Ukuzikhandla
• Ukuvezwa - isici esikuvumela ukuthi umise ukuzwakalisa imizwelo, imicabango, ukuze ungagcini isimo esinzima, ukuvimbela imiphumela emibi;
• ukuzimisela - ikhono lokwenza izinqumo ezisheshayo, ezinolwazi futhi eziqinile empilweni.
Hamba uye phambili
Ukuthuthukisa lezi zimfanelo ngokwazo kuwumsebenzi wangempela, into esemqoka ukufuna futhi uqale ukwenza kahle. Kanjani? Kulula!
Isinyathelo esingu-1. Kuzo isinyathelo ukuxhumana. Ngaphandle kwalo nganoma iyiphi indlela. Kuphela ngokufunda ukuxhumana nabantu, ukusekela ngobuhlakani ingxoxo, ukubuza ngokufanele imibuzo nokulalela, ekugcineni uzokuzwa amandla okukhombisa isinyathelo. Uzofunda ukuzizwa abanye abantu: uzokwazi ukuthi yini abayifunayo, ukuthi yini abayifunayo. Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu? Isibonelo, kuzo zonke amanyuvesi asezingeni eliphezulu, abadlali bezemfundo bazama ukufundisa indlela yokusebenza nokuxhumana. Futhi lokhu kwenziwa yindlela kuphela: iqembu lithathwa emgwaqeni bese libeka phambi kwabo umsebenzi - isibonelo, ukuze ujwayelane nomfokazi, umcele iseluleko noma afune esihlathini. Zama nawe. Ekuqaleni kuyoba nzima, kodwa ekugcineni uzothola inkululeko yangaphakathi - lesi sinyathelo sizoba yikhwalithi ecacile.
Isinyathelo 2. Funda ukuthatha umthwalo wemisebenzi yazo. Yiqiniso, lokhu kungenye yezigaba ezinzima kakhulu. Ngempela, sonke siyizingane eshaweni, futhi sifuna ngempela umama, ubaba, ugogo, umfowenu, bese kuthi indoda, umphathi, ithande wonke umuntu ukuba anqume ngathi. Zama ukuziyeka ngesikhathi futhi ungahambi ezinkathazweni eziseduze, ongayenza futhi uzixazulule wena. Awuyena intshe, efihla ikhanda layo esihlabathini esengozini yokuqala.
Ukuthobeka kwabantu
Ngezingqondo zethu zesiSlavic kunzima kakhulu ukuthatha isinyathelo kuqala ngezandla zethu. Kunezizathu eziningi zalesi simo. Okokuqala, inkolo yethu yobuKristu isifundisa ukuthatha zonke izinjabulo nokuhluleka empilweni njengeqiniso futhi ngokuthobeka. Okwesibili, abantu baseMpumalanga Yurophu bahlukaniswa uthando lwabo lokuzinza nokuzimela. Ngakho-ke kubonakala ukuthi ngokuvumelana nezidingo zezwe lanamuhla, kubalulekile ukuphula izinkolelo ezibekwe kithi kithi amakhulu eminyaka.
Isinyathelo esithathu. Funda ukwenza. Futhi isigaba esiyinhloko, lapho usuvele ulungele ukuhamba ngokomzwelo, usukulungele ukunyakaza, kodwa empeleni kukhona imibono, abalandeli nabasekeli, futhi kufanele nje uhambe ngenhloso yokuthatha isinyathelo. Uvame ukhathazekile ukwesaba. Phela, konke okusha okushaza, futhi akukho isiqinisekiso sokuthi isinyathelo sakho sizosekelwa, ukuthi uhlelo oluhlakaniphile ngeke luhluleke. Kubalulekile ukuveza ngokucacile injongo nenhloso. Isiqalo ebuhlotsheni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sinobuhle noma nobungane, sibheka njalo ukungqubuzana okuningi. Ubani okufanele athathe isinyathelo sokuqala sokubuyisana ngemuva kokuxabana - indoda noma owesifazane? Izazi zengqondo zithi isinyathelo sabesifazane kufanele sithengise ukuze senze okuthile - futhi lokhu kuyisenzo esivamile somuntu owanele. Ukuzikhethela kuhlale kuyakho. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kunoma iyiphi i-adventure okudingeka uyenze, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuzwakala kanjani, isinyathelo sokuqala.
Umzila omuhle
Okokuqala - ucezu olulahlwa. Umuntu othatha umthwalo wemfanelo, uthatha isinyathelo sokuqala ukuhlangana, uvame ukufika ekhanda ... Lokhu kumele kube ngomumo. Njengomthetho, lesi sinyathelo sihlukanisiwe sibe izinhlobo ezinjalo. Emsebenzini - ukuqaliswa kwezinhlelo zabo zokudala, imigomo nemibono. Ubunjiniyela, ukuzimela, intshiseko-imikhomo emithathu ezosiza ekuqapheliseni umqondo wakho kuphela, kodwa futhi ukukhuthaza, hlangana iqembu labangane abaseduze. Kumelwe ube nomgomo ocacile ngokucacile kanye nesisusa, ukuzethemba kanye nesidingo semibono nemigomo yakho, ukulungele izici ezihlukahlukene ezingalindelekile. Zizwa ukhululekile ukuveza imibono yakho, imicabango, ukungabaza, ukuze uzibonakalise njengomuntu. Amadoda ayajabula ukubona ukuthi kukhona umuntu ozowasekela njalo futhi alinde. Khumbula, indoda inesithakazelo kowesifazane onentshisekelo kuye. Kodwa isenzo sobulili esinamandla sibonakala njengokuhleleka kwezinto, ngoba kufanele ziphikelele futhi zinenkani, ziqonde ngqo emgomweni wazo, ikakhulu uma zikhathazeka ngenhliziyo yowesifazane. Kodwa empilweni konke akuyona into elula njengoba uthanda. Futhi amadoda angabantu abafana nabesifazane, futhi banokungabaza kanye nezinkinga. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukucasula okhethile ukuba enze okuthile, masize akhule izimfanelo ezizovula isifiso sokwenza ngesikhathi. Ukulinda ukuthi othile uzoza futhi ashintshe impilo yakho ngokuzumayo - kumangalisa, kwenzeka kuphela ezindabeni zezinganekwane, eqinisweni, ngokushesha noma kamuva uzodingeka wenze izinqumo futhi uzibophezele. Ngakho qaphela! Vele ungawudluli, noma isiteketiso "indiza ecasulayo" akunakwenzeka ukukujabulisa.
Ukukhula kombono
Kuphathelene nobuciko. Ngakho-ke ikhwalithi eyaziwayo yanamuhla idinga kithi izwe lanamuhla elizungezile. Ungayithuthukisa kanjani?
Indawo ethokomele
• Ikhoneni elithulile lapho ungakha noma ucabange ngokuthula ngomqondo wakho. Imicabango emihle kubo bonke abantu abakhulu beza ngqo lapho bezwa khona bekhululekile kakhulu. Isibonelo, i-Descartes enkulu yenza lokho okutholakala elele embhedeni, futhi u-Edison waze walala esibhedlela ukuze avume ngokushesha yonke imibono eyafika engqondweni. UHemingway wayekuthanda ukusebenza emisebenzini yakhe eParis Cafe "Lilac Farm". Kunokuba ubi kakhulu?
I-horizontal
• Siyakwandisa - uma siyazi, sifunda, sivakashele imibukiso ehlukahlukene, ukwenza kahle, sibheke phesheya, sibheka abajwayelene nabo abathandekayo nabasha, kungenzeka ukuthi imibono ezithakazelisayo nezokudala izofika ezingqondweni zethu.
Ukuzilibazisa
• Enye yezindlela ezilula zokuthuthukisa ikhono langaphakathi lokudala. Vumela imiphumela ibe yiyona ingqondo, kodwa ubonise isinyathelo.