Thola isipiliyoni sokuqala socansi samantombazane nabafana baqala eminyakeni ehlukene. Ukulinganisa iminyaka yobudala ngokuvamile kuyisigaba esiphakathi kweminyaka engu-17-21. Kulesi sikhathi, uthando lokuqala luhlangene, kanti inqubo yokukhulelwa iphela. Zonke lezi zici zenza ubulili kungabi yingozi kuphela empilweni, kodwa futhi kuyasiza. Yiqiniso, kuyadingeka ukuthi sikhulume ngalokhu ngengqondo, futhi siyaqonda yonke imithwalo yemfanelo futhi ungakhohlwa ngokubeletha.
Ngakho wanquma ukuthatha lesi sinyathelo. Into eyinhloko ukuthi yisinqumo sakho, hhayi abangane, izintombi noma umfana ophikelela. Amantombazane akhathazeke kakhulu ngombuzo owodwa kuphela: "Ingabe kubuhlungu intombazane ukuba ilale ngokocansi okokuqala?". Kuye esizozama ukuphendula manje.
Kanjani?
Yiqiniso, njengoba inqubo uqobo iqhubeka, usuwazi isikhathi eside usuvele ufunda, usufunde izincwadi eziningi, ngemva kokubuka ividiyo noma ezindabeni zabangane abanolwazi oluthe xaxa. Kodwa usenemibuzo eminingi ongayiphendula ngokuthatha lesi sinyathelo esibalulekile. Kodwa kunama-nuances amaningana okufanele acatshangelwe, ukuze isipiliyoni sakho sokuqala siphumelele. Phela, lokhu kungase kuxhomeke ekunakekeleni ukwedluliswa kobulili. Ukukhulumisana naleso sihloko kungenzeka futhi ngomama, uma kukhona kuwe ukucabanga okuyimfihlo, noma ukubonisana nodokotela. Ngikholelwa, isicelo sakho ngeke sibonakale singanele, futhi uzothola kalula izimpendulo ezidingekayo.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu isimo sakho. Kufanele ube sezwe elijabule kakhulu, kungenjalo inqubo yokuhlunga kuyoba nzima ngenxa yokungabi nalutho olwanele lokugcoba kwemvelo, futhi ngaphandle kokuzwa okungajabulisi, ngeke uzwe lutho. Ungasheshi futhi uphikisane, ngakho-ke zama ukuchitha konke uma uqiniseka ukuthi ngeke uvinjelwe. Qala nge-caresses ephathekayo, noma njengoba kuthiwa yi-petting. Uma umlingani wakho enolwazi oluningi, ake akubonise ukunakwa nokuzwela okungaphezulu, futhi ngeke aqale kuze kube yilapho usukulungele ngokuphelele. Ungesabi uma isikhathi esengeziwe sidingeka kulokhu. Njengomlingani, ukuba nolwazi kufanele uthathe umthwalo wakho ngokwakho okokuqala. Ungakhohlwa mayelana nokukhetha okuphumelelayo kwe-pos, isimo esikhulu okufanele sibe ukuphumula okuphelele komzimba wakho. Kusukela ithuba lokuphumuza futhi izici zakho zomzimba zizonquma izinga lokungahambi kahle. Umlingani wakho kufanele aqonde ukuthi kuyamzwisa ubuhlungu intombazane okokuqala, kufanele alalele izifiso zakhe futhi angasheshi, noma ngabe kunesidingo ukuyeka uphinde uhlehlise konke kuze kube sesikhathini esilandelayo.
Ukuzizwa.
Okokuqala, ake sikhumbule ukuthi iyiphi inqubo yokuzihlobisa ngokwayo. Ukuhlukunyezwa, noma ukulahlekelwa ukungabi namlandu - ukuhlukana kwe-hymen, ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi okokuqala. Izindaba ukuthi le nqubo ihambisana nobuhlungu obukhulu negazi akulona iqiniso. Eqinisweni, uma konke kwenziwa ngokunembile nangendlela efanele, khona-ke kuyoba nenkinga encane. Kukhona amacala ahlukile uma isikhala sichithwa ngokwawo ezemidlalo, noma mhlawumbe asikho nhlobo, ngenxa yecala lokuphila. Ngakho-ke, ngokuvamile ngokuvamile abesifazane abazwa imizwa emibi lapho beya ocansini okokuqala. Futhi umbuzo wokuthi ngabe kubuhlungu yini intombazane ukuthi ilale ocansini okokuqala, phendula "cha" eqinile. Kukhona amacala lapho ukuphambanisa ngokocansi kuqala welula, futhi intombazane ingahle ilahlekelwe yintombi emva kwesibili.
Kuphi okungcono ukwenza lokhu?
Emaphupheni abo, iningi lamantombazane lidweba izithombe zobuhlobo bobusuku bokuqala nabathandekayo babo, lapho kuvame khona umbhede omkhulu, i-champagne, i-rose petals, amakhandlela nokunye ukuthandana. Kodwa empilweni lokhu kwenzeka ngokungajwayelekile, kanti ubulili bokuqala buyadumaza umuntu omusha. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlela ukwenza lokhu, khuluma nomlingani wakho mayelana nendawo lapho ubulili obufunayo buyokwenzeka khona. Kungcono uma unendawo yokuhlala ehlukile, futhi unesiqinisekiso esigcwele sokuthi akekho oyokukhathaza usuku lonke, noma ebusuku. Kubalulekile ukuthi kube khona ishayela elifudumele, nombhede okhululekile, nakho konke okudingayo, okufaka amathawula nethente ehlanzekile. Ukuzama ukuhlelwa kwezindawo nezindawo okokuqala akufanelekile. Zibophezele ekushintsheni kokuthunywa kwezithunywa zevangeli kanye nombhede oshisayo. Ungalahlekelwa ubuntombi bakho emanzini, ikakhulukazi uma kungokwemvelo yamanzi, noma ukugeza okuvamile. Yiqiniso, amanzi azokusiza ukuba uphumule, futhi ususe amanye ubuhlungu, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kukhona i-leaching ye-lubricant yemvelo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ukutheleleka.
Ngabe umsebenzi wezocansi kufanele uqale nini?
Uma sishiya izici zokuziphatha nezokuziphatha zalolu daba, ke lezo kuphela ezisekelwe ezicikweni zomzimba zihlala zixwayisa. Emantombazaneni, ukukhulelwa kuyasondela eminyakeni eyi-18-21, kanti ama-hymen kanye nezindonga zangasese zakhiwe ngokuphelele. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, i-spice ilulazeka kalula, iba yinkimbinkimbi futhi inyembezi ngaphandle kobuhlungu. Lesi sikhathi siphelela eminyakeni engama-26. Ngemuva kwalesi sizukulwane se-hymen iba nesisindo esincane, futhi ukuhlukanisa nobuntombi, isibonelo, eminyakeni engama-30, kuyoba nzima nakakhulu kunokungama-20. Ngaphambi kwesikhathi sokuqala, futhi kungenzeka kuhambisane nobuhlungu obengeziwe.
Enye iqiniso elilingayo, lokho angeke liphuthumayo imiphumela yezifundo ezenziwa phakathi kwabesifazane abaneminyaka ehlukene. Ngakho-ke, ubulili obuhle, obunempilo yobulili baqala eminyakeni engu-16 ngaphambili, babhekana ne-orgasm yabo yokuqala, emva kweminyaka emihlanu engama-5-6 yokuphila ngokocansi, kanti labo abalahlekelwa ubuntombi babo eminyakeni eyi-18-25, bazizwa bephezulu kakhulu izinga lokuzijabulisa ngemuva kweminyaka eyi-1,5-2.
Lapho, ukuthi ungayisebenzisa nobani ubusuku bakho bokuqala - kungcono kuwe, umthetho omkhulu akufanele ugijimise, ulungele noma yini futhi uyenze ngempela ngomuntu onothando noqondayo. Phela, awufuni neze ukuthola umqondo omubi.