekhulile futhi ezwela kakhulu, kudingeka adlale kakhulu futhi abe nesisa. Emadodeni abasha nabangenalwazi, isifiso sobulili sigqugquzela konke, futhi badinga umeluleki othintekayo ukuze afunde indlela yokulawula ukuzikhandla kwawo futhi angajabuli umphumela kuphela, kodwa futhi nenqubo yokudubula umlilo wokuthanda.

Bathi ... ngesikhathi sandulela udinga ukulandela ukulandelana okuthile: ukubanga kuqala, bese ucindezela. Ngempela. Ngokwemvelo, izilwane eziningi nezinyoni zigcina ngokucophelela ukuhlelwa kwezinyathelo zothando: uma i-crane ingagcwalisi inani elidingekile lemicibisholo nokujuluka, ngeke livunyelwe emzimbeni. Kodwa ama-cranes avumela ukuzwela okunjalo kuphela kanye ngonyaka. Futhi uhlangana nomuntu wakho embhedeni kaningi. Ukuphindaphinda ubusuku emva kobusuku umkhuba ofanayo wawuzoba ngukunganaki.

Mfundise ukuthanda
Uma iqhawe lakho lingenamandla eqenjini lokuqala, khona-ke akusho kahle ukuthi umehluko phakathi "kokungathandwa" nokushisa ngesithandwa owesifazane. Mbonise umehluko! Phakamisa umdlalo wothando lapho kukhona "cha" ezimbili kuphela: akasuseli iziqu futhi akahambisani nesinyathelo esinqunyiwe. Ungenza noma yini oyifunayo.

Ukuqondisa: thatha isandla sakhe, uyibambe phezu kwamahlombe akho, esifubeni, ufake i-hip yakho - ncamashi ngendlela oyithandayo. Indoda izokuqonda ngokushesha ukuthi yini edingekayo kuye.
Lure: caress, kiss futhi busheleleze ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuhlekisa futhi ukudukisa.
Escape: uma ezama ukuwuthatha isinyathelo kuqala, ungamvumeli ukuba akwenze. Ukumelana kancane, bese unikezela. Mathinte izandla noma izindebe, kodwa okwesikhashana nje.
Futhi uma uzwa ukuthi ukhathazekile ngothando, ake ulungele noma yini. Uyomangala kakhulu. Khona-ke qiniseka ukuthi utshele othandekayo wakho ukuthi lobu busuku bukhunjulwa kakhulu, ngokuqondile ngoba wakwazi ngempela "ukukushayela". Uzobona: uzofuna ukuphinda uphinde uqale.

Ungaphuli umdlalo
I-prelude njalo i-improvisation encane. Ungayiphathi kabi nge-monotony: uma uhlale ugijimela ngemuva noma uwanga embindeni yakho, uzobe ubuthongo obumnandi, futhi ungashisi ngothando. Ukubikezela akufanelekile: uma othandekayo wakho ehamba njalo emgwaqeni ofanayo "izindebe-isifuba," mcele ukuthi ashintshe, agweme okungenani iphuzu elilodwa. Futhi, yebo, cima amafoni - asikho isidingo sokuphazamiseka kwangaphandle.