Akusikho isikhathi esiningi esisele kuze kube seholidini elinde isikhathi eside - uNyaka Omusha. Iholidini elikhanyayo, lomndeni. Usigqugquzela ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ngonyaka ozayo uzogcwalisa amaphupho ethu, sizofeza okuthile ekuphileni. Omunye uzokwenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo, othile uzothola isigamu sakhe sesibili. Wonke umuntu amaphupho nemicabango yonyaka ozayo ahlukile. Ukuze uzenzele kwangempela, ungalindeli isimangaliso, kubalulekile ukuba usebenze, uhlose imigomo, uphikelela, ujabule. Into eyinhloko akumele uhlale ungenzi lutho, futhi zonke izinhlelo zizofika kuwe.
Yebo, kusihlwa kweholidi ngokwalo kudingekile ukuba ujabule kusuka enhliziyweni, ukhohlwe ngazo zonke izinkinga nokuhlambalaza. Sonke sinesitoko sokwethaba, okwesibili silungele ukwabelana nezwe nokuzungezile. Futhi mangaki amaholide ngamunye wethu anakho?
Cabanga nje: wanikezwa ngephosta ngokuhalalisela, izithombe ezihlekisayo, ezihlotshiswe ngezimbali namabhola. Usuku lonke uhlonipha lokhu kudalwe kwabalingani (abakufuywayo), bese sekuyisikhathi sokuyibeka endaweni ethile. Ubeke e-oda elilandelanayo?
- Hlala endaweni evelele. Futhi yikuphi - kuhle, kumnandi, vumela yonke imizwa!
- Beka ekhoneni lakho ukuze kungabikho omunye ozoliphonsa emehlweni akhe.
- Beka etafuleni ukuze ubuke isikhathi sesikhathi.
- Beka ekamelweni, emgodini we-memorabilia, ukuze kungabikho isipho esonakele.
Iholide nsuku zonke
Abantu balolu hlobo badonsela phambili ngefomu elingaphandle elimibalabala lokuziphatha okukhethekile: cishe sonke isikhathi abomomothekayo, amahlaya, ukuxhumana. Umthombo ongenamkhawulo wokuthokozisa wena kanye nalabo abasondelene nabo. Kubonakala sengathi ukuphila kwabo kunjengokungakhathazeki. Kodwa kanjani ngempela? Abesifazane abanjalo, ngempela endleleni, bayakwazisa isimo sengqondo esibucayi ekuphileni kwabanye, ngokuvamile bonke abesifazane baya emadodeni abanomkhuba onzima, ngisho nobunzima. Ngenhlanhla, amandla abo enjabulo akwazi ukuphela. Ngisho nendaba yabangani mayelana nobudlova bomndeni we vih izandi umsindo njenge-anecdote.
Uneholidi elingaphezulu kunabantu abaningi
Kodwa ngaphandle akusobala ngaso sonke isikhathi - awuyena umuntu ovulekile kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho kufika izinsuku ezimpunga, lokhu kubonakala njengokudumazeka ngisho nokuqala kweqembu elimnyama. Futhi abantu abakuzungezile bavame ukucabanga ukuthi baphanga yonke into ... Kubalulekile ukuwachazela: lokhu kungukungena kwesikhashana nje, uhlobo lokuphumula kwesistimu yezinzwa. Futhi kubonakala ngokucacile ukukhombisa umoya wakho ophakeme. Futhi leli holide lizocaca.
Iholidi alanele - kufanele sibe nokuningi
Futhi ngisho nasekujuleni komphefumulo kunomhawu omncane, uma umuntu enethemba elihle kakhulu, elijabulisayo nelula ngokuphila. Kukhona izinto ezingaphazanyisisi isimo (ukuzijabulisa, ukuzijabulisa nabangani, ezemidlalo), kodwa-ke, hhayi isikhathi eside. Ukuphila kanjani "ngenkathi" ngokuzizwa kweholidi? Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukulungisa isimo senjabulo ephelele, khumbula, bese uhamba ngesonto lonke ubuyele kulo mbuso bese uzama ukuyibuyisela kabusha.
Iholide "ngezinyembezi emehlweni ami"
Usuku lokuzalwa luyiholide elidabukisayo, ngoba uba unyaka omdala. Unyaka Omusha iholide elidabukisayo ngoba ingane ikhunjulwa.Abanye bangasho lutho ... Ukuqhuma kwenjabulo kwenzeka ngokungajwayelekile ukuthi bayesaba: "Kungani ngizijabulisa? Angihle." Ukwesaba okunjalo akuhlanganisi nje kuphela nezici zobuntu, kodwa futhi nokuzihlonipha okuncane Umuntu ekujuleni komphefumulo uyaqiniseka ukuthi "njengoye" akufanele neze iholidi. Lokhu kuvimbela ubuhlobo nabanye - ayikho ithemba. Zama ukubuka umhlaba ngokuhlukile! Ukwengeza nje umsebenzi wokuphila, kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, futhi ngenhla ubambe ikhanda, futhi ngokoqobo.