Ngikholelwa ukuthi amehlo omuntu avuliwe, ngisho nangaphansi komfaniswano angabona ubulili besifazane. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi izilinganiso zesilisa zokukhangwa ngokocansi zihluke kakhulu ekuhloleni kwabesifazane. Uma abamele ubulili obufanele ngaphansi kobulili kusho inani lazo zonke izici, kufaka phakathi izinga lemali engenayo, ikhwalithi yezobuchwepheshe (indlela umuntu agcina ngayo phakathi kwabalingani bakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unayo izimfanelo zobuholi ezingathandabuzeki ezithinta iningi labesifazane), khona-ke amadoda athembele kakhulu kwizimfanelo zangaphandle. Ngakho-ke, ngemva kokuphenya imibuzo ye-muzhchin engashadile ayizinkulungwane eziyishumi nambili, abacwaningi bathole imiphumela elandelayo. Khumbula ukuthi bonke babuza into eyodwa kuphela: "Yikuphi emisebenzini yezinsikazi oyithokozisa kakhulu?"
Umphathi wesifazane
Phakathi "kokuningi kakhulu" kwakuwumsebenzi onjalo wesifazane njengomholi. Njengoba kwenzeka, amanye amadoda akhangwa abesifazane abakhulu abakwazi ukuthatha izinto ngezandla zabo. Kodwa iningi labameleli besigamu esiphezulu kunazo zonke sichaza ngokukhetha kwabo ngokuthi abesifazane abahlala ezikhundleni ezihola, bazi ukuthi yini abayifunayo, bayakwazi ukuvimbela imizwelo yabo futhi bangangeni kumahlaya. Bazuze ekuphileni konke ababekufunayo futhi kulula kakhulu kuzo zonke izinhlelo. Futhi amadoda, njengoba uyazi, abathandi ngempela ubudlelwane bawo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukufeza lowo wesifazane ngeke kube lula, kodwa ukubunzima kwabesilisa kuyayithanda.
Imodeli
Ubani owayengabaza ukuthi uhlu lwezobuchwepheshe obuseduze luyoba "izintombi zokumboza." Kodwa asikwazi ukusikisela ukuthi naphezu kwemibono ekhona, amantombazane abahamba ngemfashini ayethandeka futhi ayenomusa, amadoda angeke ashesha ukubopha nabo. Amaphesenti angamashumi ayisithupha nanhlanu kulabo abathintekayo athi ukudla okudliwayo, isikhathi eside, ukuqeqeshwa okuqhubekayo kwamantombazane kulo msebenzi bekuvame ukwesaba abameli besilisa.
Umlingisi
Ubuhle beHollywood ngisho nemikhonto yethu yasekhaya, yebo, ukuheha amadoda. Kodwa ngisho nalabo abamele iqhaza eliqinile lomuntu benza iphuzu, bathi umdlali wezemidlalo - kuhle, kodwa esikrinini. Ukuhlukanisa ubuhle bakhe ezigidini zabakhulekeli bekunganqunywa yedwa. Ngakho-ke, abadlali be-actress bahlala beyiphupho eliyigugu, uhlobo oluhle lokuthi intombazane ethandekayo kufanele ihambisane nayo. Uma ukukhuluma amagama alula amadoda angathanda ukubona emibhedeni yabo umuntu oyedwa, kodwa kuphela ku-Angelina Jolie.
Umklami wesifazane
Amadoda abheka ubulili ajulile kunokubukeka okuhle, bakhetha ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo, okuyiqiniso, okufaka phakathi "okwakhiwa" okhethekile. I-Strong-humanism eqinile ibheka ukuthi lo msebenzi ungathembeka, futhi umsebenzi onjalo ungakhethwa ngabesifazana, abangathembela kubo ebuhlotsheni.
Utitjhere
Enye indaba yokucabanga ngezocansi kuyisithombe somfundisi. Banobudlelwane, bafundiswe futhi bahlakaniphile, kodwa akakhiwa yizingane zakithi ezingathandi izingane, ngeke zakha ubuhlobo obunzima.
Ummeli wesifazane
Bonke abesifazane bangazivikela futhi basolise, kusegazini lethu. Kodwa lapha kunikezwa ngokusemthethweni futhi ngempumelelo hhayi bonke abamele ubulili obuhle. Ukusetshenziswa kwemithombo, ukusabela okusheshayo, ukuhlakanipha nokuqonda kwengqondo ekhethekile - yilokho abantu abaningi abakubheka ngokocansi kwabesifazane besifazane.
Umhlengikazi
Amantombazane asezingubo ezimhlophe adonsela amadoda njalo. Bahlanzekile, bahlakaniphile, ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo abakhethiwe baziphatha kahle kakhulu. Ukugqoka izingubo zokugqoka ezingavamile nokukwazi ukwelapha noma yikuphi ukugula kubenza kube yiziphokazi ezifunwa kakhulu kunazo zonke. Kunzima ukumelana nephupho lakho lokubona intombazane yakho emgqeni omhlophe omhlophe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yimuphi umsebenzi, cishe wonke umuntu.
Umlobi
Abesifazane abanjalo banomphakathi, ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo bangathola ulimi oluvamile nanoma yimuphi umuntu. Banolimi, umbono obanzi, izithakazelo ezihlukahlukene. Kulula ukugibela, bangakwazi ukuzivumelanisa ngokushesha endaweni engavamile futhi abazami ukuzama konke okusha.
Umphathi
Enani lezisebenzi eziqhamuka kakhulu "ubuchwepheshe" be-air "nabo" bawa. Ekuseni eParis, futhi sidle eMadrid ... Ubani ongafuni ukuba nomuntu onothando kangaka. Kubalulekile futhi ukuba intombazane enhle kakhulu, enhle nehlakaniphile ingathatha isikhundla somphathi, umsebenzi wakhe ukukhonza iklayenti ngokugcwele. Lesi simiso sokukhetha sihambisana ngokuphelele nesimiso sokukhetha kwamadoda abalingani bezocansi.
Umlindi
Ukuze ukhethe lo msebenzi, akekho namantombazane asheshayo, futhi akekho lutho. I-waitress ehlaba umxhwele futhi ehehayo idonsela amadoda angaphansi kwesigqila noma umhlengikazi. Ukubhoboza okunempilo, ukuxhumaneka, ukukhangisa, ikhono lokuphakamisa imizwelo kuphela ngokuba khona kwabo yisikhali esiyinhloko samantombazane asebenza esiteshini somphakathi. Amadoda amaningi ekukhetheni indawo yekhefu lokukhofi aqondiswa ukuthi inkomishi yesiphuzo esishisayo izolethwa ngumlindi omuhle.
UNobhala
Ukuthandwa kwamantombazane kulo msebenzi kubangelwa izizathu ezimbili. Eyokuqala yiyona ndlela yokwenza u-romance wenkonzo, owesibili ukulawula into enesifiso sakho, ngoba unobhala usekukhoneni komphathi wakhe. Okubaluleke kakhulu ikhodi yokugqoka efanele futhi efanelekile yabanobhala. Sekuyisikhathi eside lo msebenzi wawubhekwa njengengqondo futhi unamahloni, isici socansi esivela ekutheni inhloko ngayinye ilala nobhala wakhe. Futhi nakuba namuhla kuleso sikhundla, amantombazane afundisiwe nabaphetheyo aphikisiwe, lo mbono awunakunqotshwa ngokuphelele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengalabo abathintekayo, unobhala akayena omubi, umlumbi empeleni ubhekene nenkampani.
Umqeqeshi Wokufaneleka
Ukhangayo ngokuqondile ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe. Intombazane eyenza abantu nsuku zonke ibe mncane futhi enhle, futhi yona kufanele ibe isibonelo sokulingisa. Ukwazi ukuthi ehholo ulindelwe ubuhle obuhle obuhle, kungumuthi wokungena emidlalweni? Amanye amadoda azakhele wona ngokwawo njengenjabulo, kodwa umqeqeshi omuhle ebhekene nentombazane emangalisa wabakhathalela, ikakhulukazi njengoba ummeleli wezocansi ekulungele ukulungisa nokulungisa ukungalungi, okwenza umuntu aqaphele ngokukhethekile.
Intombazane ngayinye ikhangisa ngendlela yakhe. Ngisho noma ungewona owodwa wemisebenzi engenhla, lokhu akusho ukuthi ubulili bakho abuqine ngokwanele. Ngikholelwa ukuthi abesifazane banesibindi esikhulu samagama, ngenxa yokuthi bangayenga umuntu.